"A life without love is like a year without summer" - I think that's a Scandanavian proverb or something.

I can't imagine never having loved anybody in my whole life. Not my parents, my brothers, my friends, my ex and now my wonderful fiance!


Ok, yes I was miserable when my ex dumped me to get back together with his ex-girlfriend. But I got over it and it's made me the person that my fiance fell in love with so now I see it as a good thing.

TheatreGirl TheatreGirl
26-30, F
4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

Red, I'm sorry for your loss *hug* and I can understand why you don't want someone thinks the fact you still love him even though he's dead. He was probably a big part of your life and people can't just expect you to forget him.

My problem is finding a way to have love again and them not being threatened by my for a deceased soul mate. I don't think i want someone who stops loving a person simply because they died. I don't know if that made sense. After today i really miss him.

Totally - to me, to never have loved would just be the most awful thing ever.

It's worth the risk!