Long Distance Relationships Do Exists.

I believe that long distance relationships can work because I myself is in this kind of a relationship. Yes, it's hard, and very challenging but it's never impossible to make an LDR a successful relationship just like a normal relationship. To hell with those who keeps on telling other people that long distance relationship is just a waste of time, and won't ever work.Well, yeah, maybe it won't work for them because they aren't confident and strong enough to face a huge challenge. There's no harm in trying before judging.

wifeynijim wifeynijim
18-21, F
9 Responses Sep 7, 2008

LDRs are not wastes of time, not to those whom experience them and the happiness and closeness they bring. For those who say they don't work, LDR couples are actually more likely to stay together after being able to be closer together, because they've overcome so much. Also, many LDR couples have worked out, make YouTube useful! Some will make you cry, so beware!
I've been in LDRs since I was 9, believe it or not. Although, I never really took it seriously until I was 12. Still too early? We were on and off for 3 years, and I'm still good friends with his brother. (We broke up because we had no way of real communication.) Now, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half with a boy whom is like a best friend to me. We have A LOT of problems, but we hope to pull through it, and I'm working hard to make things work. So is he.
I do agree also, it takes a huge deal of confidence and strength. I have to pull a lot of strength for both my darling and I. In the end, hell can burn us up in flames, we'll still remember each other's names. ♥

I agree. My husband and I started out as a long distance (600 miles) relationship. You have to be a strong person to be able to do it. If you truly love the person, you would not let any obstacle get in your way! We made it through it, I know others can too. Good luck!

My boyfriend and I just started a long distance relationship... you can follow our story at: http://lessonsaboutlovingme.blogspot.com/

Well here I am craving for LDR and no one's really interested.Even gave my email id: zedemes@hotmail.com

I am happy for every ldr that does work. It's just that it takes so much more effort it seems for an LDR to work than a normal traditional relationship as both parties have to give up themselves mentally and emotionally before there is any physical contact made

My husband and I were in a long distance relationship for 7 years before we got married. Distance was from California to Germany. Never dated anyone else, never cheated, and never broke up. We were 16 when we met. So it can work! Its hard work and both partners have to be committed.

I'm soo happy that things worked out for you! Its proof that love can conquer any old measly distance! I'm actually really glad for the both of you! I wish the both of you happiness! ;)

it doesnt works....!since there is better option every time....,sm1 will take your partners place who is near you.

I had a long distance relationship for about 3 years and he has been my husband for the last 10 years. However, we were on/off again during those years.

I totally agree with you x