Five Reasons Why the Customer Is Not Always Right!
Posted August 13th, 2009 at 7:40AM
Right off the top, let me say that these are NOT my words ... though I wish they were! The following is the work of one Alexander Kjerulf, a business consultant whose focus is on making the workplace a happier and more productive place to be. I stumbled onto this piece some weeks ago and found it to be a very coherent discussion of just WHY the customer is not always right and why some customers simply need to be discarded for the good of the company and the morale of its employees.
Please give it a read.
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When the customer isn’t right – for your business
One woman who frequently flew on Southwest, was constantly disappointed with every aspect of the company’s operation. In fact, she became known as the “Pen Pal” because after every flight she wrote in with a complaint.
She didn’t like the fact that the company didn’t assign seats; she didn’t like the absence of a first-class section; she didn’t like not having a meal in flight; she didn’t like Southwest’s boarding procedure; she didn’t like the flight attendants’ sporty uniforms and the casual atmosphere.
Her last letter, reciting a litany of complaints, momentarily stumped Southwest’s customer relations people. They bumped it up to Herb’s [Kelleher, CEO of Southwest] desk, with a note: ‘This one’s yours.’
In sixty seconds, Kelleher wrote back and said, ‘Dear Mrs. Crabapple, We will miss you. Love, Herb.’”
The phrase “The customer is always right” was originally coined by Harry Gordon Selfridge, the founder of Selfridge’s department store in London in 1909, and is typically used by businesses to:
1. Convince customers that they will get good service at this company
2. Convince employees to give customers good service
Fortunately more and more businesses are abandoning this maxim – ironically because it leads to bad customer service.
Here are the top five reasons why “The customer is always right” is wrong.
1: It makes employees unhappy
Gordon Bethune is a brash Texan (as is Herb Kelleher, coincidentally) who is best known for turning Continental Airlines around “From Worst to First,” a story told in his book of the same title from 1998. He wanted to make sure that both customers and employees liked the way Continental treated them, so he made it very clear that the maxim “the customer is always right” didn’t hold sway at Continental.
In conflicts between employees and unruly customers he would consistently side with his people. Here’s how he puts it:
When we run into customers that we can’t reel back in, our loyalty is with our employees. They have to put up with this stuff every day. Just because you buy a ticket does not give you the right to abuse our employees . . .
We run more than 3 million people through our books every month. One or two of those people are going to be unreasonable, demanding jerks. When it’s a choice between supporting your employees, who work with you every day and make your product what it is, or some irate jerk who demands a free ticket to Paris because you ran out of peanuts, whose side are you going to be on?
You can’t treat your employees like serfs. You have to value them . . . If they think that you won’t support them when a customer is out of line, even the smallest problem can cause resentment.
So Bethune trusts his people over unreasonable customers. What I like about this attitude is that it balances employees and customers, where the “always right” maxim squarely favors the customer – which is not a good idea, because, as Bethune says, it causes resentment among employees.
Of course there are plenty of examples of bad employees giving lousy customer service. But trying to solve this by declaring the customer “always right” is counter-productive.
2: It gives abrasive customers an unfair advantage
Using the slogan “The customer is always right” abusive customers can demand just about anything – they’re right by definition, aren’t they? This makes the employees’ job that much harder, when trying to rein them in.
Also, it means that abusive people get better treatment and conditions than nice people. That always seemed wrong to me, and it makes much more sense to be nice to the nice customers to keep them coming back.
3: Some customers are bad for business
Most businesses think that “the more customers the better”. But some customers are quite simply bad for business.
Danish IT service provider ServiceGruppen proudly tell this story:
One of our service technicians arrived at a customer’s site for a maintenance task, and to his great shock was treated very rudely by the customer.
When he’d finished the task and returned to the office, he told management about his experience. They promptly cancelled the customer’s contract.
Just like Kelleher dismissed the irate lady who kept complaining (but somehow also kept flying on Southwest), ServiceGruppen fired a bad customer. Note that it was not even a matter of a financial calculation – not a question of whether either company would make or lose money on that customer in the long run. It was a simple matter of respect and dignity and of treating their employees right.
4: It results in worse customer service
Rosenbluth International, a corporate travel agency, took it even further. CEO Hal Rosenbluth wrote an excellent book about their approach called Put The Customer Second – Put your people first and watch’em kick butt.
Rosenbluth argues that when you put the employees first, they put the customers first. Put employees first, and they will be happy at work. Employees who are happy at work give better customer service because:
* They care more about other people, including customers
* They have more energy
* They are happy, meaning they are more fun to talk to and interact with
* They are more motivated
On the other hand, when the company and management consistently side with customers instead of with employees, it sends a clear message that:
* Employees are not valued
* That treating employees fairly is not important
* That employees have no right to respect from customers
* That employees have to put up with everything from customers
When this attitude prevails, employees stop caring about service. At that point, real good service is almost impossible – the best customers can hope for is fake good service. You know the kind I mean: corteous on the surface only.
5: Some customers are just plain wrong
Herb Kelleher agrees, as this passage From Nuts! the excellent book about Southwest Airlines shows:
Herb Kelleher [...] makes it clear that his employees come first — even if it means dismissing customers. But aren’t customers always right? “No, they are not,” Kelleher snaps. “And I think that’s one of the biggest betrayals of employees a boss can possibly commit. The customer is sometimes wrong. We don’t carry those sorts of customers. We write to them and say, ‘Fly somebody else. Don’t abuse our people.’”
If you still think that the customer is always right, read this story from Bethune’s book “From Worst to First”:
A Continental flight attendant once was offended by a passenger’s child wearing a hat with Nazi and KKK emblems on it. It was pretty offensive stuff, so the attendant went to the kid’s father and asked him to put away the hat. “No,” the guy said. “My kid can wear what he wants, and I don’t care who likes it.”
The flight attendant went into the cockpit and got the first officer, who explained to the passenger the FAA regulation that makes it a crime to interfere with the duties of a crew member. The hat was causing other passengers and the crew discomfort, and that interfered with the flight attendant’s duties. The guy better put away the hat.
He did, but he didn’t like it. He wrote many nasty letters. We made every effort to explain our policy and the federal air regulations, but he wasn’t hearing it. He even showed up in our executive suite to discuss the matter with me. I let him sit out there. I didn’t want to see him and I didn’t want to listen to him. He bought a ticket on our airplane, and that means we’ll take him where he wants to go. But if he’s going to be rude and offensive, he’s welcome to fly another airline.
The fact is that some customers are just plain wrong, that businesses are better of without them, and that managers siding with unreasonable customers over employees is a very bad idea, that results in worse customer service.
So put your people first. And watch them put the customers first.
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this is a great article... thank you. I know that Wegman's and American Express have the same policy and they also have amazing customer service..
talking about good and bad... I have to share a good experience.
I was hosting a dinner party and bought some mozzarella cheese at Fresh Market.
They had recently opened in my city and I wanted to give them a try.
When I got home, I opened the mozzarella and immediately noticed an
acrid smell. It was off.
I called the store and asked for a manager. She came on the line and I explained my predicament. I had guests arriving in an hour and I didn't
want to serve bad food.
She immediately asked where I live. I asked why.
She said, "Give me your address. I am coming over."
15-20 minutes later she shows up with two balls of mozarella and a bunch of flowers. I'll never forget that.
Fresh Market. Share the story. -
This is a great article, and, as a small business owner, I heartily agree. We treat our employees very well, and our customers are also treated very well.
On one occasion hubby had to ask a customer to leave, because she was being rude, and talking **** about our new employee(who went on to be one of our quickest and most friendly employees ever) because she made a simple mistake. This lady actually came back after complaining the first time, to ***** some more, some people, just need to have something to argue about, and expect to be given something for free.
Hubby politely let her know that we value our employees and he thought she was way out of line, and that there are other bagel shops in town she would probably be happier at.
I have one regular customer who is a royal *******, and I'm sure he doesn't know I'm the owner(there is a huge difference in peoples attitude when they know this nugget of information, sad but true) and I swear, if he's rude to me again I will be letting him know that he can take his bike and ride to the nearest Manhattan Bagel shop.
We have so many regular customers that love coming into our store, they love that the employees and my husband and I always remember what they are ordering, and always take the time to talk to them and ask how they are doing. And it's done out of genuine concern and niceness. There are some people that just want to push the envelope, and some people that know nothing more than just being rude to 'get their way'. This isn't tolerated at our store.
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I emailed fresh market and told them the story.
They asked who responded to my complaint.
I told them. They weren't surprised. apparently
her reputation in the company is legendary.
Turns out she wasn't the most senior person in the store at that time.
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Redwings2, that's a great story! Isn't it nice how great customer service leaves you feeling? It's such a good feeling to acknowledge that an error has been made, and do what you can to fix the problem. I know it feels good to me when I'm on the receiving end.
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Thank you for your comments! I have been in field service for 30 years and have occasionally been amazed at how some of my supervisors were more interested in coochie-cooing the customers than in supporting me (see the other story in this group). And indeed, sometimes the more "intelligent" a customer is, the more insistent they get that they are RIGHT when they're NOT.
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Great story! My husband ran a small business for years. This story rang so true! One bad customer is not worth losing valuable employees or disrupting business as it costs money.
One such example was a customer in one of our locations,(we had three) who never was satisfied. He complained about everything and was unreasonable and rude. My husband would come home fuming about this petty jerk. One night I told him to satnd up for himself and his business. He had done everything he could to satisfy this moron with no luck. So the next day he took my advice. The customer came in with yet another problem and unreasonable demands. My husband told him in plain English that there was nothing more he could do and he was tired of the constant insults to his business. He told this jerk he had gone above and beyond his limit in trying to satisfy him and perhaps he should patronize another bysiness.
After that day this customer was always polite and respectful when he came in. He never complained again. He had been bullied right back.
Some customers make a sport out of trying to get as many "freebies" as they can. When they run the risk of being blackballed and believe me, small business owners do interact, they often back down. -
I agree Kitten, there are a few out there that like to milk something for all it's worth.
I had a guy that was a regular, and normally pretty nice to me one day snap at me after I asked "would you like that toasted, and is that for here or to go?", he said "NO! I don't want the damn thing toasted, just put it in a bag, slap some cream cheese on it so I can go!". "Okay" I said with a smile(slightly angered smile).
Hehehe . . . I turned around, walked to the sink and started washing my hands, and had every intention of throwing a bagel in a bag, with cream cheese just globbed on top and handing it to him. I didn't get that far though, he apologized really quickly, said he was having a rough morning and apologized again. He's been nicer than normal ever since. Hubby said he most likely saw the fire in my eyes, to which I reply *innocently*, what fire? :-) -
I totally agree with you, great post
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Great post troubleshooter and it would be nice to find more place's with an employee first attitude instead of the dollar. I spent twenty year's in suporvision ang finally had enough and gave it up. I spent more time fighting the company siding with my men if I felt they were correct and company's dont like that. A written policy mean's nothing to me if it is unfair and I never forgot where I came from. One of the first question's ask me where I work now was are you interested in management. NOPE ! and told them why and that all I wanted to do was work my eight hour's and go home and that is just what I do. I am much happier too.
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