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Yep ! We Should Be Spanked More Not Less

Well maybe I shouldnt be spanked more because I get plenty already !! Had it since I was 9 or so (mid teen now).  It is brilliant - way better than shouting or grounding or stuff.  If I deserve it I just go and fetch the slipper and they spank my bottom, not nastily or anything althoug of course it stings a bit, but then its all over and I feel way better.  I am sorry for kids that are allowed to go wild by their parents.

rachaelhughesuk rachaelhughesuk 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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I agree as long as a spanking doesn't get to the point of abuse there is nothing wrong with it. I admit I did not get half the spankings that I really should have both at school and at home.

You seem to have a positive view of discipline Rachael. How frequently do you end up having to fetch that slipper......

Errm I am actually a little past that stage now sorry !

Im glad for you....do you ever get spanked now

Thanks Carla for saying that. It was quite a long time ago that I actually wrote that first comment but I still totally believe it. If you use spankings in your family, good for you. I just cant understand why some people get all ashamed about it. Obviously I am not a parent but since this all started I turned into a bit of a campaigner for it!! I was really lucky the way I was brought up, including the smacked bottoms. If you want to chat to parents you should talk to my mum, shes an expert lol (but shes not on EP but I could give you her address)

I agree, a sound bare bottom spanking is effective. I try my best to use spanking when my spoken word/s fail to make the point clear.

MmI tend to think as well as beleive, a firm spanking-when discipline is necessary- is actually an effective means to deliver a message,I do not approve of your behaviour this means no more. I will not except this.

my mom didn't believe in grounding but I don't know if you would have preferred one of her spankings. She only used her hand but that woman could SPANK BUTT! Very rarely could I sit afterwards.

Oooh thats clever thinking but not really, the point is a good spanking does hurt (trust me I have had plenty so I know) but when it is finished you feel fien about it and you dont spend all that time grizzling about being grounded which makes everybody mad with each other.

Photo,<br />
I agree wholeheartedly with you!

That is the problem with our society no discipline anymore

Thanks Steve.Excellent comment. <br />
I agree specially on that "imprisonment in the home" (my language we call it "huisarres") part!

I agree with 2doerver. It remains a punishment because it addresses the failed behaviour, is punitive and by Rachel's own admission is painful. Sometimes the anger and resentment of being grounded for a period of time, for what could be a relatively minor wrong doing is not really proportional. We talk of spanking being against the rights of a child, but is grounding not 'imprisonment in the home'. <br />
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I think Rachel recognises that a spanking reminds her she has done wrong, hurts, helps her feel better afterwards and gets it over and done with without the mental agony of being reminded every day she is grounded.

I agree with 2doerver. It remains a punishment because it addresses the failed behaviour, is punitive and by Rachel's own admission is painful. Sometimes the anger and resentment of being grounded for a period of time, for what could be a relatively minor wrong doing is not really proportional. We talk of spanking being against the rights of a child, but is grounding not 'imprisonment in the home'. <br />
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I think Rachel recognises that a spanking reminds her she has done wrong, hurts, helps her feel better afterwards and gets it over and done with without the mental agony of being reminded every day she is grounded.

Rachael, I agree!<br />
It's calming and free you from guilt.<br />
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Bojas, it's is still a punishment and some prefer it to any other from of correction.<br />
You get it and go on with your life without wasting your time and because you preferred it,<br />
you dont held a grudge.

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But doesn't this have a counter effect? I mean you prefer being spanked, so grounding would be more of a punishment, while you seem to take spanking lightly.