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Signs of a Soulmate

I found this and thought of sharing it with you , because its exactly what i felt about someone i met online

  • There is a powerful, instantaneous feeling that you have known the other before.
  • You felt an immediate and deep connection for one another.
  • There is an electrifying feeling between the two of you that words cannot describe.
  • The relationship is immediate, as though no time had been lost since you were last together.
  • It feels as though you had never really lived before the reunion occurred.
  • You feel a deep sense of sacredness and unity with God that you've have never known before.
  • It brings on feelings you never thought possible.
  • The two of you are inseparable.
  • When you look into each other's eyes, time and space have no meaning.
  • There are no barriers between the two of you. The relationship is a totally open one.
  • Your conversations seem to go on forever.
  • The two of you have a strong urge to serve humanity in a deep and meaningful way.
  • You give to the other and never think of receiving in return.
  • There is a special sacredness to your relationship that transcends anything you've ever experienced before.
  • You still have karma with your twin from previous lives, but the two of you resolve it all with total forgiveness and unconditional love.
  • Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self.
  • There is a strong sense of unlimited ness eternity to your feelings.
  • Your feelings for each other are very spiritual
  • There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without the need for ownership or control.
  • The two of you know without doubt that you have been brought together for a reason.
  • You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to be other than who you are.
  • In spite of your sameness, there is no doubt you feel a sense of completion through the other.
  • Trust, patience and acceptance of each other's weaknesses happen automatically.
  • There is a great sense of purpose and meaning to the relationship.
  • Your sexuality with one another is a sacred act that celebrates the unconditional love have for one another.
  • The two of you become more and more one, without losing your individual identities.
  • When you look into the other's eyes, you see yourself.
  • You experience a sense of completeness that is without comparison.
  • The degree of intimacy and friendship the two of you develop is without parallel.
  • You recognize that the two of you are God mates.

There is no doubt that some of the symptoms described above are common to ALL soul mate relationships. What really sets the depth of the union apart from all the rest is the profound degree of completeness experienced and the overwhelming sense of spirituality unique to these partnerships. Two other powerful symptoms of spiritually mature souls is their powerful connection to God and their desire to serve humanity in some meaningful way.

There is also a very sacred sense of intimacy and feeling of divinely inspired wholeness that one finds within a deep soul mate relationship. It is not by accident nor is it without purpose. Rather, it is a magnificent and loving part of our Creator's plan for us. There is no doubt that the intensity behind the soul mate union is more than enough to jump start the journey that will lead us back to our Source, which will happen someday.

lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 75 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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I begun to dance hiphop 4 years ago. The first week we had an experienced teacher that trains the elite dancers, so the next coming week we got another girl training us as the main dance teacher didnt have the time to train us.When she stepped up the stairs, I was drawn to her. I didnt really know why I was drawn to her but I would get to understand that later. She was full of life, wonderful humor, very sweet girl. I have a very hard time fall in love with girls but somehow it only took me 2 months and then I was stuck.After each dance session we always sat down and talked to each other, all dancers in our groups together with the dance teacher. I started to understand that this girl was very similar to me. We had the same life history, the same tattoo on our shoulders, we had the same astrological sign, same hobby (dancing), she was raised by her mother, so was I. How is this possible?!!? I dont know.. for me still unbelievable that someone could be so similar to me.

I had to ask her out, I just had to. I found her number online and sent her a text. She was in a relationship. After that we began to have very long eye contact with each other. She begun to realize that we also were very similar. No know in the dance group understood except for us. We looked at each other, I starred into her eyes, she starred at my eyes. I could se my own reflection in her eyes. It was so deep. Nothing that I had ever experienced before. So the last time I saw here (we were going to have another teacher next semester, new group, more advanced), we looked at each other for 20 seconds in front of everyone in our dance group. I will never forget that moment. I knew it was mutual, she felt the same way. Everyone in our group looked at us and everyone looked at me. No one said anything. Completely quite.

6 months later our dance group performed at stage. Her group, the dance teacher would perform after us. Before getting on stage I noticed how someone looked at me for a very long time. Really starred at me with a serious and deep look and turned my head and I saw her. I looked her in her eyes and time stopped again. Everything just blanked. She was my twinsoul. I havent seen here since then, its almost 4 years ago. I dont know if I will ever see her again or encounter anything like that again. Maybe not, but I have always tried to find the same feeling with other girls but never found it in anyone. I think of her everyday. I have liked other girls, but it has never been the same.A couple of years ago, i would laugh at people babbling about twinsouls and soulmates etc, but now when I have experienced it, i dont doubt anymore. There are so many things out there that will never be explained. Some things are meant to be hidden.

This is how I felt last Tuesday. He told me after 5weeks talking and messaging that he loved me Iwas his soulmate. I can't actually believe I had such strong feelings for someone Inever met.However within two days things changed he was very cold and distant stopped saying he loved me or sending me lots of love hearts. I am sad this is the first day insix weeks I haven't heard from him my heart is broken,why do I feel like this over someone Ihave never met.

My dog was my soulmate I never had any luck finding a true compannion until the dsy I met her, And from that moment I knew she was mine as we had a instant connection in words I cant describe she taught me the meaning of true love.

Beautifully written.

I never believed in soulmates until I met the man of my dreams. I feel like each word written above is true for us. We love each other beyond limits without expecting anything in return . We both never try to control or possess one another. Feelings come automatically. When we gaze into each other's eyes, the whole world seems to halt and we forget about everything else.

Cool story

I've never really believed in soulmates until I met my ex. Together 5 years, 1 child, but it didn't work out. I was crush and figured I would never find that spark again. Then I began online dating. I met one man after another for a year, dropping them all like bad habits for lack of a "spark".....then finally I met one guy...Steve, ugh just writing his name gives me butterflies. When he walked into the room, I lost my breath. My heart was in my throat the entire night. And when he asked to see me again, I thought I died and went to heaven. He called me everyday....sometimes 3 times a day and when we weren't talking, we were texting. Our second date, he came to my house (which I never do with online matches) but for some reason, I felt comfortable with him being in my space. We watched movies, talked and eventually we fell asleep together on my couch. It was so natural for me. We woke up in the middle of the night and went into my bed and he held me all night while we slept....but I didn't sleep a wink. When he woke up, he finally kissed me and I swear I felt something wake up inside me thatIl I thought was lost forever after my last relationship ended. The calls continued, the texts continued and the third date, he picked up dinner and came back to my house. We ate, watched a movie, laughed and agreed that he would spend the night again. But a week later, the calls became fewer and the texts slowed and finally I asked him what was going on. He told me he wasn't over his divorce and he wasn't ready to fall for someone again and that he couldn't drag me into his emotional Rollercoaster....I felt like someone knocked the wind out of me. I can't explain why I was so crushed.....I never had a problem dropping a guy I'd met online. But there was something here and he agreed he had felt it too, but said he needed time to "figure himself out". Today is the first day I haven't heard from him at all....and it's been a rough day. My friend sent me a link to this site and I had to share.

I told Steve "if it's fate, then he will find his way back in some way. If it's meant to happen and he felt that "pull" as intensely as I did, then we would cross paths again someday". I told him I would always been here for him and that I understood where he was at this point in his life. As much as it hurt to let him go....I have to believe that fate will take over and lead me to my soulmate. Maybe Steve was a lesson and not a soulmate....maybe I just needed someone to show me that I was still capable of falling for someone again after my ex. He woke something up inside me that I had long believed was dead. And for that, I thank him. I'm still capable of love and being loved. If Steve never enters my life again, I know someone will....because I have a lot of love to give :-)

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It sounds nice, but does it last? Most people pretend they are soulmates. Especially the psychopaths. I always have a hard time distinguishing the real ones from the fakes.
Instant connection and chemistry... yeah... I've had that... but it didn't mean I fell in love with them instantly. It must be karma, or people from past lives, but not everyone believes in this kind of stuff. They usually go away as they have come, instantly.
I met someone and my life changed. It was an instant connection, even seeing their eyes searching mine in a crowd. It was like we were connected by an invisible thread. We felt pulled to each other and surprisingly, we also had a mental connection, not just an emotional one. We usually finished each other's sentences and we knew that we were on the same wavelength. We could sense each other from afar, we were extremely aware of each other. This was elating until the emotions came in. At the time, none of us was prepared to welcome it. We are both extremely moody people. I was extremely empathic and could feel their sadness.I had no idea how to manage the extra-emotions. They just kept coming and I felt overwhelmed. Once, they were sick and had to stay in bed and I felt restless all day without knowing about it. Later, when I found out, it all made sense to me. When they had a bad day, I could feel it in my gut. When they were happy, I was happy. Unfortunately, in the end, our past obligations prevailed, which says a lot about the deep social conditioning we've both had. I still happen to have dreams about this person and whenever I think about them I feel happy and energized. I know the same goes for them. Soulmate is a nice word, not necessarily pertaining to a romantic relationship.

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I believe in soulmates.. I had a boyfriend two years ago. We were happy. We rarely fight. But years later I just felt that I am falling out of love. We decided to stop seeing each other. Worried that I might've made a wrong decision I talked to my friends and asked for an advice. One of my friends told me that she'll introduce me to her boyfriend's officemate. I was hesitant. I was not looking for someone. That night the guy (her bf's officemate) messaged me in facebook and asked me for my cellphone number. I didn't give him. But I dreamed of him so I decided to give him my number the next morning. Since then on we didn't stop texting and messaging each other. It seemed like we are long lost friends. We talked about everything. I felt like I've bonded with someone I've known for a long time. There was a connection. Until we finally met face to face. That feeling seeing him for the first time was priceless. It was amazing and I perfectly knew that I have found the one I was looking for. I've never felt as comfortable with him than with anybody else I've been with. Now, we are together for almost 2 years already. Happy and inlove. And we both agreed that we have found our soulmates.

i started working at a new job and as i was walking and carrying a heavy box i heard a man behind me ask can i help you carry that and i turned around and i looked up into his face and our eyes met and time stood still and it was just us two right then and there and i felt like i knew him forever the connection was there it was so strong i felt he could be my soulmate after a few weeks of getting to know him i found out he is engaged to be married i remember that day i cried so badly my heart was breaking i was a mess i was at work but i couldn't function at all i was in a daze and my heart was bleeding so bad that the man i met and i felt was my soulmate is already taken and i can't do anything i tried my best to forget and keep my distance the more he was around me and talked to me the more i fell for him eventually he got married and that night i cried myself to sleep and i told myself it is okay it's going to be okay he is happy he was never meant to be yours although he might have been your soulmate so here i am now still healing my broken heart i still see him everyday and he is happily married and i keep my distance but at nights i dream of him and there isn't one night that i don't dream of him it became so bad that i see him and his wife together in my dream happy and i walk away and start crying that when i really wake up i have tears streaming down my face and i can't stop crying because nothing can make me forget him and i can't stop loving him i really tried it doesn't get easier when u see him everyday the feelings are still there stronger than ever but you know there is nothing you can do but try to move on

at this party and i saw this guy, i never talked to him because i was to shy, but now i cant stop thinking about him. I do not know if he even saw me but i have this desire to write to him. I do not know if it is just me that make up the idear about him or what it is...

I first saw this girl when i was 10 she was 10 soon as i saw her i fell for her even at the age of 10 i just couldnt stop thinking about her we never spoke both to shy ..i didnt see her again for about 2 years and when i did i just couldn't take my eyes off her but still we were to shy to talk to each other ..3 years later i met her again on my 15th birthday got the courage to try and speak to her and wat do u know im now married and have five children with her we both now 30 , i believe in love at first sight i never stopped thinking about her from the age of 10 to 15 and now were together and it turns out she always felt the same as well yes i think everybody has a soul mate its just a matter of waiting for ur time to meet

I never really believed in love at first sight and i honestly still dont know if i do.
Well it started like this
First day of being a senior and i went to class normally
I decided to sit next to this boy, at first i hesitated cause i didnt know him but i still did anyways i tried looking at his face to see if i knew him but he was kinda turned and had his hands in his chin while using his phone. Days pass and i still dont look at him so i try to stare with the corner of my eye but he never looks up always having his phone and avoiding eye contact.
Weeks pass On and i actually start to find him attractive even when im in my other classes i think of him and get this feeling but i still havent spoken to him so one day i decide to ask him something about the homework but the weird thing is that i caint find the courouge to do so
I was so nervous my hands started to sweat and no words would come out i felt like i was about to have some type of attack so after what seemed like forever i tapped his shoulder and he turned his head so damn fast i though he was about to crack his neck but he kept his eyes low always looking at my paper i was still sooo nervous and my pencil somehow flyes of my hand but i managed to speak to him.
Anyways the next day the teacher decides to change our seats and i end up being in the front of the class
So when i get up to move he finally makes eye contact with me for just a second but it felt so weird like it was the longest second ever Idk i got this feeling in my stomach
and thats not all a couple of days ago i was just doing my work and i felt this thing in my stomach like butterflies i guess but just a little bit more like a force Some type of force i dont know how to explain but soon i turned around and i see him looking at me but then he looks away shyly as if he wasnt staring
i turn and feel like crying cause I was so excited but scared at the same time ive actually never felt something like that even tho ive had like 1000 crushes on different people but never something like this im constantly thinking about him it nothing sexual or physical it feels like something more idk
Is this just a crush or what please replyyyy if your reading this 😭

I hope that one day every1 would meet or find their soulmate. It is Truely an wonderful & Amazing & Unbelieveable Experience.. Much love ..


Awwww i want a soul mate

It is all REAL, I've experienced it myself,

I Looked into my soulmates eyes & then boom, Time stopped, I saw flying magical photos in the air & then I saw magnetic energy come out of my body drawing me closer to her. It all felt like i have been searching for her for an eternity . My REAL LIFE Soulmate experiences. :)


I know that soulmates are real!! Everything you described is 100% accurate for me and my soulmate. We met when I was 16 and he was 18. The instant our eyes locked we both knew we would never be the same. Timing was not on our side for a very long time. We went our separate ways, but for the last 10 years we have unknowingly been living very parallel lives with spouses who both have brain injuries and are no longer the people we married. My soulmate and I caught up with each other a few months ago and it was like we had never been apart. We've always loved one another and now we are going to be together. It's like nothing has ever changed between us. The chemistry is crazy, we can read each other's thoughts and have goals that we know we can reach by working together. I am so excited for our lives to truly get started walking hand in hand together.

As someone who has found my true and honest soulmate, I could not agree more with your description for "signs of a soulmate." Together we have this drive, this purpose, this bond that truly transcends all else. I most ardently believe in soulmates and hope that every single person, in some life, finds theirs. Because it is truly the most beautiful thing in the world.

Okay i totally believe in soul mates but i have no clue if this is guy is mine. I got his number four days ago and we texted we live in the same town, etc. Me and him had an instant connection it was wierd but cool. Me and him have these realistic dreams and they mean something, our dreams tie together perfectally. We make each other happy and talk all the time now. I want to meet him soon and he said if we are soul mates we would feel some sort of spark. Is that true? Please some one reply:)

If he was your soulmate, you would feel your powerful spirit energy dragging you closer to him, if he is standing in front of you.

Oh yea

I really want to believe in soul mates, but is it real, and what if you do not find your soul mate? I have this big which that i do but it sounds like magic and does that exist? hope that someone will answer.
Love the confused girl :)

Soulmates are Real, and if there is magic involved that is too Amazing to believe, then they are your True Soulmate.

Wow, thats sounds amazing and beautiful I really hope I find my soulmate in the future. I really believe in them. <3

I hope you do too. Meeting your soulmate for the first time is the most Amazing experience you could ever have.

Omg, I believe your story, especially the ''electrifying feeling between the two of you that words cannot describe.'' I dated this guy a year ago, and the moment i saw him, i knew he was the one. It felt like i knew him from somewhere before. I can even communicate with him through my mind and he does the same too. We dream the same dreams, sometimes in the same night. Right now we not together because life got the way but we will soon. I went to a Pastor, and a dream intepreter and they told me those dreams mean that we are fate to be together, i told him and he went to another pastor and they him the same thing. I have been with other guys before him and they were all about sex but this guy is the opposite, we dont even consider sex like that. It's just the best feel ever!

Hi Lovers !Thanks for sharing your superspecial stories.<br />
I admit experiencing every single word and even beyond of it with two men.<br />
Spiritually our thinner bodies or spirits merge in a kind of purpose of dissolving the walls,resistance and anger,jelousy,fight all old fashioned believes.And when harmony cames there is nothing than a transparency and a nameless friendship anymore.<br />
But what I have observed is that usually males are the ones adjusting easily and finding new mates when females remain attached and emotionally very hungry ,dependable and most of the time frustrated in pain.Which tells me that we should be very careful and consious when opening our the most vulnarable parts not to vitimize/parlize our inner selves and let our vital energies be consumed. <br />
For further talks do not hesitate to contact .Kind regards.Dr Salieva

Last year, I met some guy online & it was amazing how we had soooo much in common & how easy it was to understand ourselves, it even scared me at some point, not to mention how we could chat for a whole day, like literally... Plus one time I discovered a song from the 90s, then a few days later he posted it on Facebook, we tried to meet in real life twice but to no avail....

Here's the heartbreaking part, a few weeks back, he told me he met someone & we should cease all forms of communication since it's not possible for us to meet right now plus it'll be awkward chatting to me and seeing someone else, though he hasn't deleted or blocked me yet or anything of that sort...

What I don't get is the dreams i've been having about us, plus it feels like half of me is lost, I feel so empty right now & this is terribly weird since I haven't met him before... Is he my soulmate? Because i've done everything possible to move on but it's just not working, 1st time in my whole life since I felt this way for anyone... What should I do? I need help please.... I need this pain to go away lest I might loose myself....

I spent 22 years trying to move on and it never really worked. There was not a day/week/month that I didn't think about my soulmate. I dreamed about him all the time, prayed for him to be happy, etc. Now I know he did the same for me. It's easy to think that we both should have just done anything we could to be together and that we wasted all that time apart, but what we've learned is that timing is everything. We both have done a lot of growing up, and we've experienced what we don't want in a relationship. NOW we are ready for each other. We won't mess things up and we'll be happy together forever. We also won't take our relationship for granted because we have both longed for each other all these years. We weren't ready for the intensity of our relationship when we were younger, but now we are.

It's not easy to be away from your other half, but sometimes God, the Universe, whatever... knows better than we do.

You have to meet a person face to face to find out if they are your soulmate. your soul can feel them if they are near

hey jasmine I'm in a similar sort of situation.. its insane! Have you moved on? If so how long did it take? Do you still think about it? Sorry for all the questions, I really need help as I feel as though Ive lost myself :( ...

I'd never really felt it before. That deep connection that can't be explained. But when I met my friend last year I felt nervous (I don't do nervous). I felt like I was telling him all about me without even speaking and that scared me but we couldn't ignore the 'spark' and we connected one day and it started from there. He's the male version of me and he gets me and our moods are similar.

We are in different times of our lifes, I'm married with two kids and he's single and happy about it. I love my husband and that won't change but I've spent the last 6 months confused and constantly thinking that I'm a bad person for wanting to spend time with my friend and for having feelings that I shouldn't be feeling.

There is even this flirty, intensity to our relationship that can't be explained. I don't spend my whole time dreaming about being with him but I enjoy spending time with him but its made complicated because we work together.

I like this story,
real from the heart!

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it was 4 years ago, i was a on my way home that night. i was riding a public transportation called jeepney here in the Philippines when i'd met this guy. he was walking alone in the side walk, with the help of poles i see his face clearly it was never a plan but our eyes accidentally meet. i'd never really believed in love at first sight because i've never experience it before, but the weird thing is after that simple eyed contact it changes my beliefs in it. the experience for me was totally weird but not in a bad way,it was like when i was staring back at him i feel like everything slows down, like everything falls to silent and the distance between us wasn't a problem at all,at that moment i can't even tell if i'm still breathing or not even my own heart beat or the sound of the busy street. the only thing i know was i can't lose my focus on those eyes, i feel like i could stare at those eyes forever. and somehow it kinda find its way in me,even after that incident and as te years pass by. sometimes it made me wish that i could see that guy again and i even miss him, i'd never experience this thing before and i'm really new at this.

I found my soulmate... I had was seeing a guy and it had just ended and when my friend asked me if I was sad I said no, because I felt like the love of my life was coming. A few days later, walking down the street with my friend, I looked up and the most beautiful man I've ever seen was walking towards us with his friend, staring intensely at me. When I looked at him time stopped, I just looked into his eyes and knew it was him, the one I'd felt coming and I know he felt the same. We carried on walking, but kept looking back at one another and after a minute I beckoned him and his friend over. All of us then went to a local cafe and smoked a shisha... The man doesn't speak any English, I don't speak any Arabic, but the connection was amazing. The following nights, all 4 of us went out and somehow, I always knew what he was saying to his friend, even though I don't speak any Arabic... It was like our brains were totally connected. After a few days I learned that he had to go back to Iraq and that he probably wouldn't be coming back - when I found out, I cried. Now he's traveling the world as he's an athlete but I think of him every day and I pray that one day there'll be a facebook message from him telling me that he's coming back to Spain (where we met and where I still live) and that we will be together. I recently got with someone else, and the relationship was really good, but when I saw a guy in the street who looked exactly like the Iraqi, it was too much of an emotional experience; I burst into tears and knew there and then that my current relationship would never substitute what the Iraqi and I could have had and it ended a week later. This man is incredible, he's the most beautiful and precious creature I have ever seen/known and even though we probably won't ever be together, I still think back to those days we had and I'm just glad that I met him at all. xxx

Everyone here should watch CLOUD ATLAS same directors as the matrix great movie and concept that may be hollywood hinting at our true origins. String theory really isn't too hard to fathom and once you understand this you will understand so much more.

This sounds beautiful and inspirational. Unfortunately, few people reunite with their soul mates.

This is one of the best and most insightful stories I have ever read here at EP. Thank you for sharing this with us my friend.

i felt a feeling once in the waking world, id often experience in my dreams. in my dreams i'd encounter my soulmate, she'd have a different face and a different name, but her soul was always the same, the same feeling, the same warmth, the same oneness and completeness of hearts meshing, an emotional clasping of hands if you will. i was on a day trip to a santacruz and could feel her somewhere close by, my heart was going to explode, i wanted to scream asloud as i could, to make a scene so she could pin point my location, but i had to behave because i was with my dad and uncle (dude's night out on the town). i feel like this soulemate is a woman, but sex isnt the thing, she could be married, and that would be fine, it feels like we've always been close in all our lives as either, siblings, relatives, or spouses. married or not i need to find this person, so i can carry the @#$k on. a part of me out there and i can feel it. perhaps we were together in the recent past, and i reincarnated in the late 80's she could 20-40-60 years older than me, but i know we're the same age. i doubt i make any since, but i know what i mean, and so does she. until we meet again, until we meet again. Matilda maybe? i dont know.

Well written!

Yes exactly... oh if I may state that the "eletrical feeling " feels like a '******' so strong it usually hurts (love hurts) . THAT is how you know its a deep conncetion. If its real you'll be going through it the love for you mate feels peacefull. Depending on your arously ;)

I watch television, I surf net, I go to school, I go to another place, where ever I go, his name is there or something that is similar to him. Strangers on the road, people on television screaming out his names where ever I go, what ever I do. What could it be?

I felt overwhelmingly lonely and sad when I rejected that man's advance. I couldn't concentrate on my wonderful shopping spree. I was walking like a zombie and just sat in car doing nothing, staring , thinking, what was going on.
The tears falls for no apparent reason, from time to time. And sometimes the emotions barges on me overwhelmingly that I want to go crazy. I feel like wilted flower. Still comes to my dream frequently. The funny thing is, we haven't even said more than "Hello how are you."

I have first hand experience that this and more is true.

I do believe in soulmate. I met this man 2 months ago, and instantly felt a connection with him the very first day we met. Just by looking at him, I instantly know what he feels and even the words he's about to say. The 'rapid knowing' and familiarity like I knew this person already. And apparently he feels the same toward me! The feeling of unity, trust, and openness is so wonderful, communication is the easiest. I am pretty sure that it's surely going to turn into love if he is not a husband to somebody else.
I love him, that is why I respect him and decided to leave instead. His wife has gone suspicious of seeing our closeness...
It's so wonderful, but it's just not in the right time.

Wow, loved this! Thank you!

This is so true.

A year ago, it all started for me, I was walking to my class and he was walking in front of me, when i looked at him I felt my emotions boil over and I almost fell onto the ground with the heavy weight it hit me with I felt connected to him, and had no idea why, I had strong urges to grab him and hug him, but I was to scared that he would throw me away, everyone said oh it's just love at first sight, I said they were wrong, there was something more there, whenever I thought of him he would pop out of no where and be right in front of me. It was killing me that I couldn't do anything for I was to afraid. During summer I didn't see him, and once school started again I was starting to wonder if he went to my school, then again he came out of nowhere and got in front of me, it seemed like he never noticed me, but now I always feel him looking at me, when I look up at him, he looks away and i do the same with him, like an endless circle. The pull towards I'm almost made me grab him to stop him from walking away. I cant stop these feelings no matter what. So I have no idea what I should do anymore because he is sometimes so close but so far from me.

this is perfect...

I first met her when we were 13 I had a crush on her. She moved to another country. we both got married, but after 25 yrs she came back to her place of birth, some how we got reconnected . We spent 4 hours talking, she was nervous i was confused but totally so happy. The time together was so beautiful, time just stop, the feeling were so mutual. When we parted, i cried like never before. We only chatted, yet the connection was so deep. As we compared notes, it was like souls reconnected.<br />
She went back to home half a world away... I only wish we could be together again

This is my life except that we live 1200 miles parallel lives, both of us marrying who was our next relationship & having kids. Yet 25 years later we found each other, only to realize that we were always meant to be. Every day I ache for him & dream of being with him again.....

It's been almost two years now and we still have this strong, hard to explain bond/attraction to each other. The only difference now is that we know what we feel isn't fleeting, it's here forever. We are still two states apart from each other but rarely go a day without communicating in some way....

Wow. I envy you because I've never experienced that in my lifetime and I am 41. You are blessed with that gift. Cherish it.

I know what you mean, I've felt that way recently. Trouble is we're both in relationships, so it's the time and circumstance seem to be at odds.

I'm in the same situation. We both confirmed it is US but we are 600 miles apart with a low possibility of him moving here or me moving ther because of our jobs and kids. :'(

Just wondering has anyone had the experience of meeting someone that has lead almost a parallel life to them in terms of their experiences and personalities, continue to have similar experiences after they meet and experience a lot of coincidences after they meet? Just to give you additional background, this is someone I work with and the relationship seems impossible on many levels, foremost is that he is 17.5 years younger than I am and I would need to walk away from something I love to do in order to pursue the relationship but I feel incredibly drawn to him and think about him often. Please let me know if others have had a similar experience.

I believe this is more than a soul mate, you have found your twin flame. :)

Beautifully written!! Love it....

Very well written :)

I get it, I've felt these emtions, had these thoughts about an individual before, but what if he/she doesn't have that same feeling (of they just aren't telling you), what if it's onesided? What if you never find him/her?

i have found my soulmate :) how can i tell? i just know and feel it,can't put a finger on it but its there!<br />
we are so in sync with each other our wavelengths are completely inseparable, you see you need to drop all expectations as someone said,forget about age and all that because you never know who it is going to be,its the souls that make the connection :)<br />
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my soulmate is 15 years older then me i know its a big gap but its means absolutely nothing age is foreign on the spiritual plane :) the thing is soulmates dont incarnate the same time as you do its possible yours is not in this lifetime it could be the next or couple other times i hope everyone on here finds their!! :)

I met my soulmate a few months ago. He ended up being an older neighborhood boy who lived only three doors away from me. We knew each other but never really knew each other. He is 11 years older than me and we now live 1800 miles apart... we are madly in love and both of us are amazed at the intensity of our feelings. We constantly have moments of synchronicity... it is absolutely incredible. We have not been in the same room as one another in 13 week he will be here with me and we shall see what happens... the way we feel, I cannot imagine it now working out, this has to be real...and as long as all goes the way we hope, he will move to be with me in about 6 months. Send us some great loving vibes!

WOOOOW!!!!! No words!

I thought this was (mostly) a wonderful list that captured many of the things I feel about my soulmate.<br />
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For me what it didn't need was the references to god, spirituality, karma, previous lives, a creator, etc.<br />
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It seems the list can't apply to two atheists? If that was the point then I've have to say that you're wrong. My wife and I are living proof of that.<br />
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Yeah she's my soulmate. Yeah she's the most fabulous person on the planet. Yeah she's the missing piece of my jigsaw. Neither of us need the other stuff to be sure of that.<br />
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i have found mine <3

you are lucky and blessed :) may god makes you happy

this is beautiful ...i met a man that i did not get along with over the phone or emails..but i agreed to meet him..everything fell in place when we were together..unfortunately, the minute we were apart, it feel apart and I could not trust him..i always wondered if he was mine..but i guess not or we would be together..

This phenomenon is very hard to explain to someone and very easy to understand when it happens directly to you. It has only happened once to me, 14 years ago. We looked at each other and we kenew. Today we look at each other and still know.<br />
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I don't think it has much to do with physical attraction. In my case she just happens to be a beautiful female and I am a male but I have a female friend who had the same thing happen with a female. In her case this happened more than 20 years ago and they are very close friends, each of them married to men, and they enjoy a wonderful spiritual relationship with each other.

It's a beautiful piece - though I think you and I have a little bit of a different view on what a 'soul mate' is.

What's yours then?

That soul mates don't have to be romantic. That it's possible to find someone who, platonically, is as much a part of you as a romantic partner is, and that it's something you can discover over time. Also, that it's possible to have as many soul mates as there are relationships [platonic and romantic] in your life. After all, there's more than one side to any given person.

i too have had this experience the first time i saw him i felt a deep love is sacred and so special i find it very hard to be away from him i intutitively know where he is most of the time we have a sence of knowing how the other is feeling and thinking even when not together. i forgive him for his faults because at a soul level i know him so well i know we are just fufilling our karma, he is not afraid to cry in my presance and i knew his voice and recognised his hands the first time time when im with him time just seems to stop i loose my self in him ,i carnt stop looking in his eyes he makes me so happy.thankyou for this post very beautiful.

Yes to find your "true soulmate" we must put away ideas of age, looks and "outside" judgements." We must let our heart and soul be our guild. In my own life, my soulmate has crossed my path before. After we met again we found, we had named our dogs the same. A soulmate thinks feels and LOVES like us, they are a part of us and will always be.

Thank you for your story as I totally believe in what you wrote and I hope that someday my soulmate and I will find each other. Your story touched my soul.

It was comforting to read this posting. My situation fits with every point. When we first looked at each other my life changed, in one second. I went from an agnostic man of science, requiring proof for everything, to a spiritual person with a belief in god. Now 14 years later it is still the same, I am complete. I have tried over the years to explain this experience to others but they just don't get it. I think one has to have similar experience to appreciate the stories told by others. We have been thousands of miles apart for 12 of the 14 years and have only recently found ourselves less than a mile apart for the last few months. Unfortunately I am 30 years her senior and she is married as she was when we first met. We spend a few hours a week together and it is wonderful. The sense of well being and contentment cannot be put into words. When our two minds are working on the same activity it is like 100 minds are working together.<br />
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I have recently formed a theory about relationships. Think of our interpersonal relationships as existing on three planes; spiritual, emotional and physical. The spiritual is how we all connect with our god and in a very rare case a fellow human, our "soul mate" I think it not be possible to fully appreciate this unless you have had the experience. The emotional plane is where love, along with other strong feelings, resides. The physical is where our sexual connections reside. I think it is possible to have satisfying relationships independently within this planes, without the need for overlap. We generally fall in love and marry someone on the strength of an emotional and physical relationship. I suspect it is very rare for all three planes align because there is no practical way to find the spiritual connection. From what I have read and my own experience this just happens without any effort.

It is wounderful to know how similar my experience it to yours.....I'm
a 53 married man for thirty years. My wife is a great mother and companion. My kids are 18 and 21 years of age moving toward their respective carriers. My married experience has been full of joys and challenges but very nurturing....
Trough my workplace I had the opportunity to meet a coworker that have shaken me inside like no other person has ever done before....She is only 21 working full time and attending college...
We steal moments at work to breifly be with each other and they are the most complete moments with someone that can I ever remember....We share the same meaning about life and relationships ....Eventhough she is only 21, we seem to grow more inseparable every minute ...Our attraction surpases the obvious physical magnetism and I wounder what could be next
in this emotional dimension that seems to grow timelessly and there is nothing that I could do about it, but just be humble and greatfull that I could feel this way.....I pray to God to help me find clarity and possible ways to enjoy such a divine gift..

Wow. <br />
I had a really similar experience, and we both felt this indescribable connection, and we met in the most happenstance of circumstances, and although I felt this really deep connection with him, I just didnt realise until he flew home that I was missing this huge part of me that I didnt even know existed. We have seen eachother since, and I felt like I was complete again. Looking at your list we check all the boxes. <br />
Unfortunately, circumstances and ill timing have caused this to be put on hold, we are both stuck where we are, for the moment at least, so I would say we are at an impasse. But I have total faith that God and the Universe will bring us together again if we're really meant to be. <br />
But, my gosh, now I know what it feels like, what Ive been searching for my whole entire life, I think its going to be bloody hard to find someone else if I have to. But really, Im ok with that, because now Ive met him - theres no one else.

This is a great post, and so true!!!=-)

I totally agree with you. This is truly beautiful.


You got it dead on. <3

great post- the same thing happened to me recently - im in USA he's in India

a soulmate can be any thing that has life in it and breathes for example an animal, a tree or person, soulmate also means if that thing you love the most died you would cry for it. I meet my soulmate and had a deep connection and I felt the energy flowing through my body I could not explain it. it was a nice feeling when i felt that strange energy, however i found out that you are comfortable around this person and you could love each other unconditional. and also your true soulmate can develop your personality, and you could develop each other personality it is amazing, it just blows my mind away.<br />
your soulmate will always love you just the way you are. When you are with your soulmate i find that you will struggle in life, i don't know why. not every one will meet their soulmate or have one but if you are willing to meet your true soulmate the secret is falling in love with yourself and know <br />
your personality well.


beautiful! simply beautiful!

soulmates are real your story is very good1

yes soulmates are very real I never believed now I still don't because I KNOW soulmates are real they do exists I 've met mine

Yes... The goddess does work magic for her children. And also gives them the chance to renew their loves, again and again, through the spirals of life.