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when I see people freaking out about a girl dating an older man who is way past her age and if a boy falls for an older women. what i tend to say out loud is if they love each other for who they are and the older man isn't dating the girl just because she has a hot bod or the younger boy isn't dating the older women for her money if its really truly love and you feel you are soul mates its a fairytale come true

brokenandalone brokenandalone 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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Well, generally society is jealous and reacts in a way to stop other from getting into these kind of relationships. Also, most people are narrow minded and don't fathom that love is not dictated by age, sex or wealth but by natural primal instincts coded in our DNA.

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Ok heres what I think about older men and younger women. Me I like the idea but I cannot see it being something that will stand the test of time. Its the math. For me I could be ok with a short term relationship and a lifetime friend. but I cannot see holding back a young woman from moving on to find someone her own age. I think what a older man has to offer is experience in many areas. With that said I think that young woman would be more equipped to go out into the world and know exactly what she needs to look for in a life time companion. Maybe it could last longer than short term it doesn't seem fair to the young woman.

Just off to meet a 16 yo girl (legal in England) and yes we will have sex and I don't mind being sen with her as her partner. I'm 53 if we both are happy why should anyone else care?

think her mum and dad would have something to say about it

her mom said Hi have fun

I agree with your asesment about age.I am 56 and a few years ago had a very exciting and fun relationship with a beautiful 21yr. old . It was magic for both of us . We did get a lot of greif from both families .

Totally agree the world is way to judgmental about stuff like this.

There is so much beauty and wonderful fulfillment in being with someone who you can trust, share experience and truely embrace life and love with. This is true at any age, rather you have found it and are growing together with that, seeking it, or hopefully haven't given up accepting this aspect of life as it can be amazingly powerful. So much so that being within a happy relationship is found to improve and extend our life. To me it seems that, besides what we as indaviduals find attractive, satistfing and rewarding that it is best to support another who is embracing a relationship, rather then judging them and thier choices.<br />
I have seen relationships of almost everykind, mixed race, gay, age related, arranged and traditional. Few have turned out violent, misguided, broken, yet others turned out to be loving,rewarding, wonderful life fulfilling relationships and while we tend to see what we expect, admire and/or despise, or are attracted to. I believe that how these emotional relationships and bonds between various couples develope is rarely because of just one aspect from witch it began with that causes them to end or flourish.

Yeah, I think if it's true love, age just doesn't, and shouldn't come into it. I've always believed that, for as long as I can remember. That comment about how young girls should be with 18 year old guys not old men was so childish and ignorant. Why would you want to be with an 18 year old boy if you were actually in love with an older guy? What would be the sense in that?! I say, just follow your heart. :)

all this world duz is judge one another.what u feel in ur heart is the only thing that counts.let ur heart lead u.

I AGREE WITH COMMENTS MADE BY TORCHICMANIAC THERE CAN BE COMPLICATIONS ESPECIALLY WHEN THE 20YEAR OLD BECOMES 45 AND THE 40YEAR OLD BECOMES 65 THEN LIFE WILL BE DIFFERENT. BUT SOME RELATIONSHIPS BASED ON TRUE LOVE DO WORK AND WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE. IF I WERE TO COMMENT ON A YOUNG GIRL GOING OUT WITH AN OLDER MAN THE FIRST THING FRIENDS WOULD SAY IS YOUR'E ONLY JEALOUS

i know that a 18 year old girl loves me too much but i am not
accepting it just for the families! i have no idea what to do! she tells me not to bother but i bother for her sake! i really like her for her sensibility and not her looks as she does not have much!
tell me what to do?
Guide me please my friends!

what matters is how you feel about each other now. we cannot go through life trying to please others. we all deserve happiness

yes very true. its when children are part of the union that it becomes complicated. for the couple it may be easier but for a small child to lose an elderly parent can be difficult

i am honestly indebted my friend for your advice! life is not that complicated it is what we make it to be!

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huh?

I'd caress you , love you, and I am a middle age man. I can see the girls I desire are young, am desiring friendship 1st Don

so it is ok for a man of 60 to be seeing a girl of 18 i think not young girls should be seeing other 18 year old.boys and not old men.

i second that!..(: