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My Filipina Wife And Black Men

My wife and I have been married for 15 years. For the last 5 years I've tried to get her to try a black man while I watch. I'm a well hung white guy, so it's not like I don't think I'm giving her pleasure or that I think she's missing something but something about the contrast of the flesh tones. Also, she is petite and I'd love to see a thick black **** stretching her good and giving her pleasure. When I've brought this up my wife gets very upset and calls me sick. However, when we're having sex and I roll play that I'm a black guy ******* her with a big thick ****, she gets wet and **** quickly. Then afterwards she gets pissed off that I brought this up during sex. I know she wants it, she's just a good girl and has the catholic girl taboo thing going on. I still have this fantasy and really only want this to happen once. If she finally gives in though, maybe she'll get into it so much that she starts cheating on me with black men when I'm not around.
Anybody got any advise. The fantasy will not go away and is always in the back of my mind.
Trojan1 Trojan1 46-50, M 18 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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Well it wrong to introduce same into your relationship that has lasted for 15 years and even if not that long but she is your wife and by doing that to her is too bad so leave alone and if you feel that are not satisfying her then let her complain to you okay.

Hi everyone, i am piney and married to white american guy, i love him very much. After we move to USA we start to experiment with swinging. Well i started noticing black guy. OMG OMG OMG now i am only attracted to Black men and we have about 6 close friends and i an sex with almost all the time........ this is the best life style ever. my husband is understanding and is there with me watching and helping and we sex a lot too. its been about 7 years now we have been doing this ...... i love it.... i have changed and strange to my body has changes since i start with black men....... its ok i love it.

I also have a Filipina wife. Beautiful woman, Petite, sexy without trying. We have been married for more than twenty years and when we married she was a virgin. Also Catholic. For quite sometime I had a fantasy about sharing her with a mature black man. I had an ad on SLS and many black men replied. I told each of them that if we met my wife and I would provide a certificate showing we were STD free and we expected the same in return. I chose one of the men who worked as a high school football coach. He was a large man at 6-1, 280 pounds and had played college football. I told him my wife wouldn't agree to a *********. One weekend I took her to Reno and told the other guy I would be doing so. I knew that my wife liked to take a long bubble bath before coming to bed. I waited until she started her bubble bath which usually lasted an hour. I brought the other guy to our room. He had seen photos of my wife and he and I had met previously to talk and exchange medical certificates. We both ******** naked. He already had a big erection and I began to fear that he might be too big for my petite wife. She came out from her bath wrapped in a white towel. She was so startled that she dropped her towel. Beautiful, very sexy sight. Before she could say anything he wrapped his arms around her and gave her a deep French kiss as he carried her to the bed. He kissed her from head to toe and used his tongue to loosen her up. No one said a word. She was very tight and he had trouble getting his **** into her. As he got it in a little way she began moving her hips up and down to help him get deeper. He eventually got all the way in and was very vigorous. He was with us for three hours and had her in many ways. No anal. That she refused. That was more than a year ago. A month later we met him again in Reno. This time my wife knew we were meeting with him and didn't object. He had checked with me in advance to see if he could bring two other men with him. All three of them were high school coaches in California and each gave me a medical certificate. My wife was surprised when she saw the three of them but she didn't object. They entertained her for almost five hours and by the time they and my wife were exhausted she had their *** all over her pubic area and her stomach. After they left she douched and took a morning after pill. Since that time we have met with these three men about once a month. Lots of sex and lots of laughs. I learned several things. One that she didn't get stretched by their size. After they left she returned to her original size. Two that she could easily handle multiple men without pain or discomfort. All in all it has been a wonderful experience. Contrast of color and size
Two things she requires of me. That I be there all the time and that no one tries to have anal sex with her. She no longer says no when I ask about meeting our friends. She doesn't ask about seeing them. She has obviously enjoyed the sex. Lots of sighs, gasps and when asked during sex if she was ok she always says yes..

I have enjoyed sharing my wife with black men for more than a year. Because I am cautious about STD's when I started looking for a suitable black man I told those I talked with that I wanted a medical clinic clearance regarding STD's.
I found someone last year. I had taken my wife to Reno for the weekend. I had discussed with her my interest in sharing her with a black man and she was very much against the idea. She was a virgin when we married and had never had another man.Late in the evening she went in to take a long bubble bath. While she was gone I brought a black guy I had talked to up to our room. He was 55 years old and worked as a football coach for a high school. Large man at about 6-1, 300 pounds. He and I ******** and when my wife came our wrapped in a white towel he and I were standing there naked. He had a huge erection. My wife was so startled that she dropped her towel. She is a Filipina, 5-0, 105 pounds with a beautiful light brown body. Beautiful woman. He lifted her up and gave her a long French kiss. Next he spread her our on the bed and kissed her from her feet to her ears. Next he spread her legs and got her legs up in the air slightly so he would have a good angle. He slowly entered her and gave her some short strokes. She began moving her hips and gradually he got all the way in. Nice long, vigorous strokes. She sighed and moaned. Very erotic night.
Since that time we have met him and two of his friends, also high school football coaches. Very sexy evenings. Now she makes no objections and enjoys the extra attention.

I have enjoyed sharing my wife with black men for more than a year. Because I am cautious about STD's when I started looking for a suitable black man I told those I talked with that I wanted a medical clinic clearance regarding STD's.
I found someone last year. I had taken my wife to Reno for the weekend. I had discussed with her my interest in sharing her with a black man and she was very much against the idea. She was a virgin when we married and had never had another man.Late in the evening she went in to take a long bubble bath. While she was gone I brought a black guy I had talked to up to our room. He was 55 years old and worked as a football coach for a high school. Large man at about 6-1, 300 pounds. He and I ******** and when my wife came our wrapped in a white towel he and I were standing there naked. He had a huge erection. My wife was so startled that she dropped her towel. She is a Filipina, 5-0, 105 pounds with a beautiful light brown body. Beautiful woman. He lifted her up and gave her a long French kiss. Next he spread her our on the bed and kissed her from her feet to her ears. Next he spread her legs and got her legs up in the air slightly so he would have a good angle. He slowly entered her and gave her some short strokes. She began moving her hips and gradually he got all the way in. Nice long, vigorous strokes. She sighed and moaned. Very erotic night.
Since that time we have met him and two of his friends, also high school football coaches. Very sexy evenings. Now she makes no objections and enjoys the extra attention.

This is not a good idea. I am a filipina . I never like the thought of having a black man in my life before because people here are racist and having a black man around is not so accepted. When i started dating black guys , my interest to white guys or to any race are gone. No matter how good looking a man is , a filipino, white, and other race i never get attracted anymore. My fiance really treats me very nicely and we get along very much and a plus the sex is the best. I also started loving the black men's appearance and their color. Forget that idea. Stick to other sexual adventures such as ********* with another woman or another white guy. sexy hot pinays

baby, LOL.. what are you doing here!!? this is my fiance!!

ok, I disagree "yuri24".

There are lots of good black guys that will do this for you. I have been asked to do it from time, to time but my **** is already owned.. right "yuri24".

Yuri and I have done some very fun stuff by being very, very open. number one rule, don't push too much.

If she doesn't want to do it then don't risk your relationship for it. I have found by being very open about sex I was able to see what she really likes and then do it. You could negotiate and tell her you REALLY would love it and you want to do it at least time.. a sort of once in a lifetime deal. You may even want to try something not as kinky to build up to it.

And don't believe that "black they don't go back" b.s. especially with filipinas, 95% prefer white guys HANDS down. If your relationship is rock solid, then you don't have anything to worry about. The guy will just be there to ****. If your lucky she will want to do it again so you can watch.

I have a young Filipina wife who loves me like crazy. She was a virgin when we met and other than with one of my friends who shared her for a while, has no sexual experience. For no logical reason she decided she didn't want to be shared after about twenty couplings but the mere mention of having a hard thick **** fill her with *** gets her aroused. During sex she accepts my ramblings about her being with other men but insists she only wants me when it's over. I am currently arranging for another guy to seduce her and hopefully she will accommodate him because I am so obsessed with the idea of another man being with her, black or white. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than watching her with another man.

I have to tell you dude, you don't want a wife, you want a *****. This is sick behavior for a man who is supposed to love his wife, which it's obvious you do not. Divorce this woman and save up your money for a black transsexual and video tape them ******* you in your ***. That's probably what you want anyway. What is wrong with people?? To me you're no different than a scather. So just eat some **** and get over your sick perverted ideas or divorce this woman. Maybe she is still young enough to find another husband. You know, one that respects her and doesn't treat her like a *****.

when she goes black, she can't go back!:)

lolll.. this is true!

yea if you truly want to give your wife to another man then you need help and you not a man yourself hahahha i feel sorry for your wives sooo much disrespect

well stop being a stupid **** and just love you wife... if you want other men to **** her then you dont love her...

BS!

The best lover I ever had was a filipino woman. She is by far the nastist woman I have ever dated. I must admit I trained her to be that way.

I am black myself (actually mixed). She was raised in California and went to school with many black boys. She had only one black lover before me, when she was 18. She loves the idea of ****ing black men, but hasnt had any after me. We have been ****ing off and on for 15 years. No matter who she dates or who I date, we have an incredible drive to be with each other.

I once asked why more filipino women dont date black men. After all, they love black music, dress like us, dance like us, talk like us and have many freinds that are black. She said it is because they are scared.

Also, she said that most black men approach her wrong. She doesnt like the thug type, which I am not.

I have a few suggestions. Women are attracted to black men for 2 reasons, the big **** thing and because we are very dominant. Not all women like dominant men, but most do, if not out of bed, definately in bed.

I have dated hundreds of women (no exaggeration). Many types of asian women. I am by nature, an alpha male. Yet, I am also sensitive, understanding and respectful. My style lures them in and my dominance makes them do whatever I want. I am all about anal. Out of the 100+ women I have slept withg very few did not do anal with me. This is because my personality gets them in bed, and my animal behaviour turns them out.

What you need to do is talk to her when you have her turned on. It will be a slow brainwashing experience. It may take months, or more. See, most men arent very verbal, and if they are they say the same thing over and over. Women are verbal, when you are making love, talk to her , creatively, about being with a black man. Slowly get her use to the idea.

Get a black didldo, talk to her about it being a real black man.

If you are out or watching tv and you see a black guy, ask her "do you think he is hot?" When she starts admitting she is attracted to some, then change the language. "would you ****him?" "What would make you comfortable in doing one?"

My pinay, was not comfortable at first. But we finally landed on a situation that would work. It had to be out of town with a complete stranger that neither of us would see again.

She ****ed me an 4 other black guys for 3 hours (hottest thing ever!)

Also, women (especially catholic women) have guilt about their desires. Make sure she knows that you will not judge her, and will still love her and how great it will be.
What men dont get is that women are just as nasty as us. They are just afraid to admit it.

Also, tell her that (when she agrees to it) that you will meet the guy first and nothing happens unless she wants it to.

I found that dancing is a great ice-breaker. She gets to watch him move, get comfortable with him and also get turned on by him.

Finally, pick the right guy! This is VERY important, is she dislikes anything about him, find someone else.

If you do all this right, she will come around.

Good luck!

Personally antbig, I think you\'re full of ****. I think you are some pathetic excuse for a human who dreams of grandeur of being a real man.

my girlfriend has had one black guy before she met me, but we have talked about it in detail. this turns me on a lot too, to be able to watch a strong black guy with a large **** do her while she is sucking me. my girl is filipina 25 and i am a much older expat, not that strong sexually due to medications. we use toys a lot to get her a good ******, and we have talked about a black guy joining us. though i have lived here in the philippines it is hard to find someone discreet and someone who respects her limits.

she is very open to try swinging with another couple as she is bi curious. we
are looking into that option, older guy but sexually strong. expat (white or black) but she is averse to filipinos.

meantime we do enjoy role play in sex with me acting as a black man, using toys also
and she loves it when i talk to her while ******* her.

we are trying craigslist in the area for another couple also, wish us luck

really enjoyed reading your post,.

Sounds like you're getting the same reception from your wife that I'm getting from my Thai wife.

Try buying a big black life like ***** and next time you role play with her have her suck your **** then get out that black **** and start ******* her with it and telling her what is on your mind as you do it!! Make sure it is life like and veiny!!

thats hot. so have you made it happen? i totally agree with u about the skin color contrast. its hot.

yea. its not about race. its just light color against dark.

I get her.. and everytime you insist, I know she feels disrespected and unloved.. she thinks you don't give a **** that she's givin' it to someone else..it's not the religious orientation.. i know Filipina women..

be careful what you ask for