My husband and I have been married for five years now. I wasn't always a surrendered wife, but thankfully my eyes have been opened. I try very hard everyday to be the type of woman I want to become, I'm still a work in progress. I stopped nagging and instead gave my husband the respect he had always deserved, I listen to him now and fight the urge to give him my constant opinions. I acknowledge all that he does for our family, working sometimes seven days a week so I can stay home and raise our children, I am so grateful for his sacrifice, it wasn't always this way. I'm finding joy in things that I once dreaded. I love being a housewife, the chores that were once overwhelming I find happiness in because I feel its something I can do to make his life easier and happier. I love the man hes become, I see him for the man he is, that's something I couldn't do before I surrendered. He is my leader, my love, my life. This change I've created in myself has meant so much to us, its helped put us on the right path. -For that enlightenment I am eternally thankful.