If a Man Is Insecure.. Run!!!!
Insecurity in a man is not able to be cured!! You can't fix it!!
Insecurity leads to all kinds of horrible emotions that can then lead to emotional and physical abuse.
Battered women would most likely be able to say that their men suffer from great insecurity.
A man needs his mother. Needs her affirmation. He needs her to be a role model in his life. You want to know what a man is like, then meet his mother. You will never be able to be that for him. If he needs a mother then send him packing. You need a real man.
Some men will get with a really attractive woman that is generally considered 'out of his league'. He is turned on by her. If he is insecure, he can turn her whole world into chaos. Slowly brain washing her into his own puppet. He can't stand that other men look at her with lust and eventually she can't leave her own house.
I say that you cannot fix it because too many times I have seen it go way down hill. A man must first come to terms with his own insecurity issues before trying to be a real man to a real woman.
Those insecure guys can be very tempting.. They can fulfill the need in some women to mother, protect and nurture. But they are a well that you cannot ever fill. They will come to resent you, and you them.
So if you find a man that is insecure RUN AND RUN FAST!!!
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!!