A True BelieverI've lived a long time. I'm now what is considered an 'oldster', that's older than senior citizen. I have always believed in true love and happiness. I have 4 children, 5 grandchildren and would have great-grandchildren except my grandchildren are waiting. Good for them. I have been married 3 times, divorced twice and now am in the process of what I hope is the final divorce. You might say, I never found true love, but I did. I found true love and happiness 3 times. You say, but if it were true, you'd still be with No. 1. When you reach my age, you'll find that people aren't static and things happen. So, in three separate instances, I was truly in love and truly happy. In between, was some heartache, some problems, some grief. To be sure. But this is life and life comes with no guarantees. I am on friendly terms w/exes #1 and #2 (it sounds so caulous to put it that way) and will be w/#3 when some time has passed. I am living now with a pretty intense heartache, but I know from experience that this, too, will pass. I try every day to focus on the positive, among the positive is my grandchildren, they are so precious to me.
So, you ask, is there such a thing a True Love and Happiness. I say absolutely YES. It may not last forever, so treasure it and cherish it, try to keep it alive.
Instead of wedding vows that say 'til death do us part', I think something along the line of: I'll love and cherish you, but if you ever decide on someone new, please let me know, so I can decide what my options are with dignity'.
monadezelski 66-70, F 3 Responses 1 Feb 24, 2011