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I Came Out

The Long And Tricky Struggle

By: Steve3326
Written on September 9th, 2012
I came out about 2 months ago to my straight best friend, Matt. He was surprisingly supportive and gave me the confidence to tell everyone. I began by telling a Bisexual girl at school. I promised myself if anyone questioned my sexuality I would answer them honestly, and not keep anything secret.

I had know I was gay, roughly two years before I had the courage to tell anyone, But looking back at my childhood. I have had numerous gay experiences with my older brother (7 Years Older). I never really understood why I enjoyed experimenting with my brother.

Anyways, my main fear of coming out was ruining my friendships. But I can honestly say that coming out as gay has not been detrimental to any of my friendships that I truly care about. Everyone has been incredibly supportive. Anyone who has had any horrible words to say to me has either kept their objections quiet, or been "Dealt With" by the many people who support me.
By: Steve3326
Age: 18-21 , Male
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  • JulianSavier
    JulianSavier

    its always tricky to come out, it was for me. But what you said in the last part is true, you will find support and your real friends will stay with you. Always remember that, I will support you bud!

    Sep 11, 2012
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  • yfronts36
    yfronts36

    Being gay is one of the most basic things about you.

    It is up to you who tell and when you decide to tell them. It is also up to you who you share your body, thoughts, feelings and emotions with.

    Please do not fall into experiencing guilt, fear or shame.

    Be bold, be proud and be yourself.



    When I went into sixth form I told three male friends individually that I liked willies instead of muffies. To this day (24 years later) I have never heard of any of the three of them having told anyone.

    At the time, one of them thought I was joking, and when he realised it wan't he then hugged me and said, "You might be a poof but you're our poof!"

    Sep 9, 2012
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