I Need To Make A Major Life Decision About My Marriage

I have been in a long term relationship for over 10 years. My spouse and I do not communicate well with each other. There just seems to be an ongoing disagreement between his negative view vs my positive of the world. We have 2 children under the age of 5.In addition he has failed me in many of the major life events where I needed his support (e.g. Child birth, surgery, auto accident, etc.) Six months ago I met someone else that rocked my world and we ended up having a romance. I am very drawn to this person based on their positive perspective on life and christian values (despite the romance)
I am now in therapy and need to make a decisison; repair the marriage or close this chapter of my life. My gut tells me I will never get the marriage I want or the respect and emotional support I deserve with my spouse
Am I absolutely crazy to take a chance on someone that I've known for 6 months? Should I give my husband a second chance?
Steelers78 Steelers78
36-40, F
1 Response Mar 1, 2010

People dont change, it is true. <br />
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You have to accept though that your lover may not want the same as you. Ask him!