My Boyfriend Is Thinking Of Joining Raf

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, and he is thinking of joining the raf. Basically for lots of money and to do something with his life.

I like the fact he wants to do it but I'm a very close person. I always said to myself that I never wanted a person in army cause I know I can't handle being away for someone for so long. I want a home man where I know he is going to be home every night, as see his kids grow up. And I love this man to bits.. But I know I won't be able to handle it...

I don't want to break up but don't think I can do it.
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2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

I know exactly what you mean, my boyfriend is leaving for his basic training in 3 weeks and I'm dreading it- on the one hand I know I need to be supportive and on the other I know I'll miss him like crazy! My boyfriend was the same- he didn't really know what to do with himself so I am glad he now has a goal :) I'm hoping we 're strong enough to get through it :)

I know exactly what you mean, my boyfriend is leaving for his basic training in 3 weeks and I'm dreading it- on the one hand I know I need to be supportive and on the other I know I'll miss him like crazy! My boyfriend was the same- he didn't really know what to do with himself so I am glad he now has a goal :) I'm hoping we 're strong enough to get through it :)