I Love My LifeI love my role. I know exactly what is expected of me in our marriage. There is no fighting or bickering, if I fail to do something I am suppose to do my husband will point it out and I will rectify it immediately. I stay home with our children, that is my job. I don't get to sit on my butt all day and watch tv, I don't go shopping everyday. I actually have a schedule of chores and errands that need to be done. I am in charge of everything house related. My husband does not clean, do laundry, dishes or cook. That is my job, but not my life.
My life is my family. I have the two most wonderful children in the world. I love doing things for them and seeing them happy. But even more, they appreciate what I do. My husband may expect things to be done a certain way, but he also notices and appreciates the small things. He always says thank you and he respects me more than anyone else in the world. He takes care of all the bills and finances, he works so hard but always has time for our family.
Sure, sometimes I wonder "who am I?" but then I look around and see my children and my husband. This is who I am. Some women may need a large salary or many degrees to identify who they are, that they are only as good as their paycheck. Well, I am proud to say "I am HIS wife and THEIR mom."