I Believe Its A Husbands Responsibility To Spank His Wife

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By: annikin

Written on April 13th, 2012

I agreed before I was married that this what what our life would be. My husband - Master - was prepared to rein in some of my worst habits and discipline me. We discussed our roles and what that meant to us, and what our attitudes to one another needed to be for the emotional satisfaction we both needed. Master already knew several happy households of DD couples (including a polygamous gentleman farmer.) We have get togethers with these people, sometimes for a whole weekend, and for me it's very relaxing to be able to confide and speak freely in front of other women. Believe it or not the men gather to talk about problems with disciplining, and come up with solutions just like agony uncles! The downside is that they also exchange ideas on punishment techniques too - which is why there is a Loopy Johnny in our house. Just for the record I hate and fear that thing. It bloody hurts!

By: annikin

Age: 51-55 , Female

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19 responses

art1965

That is a very useful implement. A

6 days ago
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vicariousone

How long have you been in your DD/HOH marriage? Is it still a strong relationship? Do you feel that the DD is a major reason for the success of your marriage?

Nov 4, 2012
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- annikin
  It could be. There have been times when I really wanted out of it because he is so unremittingly strict. But I realise that I would miss being 'known' so well in every way. I am too well trained, and too hooked on the rewards.
  
  Nov 7, 2012
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wastom

I guess some of us really value a strong dominant spouse. I understand that. I wish you immense happiness.

Jul 6, 2012
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NorgePrincess

Thanks for sharing your experience, especially when you talked about your discussions before you got married. I think so many couples just don't do that, don't discuss what sort of marriage they want, what sort of roles they see for themselves, etc. I know that my ex and I never even considered doing that. We dated for some time, waited until I finished college and then got married because it seemed like the next step to take in our relationship. I just assumed I would be the sort of wife my mother and other women in my family had been. Things did not turn out that way and at many junctures, when we should have had clear talks about things, we just seemed to avoid uncomfortable decisions. I had a hard time addressing some of my own feelings and just could not get myself to share them with him (for a few different reasons). Wish I had been as wise as you were and that we could have figured out what was best for our marriage early on.

May 28, 2012
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- annikin
  To be fair, people don't always know what they want, especially at the beginning. Uncomfortable matters do take quite a bit of courage to discuss - mostly it's women who request this particular lifestyle when they've been married for a little while.
  
  May 28, 2012
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kimberly0000

Im glad i found this site. I wish we had couples we could talk to about this. Weve been together 6 yrs but just started practicing dd less than a year ago. We have both been married before & we wanted to make this work & quit arguing. I stumpled across a dd site a year ago, got the courage to come to him with it & now i wouldnt have it any other way. He doesnt like computers or reading so ive been trying to explain other implements & punishments to him such as cornertime. Hes not listening. I want him to put me otk for a spanking but he wont for punishment. Only sexual. He believes in spanking me like he did his children. Bend over the bed & he uses his belt.

May 23, 2012
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Bootlover5

Well that is amazing and wonderful advice for new couples coming up. It goes to show just how amazing a simple conversation can be, and just how much it can change a relationship. I'm glad your husband and yourself could really open up and discuss your needs and share in such a wonderful experience together. Oh, and that part where everyone gets together to share their experiences...is that a discreet type of get together, and/or do you know of a group in which single men and women into this type of relationship might meet?

May 12, 2012
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Michelle0001

You are very fortunate to have like minded people to talk in person with! I don't and it would be nice. I am just very thankful for EP and the others like you who speak so frankly about this! It has been so helpful to me.

May 9, 2012
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IQplusfun

'What exactly is a loopy Johnny? Can you explain?

Apr 20, 2012
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- plentyofzing
  It is a handle with either one or more loops of rubberised plastic cord designed to dispense quieter and more discreet 'spankings' as there is no sound of whipcrack. The quietness makes them popular implements for use in hotel rooms or other people's houses although they are reputedly much more painful then the strap or paddle
  
  May 3, 2012
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- vicariousone
  Thank you for educating us. Evidently you have experienced the application of a loopy johnny to your behind.
  
  Nov 4, 2012
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- plentyofzing
  No. I just know what one is
  
  Nov 4, 2012
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Rollinghills

I have had it used on me and it hurts but leaves a lovely long lasting burn so I actually like it

It's not as bad as a wood paddle or a cane. I wish we knew some people who are into dd. would be a relief to talk to somebody about it.

Apr 14, 2012
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- annikin
  You like it? I've seen what it can do with a cardboard box so I'd be very upset indeed to have it used on me
  
  Jul 21, 2012
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RegularGuy3

I hope it never has to be used on you, but it should be used properly when needed.

Apr 14, 2012
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RegularGuy3

You have nothing to fear if you're on your best behavior at all times.

Apr 13, 2012
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- annikin
  It's here as a warning - it got tried out lightly on me for a minor infraction and I think he realised it was harsh. I doubt he'll ever judge my conduct as so inappropriate I'd deserve full whack!
  
  Apr 14, 2012
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- Rollinghills
  Who can be on their best behavior at all times.
  
  Apr 14, 2012
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