I have been with this guy since 2004 and we have two amazing kids together. Last year we took a "break" from each other. At the beginning of this year we decided to work things out again between us. February I noticed that his attitude changed towards me and at first I couldn't figure out why. Then I started to question him about him and other girls and he denied any involvement with other girls. So in March I did some digging around and found out that he was messing around and involved with someone else. It hurt me so bad because I'm trying to do my best to make things better between us and he wasn't even thinking of me. So months go by and we are a couple again. Now last week he told me that he just wants to be friends from now on and I'm confused. I don't know where it came from and why it came. Since he made is official that we are going to be friends we barely speak to each other. He calls to check on the kids and he don't tell me he loves me anymore. But yesterday when he came over to see the kids he gave me a kiss. I asked him why and he said, "because I love you". I don't get what he wants from me or what he's trying to do with me. He doesn't want to be with me but he kisses me and says he loves me.