Or, At All, For That Matter.

Every ****** I've ever had has been faked. This makes me crazy, becasue I don't know what to do. I say to people "I don't get much physical pleasure out of sex" and always, without fail get the reply "Well, whoever you're with just doesn't know what they're doing". That's not it. I can't even do it by myself. I've tried many different things, clearing my mind, buying sex toys getting drunk first - nothing. Well, no, I guess I have climaxed once - I used a vibrator, held it in one spot, spent the next few minutes thinking to myself "wow, I sure do have a lot of nerve endings right there" and suddenly, I climaxed. It was purely action, I felt almost nothing, just looked down and said "hm, that's new."
Don't get me wrong, I love sex. Just for me, it's almost entirely an emotional experience - I do it because I love pleasing the man I love, and feeling close to him. I've been to the doctor, and she's stumped. Told me to see a sex therapist(doubt my insurance'll cover that). I really have no clue what to do about this :/
lostvegas lostvegas
18-21, F
3 Responses May 4, 2007

See my story in this group. Also libido-boosting herbs like maca can help women.

My advice: keep on playing with ************. It can be spectacular. You'll get a lot of satisfaction and you'll learn a lot about your body.<br />
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So that's it: learn to get excited and give yourself a juicy ******. That's the first step.

you need to have completely open sex. tell your partner verythign that feels great and have them concentrate on that. and you've got to let go of yourself and really want to ******.