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I Believe Its A Husbands Responsibility To Spank His Wife

Noticing

By: annikin
Written on April 14th, 2012
By: annikin
Age: 51-55 , Female
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    Teacher237

    I believe this works wonderfully for consenting adults. And you are absolutely right everything is noticed and stored and praise and rewards are given when it is due. I used to keep every Friday night free for a review of the week and kept a little notebook. Sometimes even my disappointment would move my g/f to tears

    May 13
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    hailey425

    I am new to this type of relationship and am trying to work it out in my mind. Can you help me understand why a women would want to be in this type of relationship and why a man would also? What benefits does it have for both people involved? I know I want to move into this lifestyle but I'm having a hard time putting it into words so that I can take it to my husband.

    Jun 3, 2012
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    kimberly0000

    I feel the same way annikin. I stay at home & my man works. We both have grown kids, so no kids at home with us. When he leaves at 6:30 am, i make the bed, wash the breakfast dishes, straighten up the living room & wipe the bathroom down. Since we are in an apartment, i wait until 9 (when quiet time is over) to vacuum & start laundry so i dont disturb my neighbors. There is not a time of day or night that you can come in our home & find a thing out of place. When he gets home at 4 pm, i have his dinner ready. This isnt something he demanded of me. I do it because i feel like i should. If hes out working hard, why should i sit on my butt & watch tv all day & let him come home to a dirty house? Hes even told me if im tired i should take a nap while hes at work, but i cant. I feel so bad because i know hes tired too. He does physical work in a warehouse & has a back problem already from an 18 wheeler accident when he drove trucks. He doesnt tell me too often thank you for cleaning but he does tell me thank you every night when i bring his plate at dinner. He also thanks me for breakfast & for packing his lunch. I have heard him brag on me to his friends & family about his clean house, so thats thanks enough. He hates eating at restaurants, so we dont eat out. We dont go out to movies or anywhere else except to his friends or family. We dont live a lavish lifestyle, but I know he loves me & appreciates me & thats enough for me!!! In response to shadowfax69....i couldnt imagine punishing my man. Hes such a dominate alpha mega type male, he wouldnt allow it if i did want too!! As far as witholding sex, there is NO WAY i would do that. I enjoy it too much & wish he wasnt so tired all the time & would give it to me more. Lol Im sure not going to say no when hes in the mood!!!! Sorry this is so long. All my housework is done & dinner is in the oven slow cooking so im bored. Lol Im also glad i found this site where i can talk to people who live the way we do!!!

    May 23, 2012
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      studfinder

      If you want sex more often, feel free to buy that sexy nightgown or some sex toy and then either leave it laying out on the bed pillows or in the bathroom where he is sure to see it, OR serve him dinner while wearing that see-through nighty and watch his eyes. I'll bet the two of you have more sex more often when you surprise him on the days you want to initiate sex by being a little more obvious!

      Mar 20
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    Michelle0001

    Thanks for what you wrote. You and your man sound so much like me and my husband :) Since being TIH, mine now notices little things like laundry, a clean house and a good dinner!

    May 9, 2012
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    Sekhmet96

    Both women and men should be disciplined to keep a marriage in line. For women, the way to manage a man is to provide or not provide sexual release - a very powerful tool as we all know since Lysistrata. For men, there are two main ways to manage women: through their buttocks, meaning spankings are necessary on a regular basis; through their love of beauty, meaning gifts, jewellery, perfumes etc...are also necessary on a regular basis.

    Apr 14, 2012
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      annikin

      ah no, my man likes looking after me and being in charge. We both keep a major buzz alive - but I'm not allowed to withhold anything from him without good reason

      Apr 14, 2012
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