Marriage In A Distance

>>> to share my husband note :))

We met each other online around October 2010. I’m from Canada, and she’s from the Philippines. She added me on her Face book, and I followed her in other social networking sites (yahoo and Skype). We started talking almost EVERYDAY since then, for us to get to know each other better.

Words can’t explain how happy I am every time I talked to her. It’s crazy how things seem to have gone by so quickly for us. She made it so easy for me to fall in love with her.

She makes me smile, she makes me laugh, and I know that won’t ever stop. She’s truly amazing. I don’t even have to worry about other guys because I have so much trust in her, and she shows me off. We’re perfect. I am crazy and she’s crazy too. I love her smile, I love her laugh, and all the stupid things she does.

I became hers and she became mine “officially” on November 11, 2010. Despite the 12hr time difference, we would always find the time to talk to each other through different messenger applications. The distance really was hard, but we couldn’t do anything with it.
Time, communication, and trust were just what we needed to make it work.

If our heart’s feel this from this far away, just think how amazing it’s going to be when we’re finally together. We talk all day, and Skype every chance we get. We Skype and literally don’t even talk the whole time. She’s working while I’m doing something else. Just as long as we feel together.

We constantly talk about anything and everything. I got the chance too, to talked with her family on skype and was so glad.
I love talking to her until I can’t stay awake any longer. She often watches me sleep and it makes me feel so safe and secure. Her voice is the last thing I want to hear before I go to sleep, and the first thing I want to hear when I wake up.

I flew back to the Philippines . We finally met each other for the FIRST TIME. I got to finally touched her, hugged her, and kissed her… I couldn’t believe the love of my life was right next to me DEFINITELY THE HAPPIEST I’VE EVER BEEN.

I did enjoy her company, and yes the love I felt on her online never changed, instead it grows a lot more as I am getting to know her. It confirms everything that she’s the one I am looking for. There were already hints of marriage….because we both just knew in our hearts that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. So I immediately secure my papers to marry her. I went to the Canada embassy to secure an affidavit to contract marriage, and upon getting it I asked her if she’s serious about being my wife to be, and she said yes.

People think we’re moving too fast, but when you feel it, you feel it.

Almost, I lived with her throughout my whole stay. One month together was all we had, though. :(

Bidding our goodbyes was the hardest. I know she’s trying to be okay, and not to see her crying. I wish we could just hug each other and never let go that time.
Surely, I will be missing my wife a lot.

So now we’re back to being miles apart. :( but oh well… We dealt with this whole distance thing between us before, so I believe that we could do this again. :) & I know we’re even stronger especially …She’s my wife, NOW!!! :) la la la… :)))

To my wife,

I just wanted to say thank you so much XXXX my wife. For helping me become who I am today. You are the greatest gift and I will treasure you for the rest of my life. It hurts for I cannot touch you anytime I want. It hurts seeing couples around me while I’m all by myself. But having you who loves me truly is the sweetest blessing. I love you and I can’t thank God enough for bringing and allowing me to be a part of your life.
I can’t wait for the day, to have you in my arms again.

Just like you said, it’s only a matter of time until I’m yours forever.


iamclarisse iamclarisse
26-30, F
3 Responses Nov 28, 2012

wow , sweetness . I pray that my relationship will end happily heading to a wedding like the experience of love you both . I am currently in a relationship long distance , he comes from the English , while I lived in Indonesia. And we are love each other.

Thats so sweet!

yeah..sweet! but now..everything seems to be just once upon a time :(

Oh I'm sorry

wow!!! wish you all the best in your relationship!!!!:)))