Getting The Most From Your Collared Slave:To get the most from Your slave, You need give it basically, three things:
1. The whip
2. Some loving
3. Appreciation. Far more appreciation than whip and love, put together.
Your slave takes Your whip, because the whip and the slave are each Yours, to do with as You choose. Nothing special or noteworthy, here.
Your slave accepts loving, because deep down inside, it is human, and all humans want to be loved. slaves do not live for loving, either!
Appreciation is where the slave's identity lives. it NEEDS to know it has made Your life better: More pleasant, more smooth, more fun, more of anything You cherish.
Your appreciation for the work and other services it provides You, presses the slave's buttons! slaves live to serve. Knowing You have benefitted from that service, appreciated that service, and have told it so, makes Your slave full of warm fuzzy contentment.
The ineffable feeling of rightness and fulfillment You feel when You are being served, is what Your slave feels when it receives the knowledge You have been improved by its service.
Now, I assume every slave is collared. Wearing Master’s collar reminds it it is Owned. That there is someone looking out for it. Someone to provide whatever kind of help might be needed. Someone who WANTS it! Someone from whom it can receive the help, guidance, education, disciplinary action, and control, which only You can provide it.
The slave's wearing Your collar reminds it there are standards it needs to meet. That You care whether it performs properly or not. That You have committed to keep it! Your collar on Your slave is a symbol of Your commitment to Your slave, a tangible symbol which it can feel at any time!
Whether a boy slave, or a girl slave: Every slave needs an Owner’s collar on it.
Whether a Man Owner, or a Woman Owner: Every Owner needs keys to a collar with a slave inside.
That's just how it is...