I sustained a long distance relationship for a few years. I can only tell you if you don't make serious strides to be with each other within the first year and it drags out, one party will lose interest and you grow apart, and you end up where I am today. Two people have to be willing, eager, and consistent. Don't drag it out. You are either going to be together or not. If I had been in a position to move, maybe we would be together now. But then again maybe not. I will never know. I hope you don't find out the way I did. I do wish all of you luck. But someone needs to be truthful about the experience. I know that if real and true love is there, no distance should be too great for people who mean it.