I definitely believe people come into your life for a reason and my guy, I'll call him D, always said the same thing. He broke up with me a week ago with zero explanation and finally talked to me a couple of time in the last 2 days, he said that after breaking up with me he panicked and realized he made a mistake, but he listened to his family when they told him he should wait awhile and put some space between us, and that if we really loved each other that our feelings wouldn't change and we would wait for each other. I've spent the last couple of days pleading with him to stop listening to other ppl and to listen to his heart, I think I finally made a little progress since were supposed to see each other tomm, but I also kinda feel like, why did I fight so hard for someone so willing to give up on us. I love him, and believe God brought him into my life for the purpose of being my soulmate but how do I break thru the barrier of him holding on so tightly to what his family thinks 😣
match4me match4me
31-35, F
2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

"Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires." ~~ Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Wishing you all the best.

This is beautiful!!

If he really loves you then no one should be able to change his mind. He is an adult right. In the end he should be listening to his heart and not other peoples mouths. Hope everything works out for you. Thanks for sharing

He is an adult, but he is a little younger than me, still lives at home and is in fire academy right now, and he's letting too many ppls opinions interfere. I hope everything works out too, only time will tell

Yes only time will tell. Hope he opens his eyes and see what he has in front of him and stop letting those negative ppl fill his head with their b.s.

Well time definitely showed, he broke up with me for good today over the phone, no explanation

Wow over phone. He could have been a man and do it face to face.

Nope...story of my life...it's easier that way. But the way I look at it, he could have responded to my daughters text, she loved him and she was innocent in this whole thing. She sees her dad everyday, but she felt a connection with this guy, and he trashed my family not just me. Definitely not the guy I thought he was :(

Well maybe it's better that way. Keep your head up sweetie don't let them bring you down. Live your life for you and your daughter. One day some one that deserves you will come your way. Hope everything gets better for you two.

Thank you

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