Find Yourself First

this is one of the most wonderful things i've ever read! and coming from a person so young. i think you're years ahead of other girls your age;)

nice

very good about time a woman talked some sense, you sure your not a guy trying to show women the way? lol.

a women simply has to find the good things about herself and focus on those and be happy. does my arse look big? now you know why you will get dumped or cheated on for saying this, because, a person who doesnt know themselves cant be trusted to know what they want. and that comes to what man they want either. and so also they cannot be trusted.

Your post contains a lot of useful thoughts, but I would argue that good men simply do not fall from the sky when you aren't looking. You have to look because good men are out there wondering why none of you respond to our advances. I'd wager it's because you've stopped looking.



I've read lots and lots of posts and comments from women looking for a great guy. The most common theme among all of them hinges on this idea that they keep finding cheaters and the like. I have to conclude that you ladies simply aren't attracted to the great ones. You're going to have to embrace your attraction and animal instinct. Accept that what you idealize is not what you find truly attractive in a man. A great man and the man you like are not the same two fellas.



You can love yourself all you want, but unless you figure out why you are attracted to the ones who keep cheating on you, I'm afraid you'll keep making the same mistake time and time again. We are slaves to our own personal preferences and we have to live with that reality, regardless of the outcome.

ur clever i wanna marry u lol

I Agree.Beautifully Said!

you are very nice woman and im sure anyone you would accept as your boyfriend is so lucky and with your kissable lips i wonder how sweet that could be?hhhmmmm

I hope you find yourself and the right person when you're ready :)

Very well said. You're very on point about a lot of things, and it applies to both women and men. You have to understand yourself first, if you want a chance at someone else doing so.

I have to agree that when you're not looking you can quite often meet someone unexpectedly.



It's important to stick to your morales and guiding compass through life as you'll regret it if you dont.



Feeling good inside yourself and knowing you're doing the right thing shows on the outside and it makes you look more attractive.

Well said, justbefree... you're wise (and beautiful) beyond your years!

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Thanks for that tip michelle .....xoxo