She Lost the In Love

there is this girl. she loves me, but is no longer in love with me. she still acts like she is. holds hands, kisses, hugs, cuddles, messages, but she says she cannot be with me, at least not right now. that is all. i love her. want to be with her forever. but, maybe not right now, if thats what she wants. she is moving away to a different city, where her ex/best friend lives and i am moving home. but i wasn't done yet. and it seems like she is forcing herself to be done.
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26-30, F
2 Responses Oct 10, 2006

I think these situations are so hard to navigate because they are so emotionally charged that it becomes difficult to stay grounded and rationale. I am dating someone who goes back and forth between being so sweet and so loving to constantly critical and really difficult to be around. It is driving me absolutely crazy and i know how hard your situation must be with someone who you love and want to be with moving away (I realize it's very different than my situation but the emotions of love and potential loss or fear are common I think). Good luck navigating it and remember that you dont know what the future holds or the ways in which your paths might cross in the future, but for now her decisions have to be respected...

Whether or not she is forcing herself to be done, there is nothing you can do to stop her. Hang in there.