Not Always Abot Sex.

Washing her hair, rubbing her feet, massaging and shaving her legs, or sitting next to her just to feel her close. It is about intimacy not about sex, I believe that there is a difference between the two. Some men, I am sure don't see the difference, however I have learned from my experiences that doing the small things like rubbing my ladies feet with lotion and doing the things that she does for herself is about being intimate with her.

It is about growing closer to each other and sharing in the intimate acts of the other person where it is just between the two of you. Doing the things together provides the feeling of closeness and not doing for the result of sex.



mtvlm mtvlm
41-45, M
10 Responses Jul 11, 2010

Some of the most remember-able moments are when things are done in a non-sexual way... enzymatic...<br />
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Thanks nautiboater.....

so true

Heard a good line for that Solei... IF you wake up like a bear with a hang over don't expect much sex at the end of the day, so take care of the small things all day then that can lead to other things by the end of the day...

Exactly!.....that is sooooo true. Its All about the small things. They always end up being the Big things.

Thanks rose, not all men are the same, thank goodness....

Thanks destry.....

Sure that was the part of it with you Pix... If it is done just for sex then that is all it is ever about. Being sincere in the actions makes it more...

Thanks WIB, it is about the caring and trust between the two that is shared with each other. Think that it should be part of foreplay which should be everyday, even if there is no sex during the day it doesn't mean that you stop the intimacy...

I'm pretty sure that's one of the straws that broke the camel's back in my marriage...there was no intimacy unless it was a precursor for sex...and you know, I don't really consider that intimacy because it wasn't sincere...

well said mtvlm. Intimacy is so much more than just sex, whether part of everyday life or foreplay ... all the little things help to create an atmosphere between you of caring and trust.