Yes I DoI firmly believe the title of this group is true......for other people.
I used to believe it was true for me as well but have decided that......i don't have the mental makeup to take this gamble with my emotions. It hurts too much when it falls apart and i don't react very well to that hurt.
I wish the best to those who feel it is worth the risk and i truly believe for most people it is worth the gamble. May you all find the love you seek. If you have already found it then i hope that it lasts you a life time!