I Believe That Long Distance Relationships Can Work
Hi people, im just not quit sure how to start my story but here it goes...
I am Filipina and met my fiancee thru online. We were chatting for almost 3 years. I trusted so much and told him that i will wait him till he visit to see me. We met last 2009 online, about Oct-Nov.. Communications is very hard for us, especially i cant understand Deutsch, so he uses google translator always. Sometimes, the message wasnt delivered well, i mean the grammar is not so good.
We were in two years online relationship and still he is not visiting me. Till i got busy with my job, i forgot my feelings for him and one time i appear online, he messaged me telling where i was the whole time i wasnt online..
He always promised to visit me and also always to failed his promises, lots of alibis, financial problem, and my trust started to lie low etc...
Till i totally forgot him totally not communicating with him not greeting him even i was online..
And then JAN> 2012, I got a new good work, were i am required to travel 98% of my time. To represent and find good deals for my company i work with, i also required to stay in an isolated area, near ocean, to survey the ocean if there is a sunken ship, aircraft etc. I once return in Manila, (the main city). He was asking again the times that he was waiting for me. He then said that he will fly to see me, August....ofcourse, i didnt believe...
I was in my office and was shocked on his call (using a Philippine number), telling to meet him at the airport..was really shocked..then i went to see him immediately..
I took a leave from my job to spend time with him...yes, i feel the feeling of an inlove person still there.. after three days, he said that he wants to marry me..I said Yes, hoping everything will be fine..
The time was running so fast..21 days is coming, so he stays will be up..
On the days of his flight to return in Germany, he didnt show up on his flight, instead crying with me, blah blah blah, telling he doesnt me to be along together.
The next day, he realized he needs to return in germany, to close his office, the house and car in good hand, etc...
After 14 days, he return here in the Philippines...and still here with me. I know he loves me so much , and he always wants me to feel it. I dropped my work already, and working small business with him..
Now, we are on the stage on planning for our marriage..Hes everything to me, the love of my life..
I am Filipina and met my fiancee thru online. We were chatting for almost 3 years. I trusted so much and told him that i will wait him till he visit to see me. We met last 2009 online, about Oct-Nov.. Communications is very hard for us, especially i cant understand Deutsch, so he uses google translator always. Sometimes, the message wasnt delivered well, i mean the grammar is not so good.
We were in two years online relationship and still he is not visiting me. Till i got busy with my job, i forgot my feelings for him and one time i appear online, he messaged me telling where i was the whole time i wasnt online..
He always promised to visit me and also always to failed his promises, lots of alibis, financial problem, and my trust started to lie low etc...
Till i totally forgot him totally not communicating with him not greeting him even i was online..
And then JAN> 2012, I got a new good work, were i am required to travel 98% of my time. To represent and find good deals for my company i work with, i also required to stay in an isolated area, near ocean, to survey the ocean if there is a sunken ship, aircraft etc. I once return in Manila, (the main city). He was asking again the times that he was waiting for me. He then said that he will fly to see me, August....ofcourse, i didnt believe...
I was in my office and was shocked on his call (using a Philippine number), telling to meet him at the airport..was really shocked..then i went to see him immediately..
I took a leave from my job to spend time with him...yes, i feel the feeling of an inlove person still there.. after three days, he said that he wants to marry me..I said Yes, hoping everything will be fine..
The time was running so fast..21 days is coming, so he stays will be up..
On the days of his flight to return in Germany, he didnt show up on his flight, instead crying with me, blah blah blah, telling he doesnt me to be along together.
The next day, he realized he needs to return in germany, to close his office, the house and car in good hand, etc...
After 14 days, he return here in the Philippines...and still here with me. I know he loves me so much , and he always wants me to feel it. I dropped my work already, and working small business with him..
Now, we are on the stage on planning for our marriage..Hes everything to me, the love of my life..