You know the feeling you get when something isn't right? Don't ignore it. I'm glad I've got an inner nose or gut and smart enough to follow it. If I hadn't, I would have been killed during my time in the service or if not, lost a lot of cases for my clients. You should never ignore red flags and gut feelings. If you are a woman and you think something isn't quite right with a particular fella you're seeing, go with your gut and don't see him anymore. There are many dead women who were desperate for a relationship so they ended up with some Jack The Ripper type and landed themselves in the morgue. It is hard to talk to parents who have lost their daughters because of some nutcase out there. If you come across someone on here and they don't seem right, block them. You don't have to be friends with anybody here. You can pick and choose your friends. If that person doesn't like to it, too bad for them. They will get over it. If they don't, report them. Respect is lacking. You need to respect yourself by not ignoring the feelings you have.