Signs of a Soulmate

I found this and thought of sharing it with you , because its exactly what i felt about someone i met online

  • There is a powerful, instantaneous feeling that you have known the other before.
  • You felt an immediate and deep connection for one another.
  • There is an electrifying feeling between the two of you that words cannot describe.
  • The relationship is immediate, as though no time had been lost since you were last together.
  • It feels as though you had never really lived before the reunion occurred.
  • You feel a deep sense of sacredness and unity with God that you've have never known before.
  • It brings on feelings you never thought possible.
  • The two of you are inseparable.
  • When you look into each other's eyes, time and space have no meaning.
  • There are no barriers between the two of you. The relationship is a totally open one.
  • Your conversations seem to go on forever.
  • The two of you have a strong urge to serve humanity in a deep and meaningful way.
  • You give to the other and never think of receiving in return.
  • There is a special sacredness to your relationship that transcends anything you've ever experienced before.
  • You still have karma with your twin from previous lives, but the two of you resolve it all with total forgiveness and unconditional love.
  • Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self.
  • There is a strong sense of unlimited ness eternity to your feelings.
  • Your feelings for each other are very spiritual
  • There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without the need for ownership or control.
  • The two of you know without doubt that you have been brought together for a reason.
  • You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to be other than who you are.
  • In spite of your sameness, there is no doubt you feel a sense of completion through the other.
  • Trust, patience and acceptance of each other's weaknesses happen automatically.
  • There is a great sense of purpose and meaning to the relationship.
  • Your sexuality with one another is a sacred act that celebrates the unconditional love have for one another.
  • The two of you become more and more one, without losing your individual identities.
  • When you look into the other's eyes, you see yourself.
  • You experience a sense of completeness that is without comparison.
  • The degree of intimacy and friendship the two of you develop is without parallel.
  • You recognize that the two of you are God mates.

There is no doubt that some of the symptoms described above are common to ALL soul mate relationships. What really sets the depth of the union apart from all the rest is the profound degree of completeness experienced and the overwhelming sense of spirituality unique to these partnerships. Two other powerful symptoms of spiritually mature souls is their powerful connection to God and their desire to serve humanity in some meaningful way.

There is also a very sacred sense of intimacy and feeling of divinely inspired wholeness that one finds within a deep soul mate relationship. It is not by accident nor is it without purpose. Rather, it is a magnificent and loving part of our Creator's plan for us. There is no doubt that the intensity behind the soul mate union is more than enough to jump start the journey that will lead us back to our Source, which will happen someday.

lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 57 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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As someone who has found my true and honest soulmate, I could not agree more with your description for "signs of a soulmate." Together we have this drive, this purpose, this bond that truly transcends all else. I most ardently believe in soulmates and hope that every single person, in some life, finds theirs. Because it is truly the most beautiful thing in the world.

Okay i totally believe in soul mates but i have no clue if this is guy is mine. I got his number four days ago and we texted we live in the same town, etc. Me and him had an instant connection it was wierd but cool. Me and him have these realistic dreams and they mean something, our dreams tie together perfectally. We make each other happy and talk all the time now. I want to meet him soon and he said if we are soul mates we would feel some sort of spark. Is that true? Please some one reply:)

I really want to believe in soul mates, but is it real, and what if you do not find your soul mate? I have this big which that i do but it sounds like magic and does that exist? hope that someone will answer.
Love the confused girl :)

Wow, thats sounds amazing and beautiful I really hope I find my soulmate in the future. I really believe in them. <3

Omg, I believe your story, especially the ''electrifying feeling between the two of you that words cannot describe.'' I dated this guy a year ago, and the moment i saw him, i knew he was the one. It felt like i knew him from somewhere before. I can even communicate with him through my mind and he does the same too. We dream the same dreams, sometimes in the same night. Right now we not together because life got the way but we will soon. I went to a Pastor, and a dream intepreter and they told me those dreams mean that we are fate to be together, i told him and he went to another pastor and they him the same thing. I have been with other guys before him and they were all about sex but this guy is the opposite, we dont even consider sex like that. It's just the best feel ever!

Hi Lovers !Thanks for sharing your superspecial stories.<br />
I admit experiencing every single word and even beyond of it with two men.<br />
Spiritually our thinner bodies or spirits merge in a kind of purpose of dissolving the walls,resistance and anger,jelousy,fight all old fashioned believes.And when harmony cames there is nothing than a transparency and a nameless friendship anymore.<br />
But what I have observed is that usually males are the ones adjusting easily and finding new mates when females remain attached and emotionally very hungry ,dependable and most of the time frustrated in pain.Which tells me that we should be very careful and consious when opening our the most vulnarable parts not to vitimize/parlize our inner selves and let our vital energies be consumed. <br />
For further talks do not hesitate to contact .Kind regards.Dr Salieva

Last year, I met some guy online &amp; it was amazing how we had soooo much in common &amp; how easy it was to understand ourselves, it even scared me at some point, not to mention how we could chat for a whole day, like literally... Plus one time I discovered a song from the 90s, then a few days later he posted it on Facebook, we tried to meet in real life twice but to no avail....

Here's the heartbreaking part, a few weeks back, he told me he met someone &amp; we should cease all forms of communication since it's not possible for us to meet right now plus it'll be awkward chatting to me and seeing someone else, though he hasn't deleted or blocked me yet or anything of that sort...

What I don't get is the dreams i've been having about us, plus it feels like half of me is lost, I feel so empty right now &amp; this is terribly weird since I haven't met him before... Is he my soulmate? Because i've done everything possible to move on but it's just not working, 1st time in my whole life since I felt this way for anyone... What should I do? I need help please.... I need this pain to go away lest I might loose myself....

I'd never really felt it before. That deep connection that can't be explained. But when I met my friend last year I felt nervous (I don't do nervous). I felt like I was telling him all about me without even speaking and that scared me but we couldn't ignore the 'spark' and we connected one day and it started from there. He's the male version of me and he gets me and our moods are similar.

We are in different times of our lifes, I'm married with two kids and he's single and happy about it. I love my husband and that won't change but I've spent the last 6 months confused and constantly thinking that I'm a bad person for wanting to spend time with my friend and for having feelings that I shouldn't be feeling.

There is even this flirty, intensity to our relationship that can't be explained. I don't spend my whole time dreaming about being with him but I enjoy spending time with him but its made complicated because we work together.

I like this story,
real from the heart!

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it was 4 years ago, i was a on my way home that night. i was riding a public transportation called jeepney here in the Philippines when i'd met this guy. he was walking alone in the side walk, with the help of poles i see his face clearly it was never a plan but our eyes accidentally meet. i'd never really believed in love at first sight because i've never experience it before, but the weird thing is after that simple eyed contact it changes my beliefs in it. the experience for me was totally weird but not in a bad way,it was like when i was staring back at him i feel like everything slows down, like everything falls to silent and the distance between us wasn't a problem at all,at that moment i can't even tell if i'm still breathing or not even my own heart beat or the sound of the busy street. the only thing i know was i can't lose my focus on those eyes, i feel like i could stare at those eyes forever. and somehow it kinda find its way in me,even after that incident and as te years pass by. sometimes it made me wish that i could see that guy again and i even miss him, i'd never experience this thing before and i'm really new at this.

I found my soulmate... I had was seeing a guy and it had just ended and when my friend asked me if I was sad I said no, because I felt like the love of my life was coming. A few days later, walking down the street with my friend, I looked up and the most beautiful man I've ever seen was walking towards us with his friend, staring intensely at me. When I looked at him time stopped, I just looked into his eyes and knew it was him, the one I'd felt coming and I know he felt the same. We carried on walking, but kept looking back at one another and after a minute I beckoned him and his friend over. All of us then went to a local cafe and smoked a shisha... The man doesn't speak any English, I don't speak any Arabic, but the connection was amazing. The following nights, all 4 of us went out and somehow, I always knew what he was saying to his friend, even though I don't speak any Arabic... It was like our brains were totally connected. After a few days I learned that he had to go back to Iraq and that he probably wouldn't be coming back - when I found out, I cried. Now he's traveling the world as he's an athlete but I think of him every day and I pray that one day there'll be a facebook message from him telling me that he's coming back to Spain (where we met and where I still live) and that we will be together. I recently got with someone else, and the relationship was really good, but when I saw a guy in the street who looked exactly like the Iraqi, it was too much of an emotional experience; I burst into tears and knew there and then that my current relationship would never substitute what the Iraqi and I could have had and it ended a week later. This man is incredible, he's the most beautiful and precious creature I have ever seen/known and even though we probably won't ever be together, I still think back to those days we had and I'm just glad that I met him at all. xxx

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This sounds beautiful and inspirational. Unfortunately, few people reunite with their soul mates.

This is one of the best and most insightful stories I have ever read here at EP. Thank you for sharing this with us my friend.

i felt a feeling once in the waking world, id often experience in my dreams. in my dreams i'd encounter my soulmate, she'd have a different face and a different name, but her soul was always the same, the same feeling, the same warmth, the same oneness and completeness of hearts meshing, an emotional clasping of hands if you will. i was on a day trip to a santacruz and could feel her somewhere close by, my heart was going to explode, i wanted to scream asloud as i could, to make a scene so she could pin point my location, but i had to behave because i was with my dad and uncle (dude's night out on the town). i feel like this soulemate is a woman, but sex isnt the thing, she could be married, and that would be fine, it feels like we've always been close in all our lives as either, siblings, relatives, or spouses. married or not i need to find this person, so i can carry the @#$k on. a part of me out there and i can feel it. perhaps we were together in the recent past, and i reincarnated in the late 80's she could 20-40-60 years older than me, but i know we're the same age. i doubt i make any since, but i know what i mean, and so does she. until we meet again, until we meet again. Matilda maybe? i dont know.

Well written!

Yes exactly... oh if I may state that the "eletrical feeling " feels like a '******' so strong it usually hurts (love hurts) . THAT is how you know its a deep conncetion. If its real you'll be going through it the love for you mate feels peacefull. Depending on your arously ;)

I watch television, I surf net, I go to school, I go to another place, where ever I go, his name is there or something that is similar to him. Strangers on the road, people on television screaming out his names where ever I go, what ever I do. What could it be?

I felt overwhelmingly lonely and sad when I rejected that man's advance. I couldn't concentrate on my wonderful shopping spree. I was walking like a zombie and just sat in car doing nothing, staring , thinking, what was going on.
The tears falls for no apparent reason, from time to time. And sometimes the emotions barges on me overwhelmingly that I want to go crazy. I feel like wilted flower. Still comes to my dream frequently. The funny thing is, we haven't even said more than "Hello how are you."

I have first hand experience that this and more is true.

I do believe in soulmate. I met this man 2 months ago, and instantly felt a connection with him the very first day we met. Just by looking at him, I instantly know what he feels and even the words he's about to say. The 'rapid knowing' and familiarity like I knew this person already. And apparently he feels the same toward me! The feeling of unity, trust, and openness is so wonderful, communication is the easiest. I am pretty sure that it's surely going to turn into love if he is not a husband to somebody else.
I love him, that is why I respect him and decided to leave instead. His wife has gone suspicious of seeing our closeness...
It's so wonderful, but it's just not in the right time.

Wow, loved this! Thank you!

This is so true.

A year ago, it all started for me, I was walking to my class and he was walking in front of me, when i looked at him I felt my emotions boil over and I almost fell onto the ground with the heavy weight it hit me with I felt connected to him, and had no idea why, I had strong urges to grab him and hug him, but I was to scared that he would throw me away, everyone said oh it's just love at first sight, I said they were wrong, there was something more there, whenever I thought of him he would pop out of no where and be right in front of me. It was killing me that I couldn't do anything for I was to afraid. During summer I didn't see him, and once school started again I was starting to wonder if he went to my school, then again he came out of nowhere and got in front of me, it seemed like he never noticed me, but now I always feel him looking at me, when I look up at him, he looks away and i do the same with him, like an endless circle. The pull towards I'm almost made me grab him to stop him from walking away. I cant stop these feelings no matter what. So I have no idea what I should do anymore because he is sometimes so close but so far from me.

this is perfect...

I first met her when we were 13 I had a crush on her. She moved to another country. we both got married, but after 25 yrs she came back to her place of birth, some how we got reconnected . We spent 4 hours talking, she was nervous i was confused but totally so happy. The time together was so beautiful, time just stop, the feeling were so mutual. When we parted, i cried like never before. We only chatted, yet the connection was so deep. As we compared notes, it was like souls reconnected.<br />
She went back to home half a world away... I only wish we could be together again

This is my life except that we live 1200 miles parallel lives, both of us marrying who was our next relationship &amp; having kids. Yet 25 years later we found each other, only to realize that we were always meant to be. Every day I ache for him &amp; dream of being with him again.....

It's been almost two years now and we still have this strong, hard to explain bond/attraction to each other. The only difference now is that we know what we feel isn't fleeting, it's here forever. We are still two states apart from each other but rarely go a day without communicating in some way....

Wow. I envy you because I've never experienced that in my lifetime and I am 41. You are blessed with that gift. Cherish it.

I know what you mean, I've felt that way recently. Trouble is we're both in relationships, so it's the time and circumstance seem to be at odds.

I'm in the same situation. We both confirmed it is US but we are 600 miles apart with a low possibility of him moving here or me moving ther because of our jobs and kids. :'(

Just wondering has anyone had the experience of meeting someone that has lead almost a parallel life to them in terms of their experiences and personalities, continue to have similar experiences after they meet and experience a lot of coincidences after they meet? Just to give you additional background, this is someone I work with and the relationship seems impossible on many levels, foremost is that he is 17.5 years younger than I am and I would need to walk away from something I love to do in order to pursue the relationship but I feel incredibly drawn to him and think about him often. Please let me know if others have had a similar experience.

I believe this is more than a soul mate, you have found your twin flame. :)