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I Believe In Soulmates

Is There Only One?

By: missyg4643
Written on June 22nd, 2010
I found mine and lost mine( soul mate that is) .  It was like on of those silly romantic comedy's where 2 friends are in love and have admitted it the rest of the circle however will not tell the other one. Well stupid me did what most of the girls in my situation are led to believe is a good Idea and I dated someone else. to make him jealous.  I never revealed my true feeling to the man I loved. I married the man i dated and I thought I loved him. A day has never went by when I have not thought of him or wondered how he was and if he were OK. I am now divorced and still wonder about him and miss him everyday.  He moved away shortly after I married someone else. The last thing he ever said to me was at my wedding. he told me I was beautiful and that he would miss me. I recently ran into a mutual friend of ours who told me where he went to live . I looked for him and searched however in the end I decided that I  will never contact him, I am a single mom of 2 kids now and that just would not be fair. I send this message  out tonight as a way of saying that I miss you very much and I think of you often. I hope that I was mistaken and that we were not soul mates and that you have found the love of your life and are experiencing ever happiness that you can and I hope that when your mind wonders to your past you have fond memories of me,


Love always
Me
By: missyg4643
Age: 31-35
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5 responses
  • JuliaLove
    JuliaLove

    I have read a couple of stories here abt ppl letting go of their soul mates, and I cant believe that these ppl dont realise how lucky they are to hve found their better halves. I also find it astonishing that there is a chance that someone can meet or be with their soulmate and actually have the heart to let them go...scares me that someone could do that to me...for i though when I find him our bond will be unbreakable...



    I wish you would contact him and just say hello...

    Apr 6, 2011
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  • Diamond28
    Diamond28

    I agree Destiney sometimes our memories are best to have rather than the person.

    Jun 23, 2010
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  • Diamond28
    Diamond28

    Well I agree with the prior comment with an exception to interfering if he is married. Even if he is struggling in his marriage and appears unhappy that would be wrong because all marriages go threw and just because they do don't mean they are married to the wrong person and need someone else to interfere. That would be the unfair thing. NOT your two children. Because if he's free and really is your soul mate that wont matter. He will love them just as much as he loves you. The situation would only be different if he was actually going threw a divorce and seperate from the spouse. But the right thing would stll be to let him close that door completely before trying to make him open another one. That could be a mess in itself because you would then be in a relationship that may carry old baggage from the prior marriage so be wise.

    Jun 23, 2010
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  • JustBeIt
    JustBeIt

    Your wishes for him are the correct ones, and very healthy and loving of you. I think you should find out if he is married or in a relationship, and if he's not, you need to seek him out. If he is, its a bit more tricky, because it wouldn't be fair to interfere. But, what if he is married, and is genuinely unhappy? That is a different story. You tuff assignment would be to find that out wihtout interferring in his life until you know if he is happy or not. You'd have to have a confidant and mutual friend and explain to that friend that you don't want to screw anything up. Some people might put me down for giving you this advice, but life is so short, why should anyone be living it in an unhappy relationship? People are too afraid to go for happiness. Follow your heart, but use your head.

    Jun 23, 2010
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  • sammy1231
    sammy1231

    Theres only one that you will love forever. That one is the only one. You will find another you feel strong about but you will alwayse think about that one and only. you will miss them but you will be happy with the person you will have in the future. You will move on and you will be happy you did.

    Jun 22, 2010
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