Love is love . It shouldnt matter how older or younger than you or someone else is from the person. When your in love, your in love! My parents are 9 years apart from each other. They must of been happy because they had me. I dont know how else to put it! I think if your love for someone is at least 20 years apart is a ok in my opinion. I was in love with a man 16 years older than me. He was my first love. But not my last. It doesnt have an age. If you think so, tell me the right age, then prove it. Does it say anywhere that you have to be 5 years older/ younger and not a day more? So before you or who ever is reading this thinks about judging someone who is in love with someone younger or older than them, think about it first please. Its just a number.