My Futures So Bright I Have to Wear Shades

I can’t change what happened yesterday.  Heck I can’t even change what happened a moment ago but if I learned from it and I became a better person that is all that matters. 

I have this personal philosophy that every person we meet is in our lives for a reason. Even if the experience is a negative one you can still take positive from it.  Accept that it was a learning experience and move into the future as a smarter person.  This is my personal attempt to change my future.  I am looking forward to a future so bright I have to wear shades.



fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
46-50, F
34 Responses May 8, 2008

You know, I liked that song, but I didn't like Neon Riders the show so much, as in, all I really remember about it was the theme song, it might have been a good show or a bad show I just don't remember anything else about it but "my future's so bright, I gotta wear shades" which was some of the first inspirational music that I latched onto.

good to see that u r optimistic. i wish i wud b a bit optimistic too ;(

Your future is so bright that I have to wear shades. You have a great philosophy!

Yeah, I agree. Each mistake challenges us and it encourages us to take multiple approaches. Growth is necessary, we shouldn't deny ourselves a chance at a better tomorrow to create a very powerful foundation for our future.

I agree with what you're saying. Although I can't help, but wish that some things would have never happened. I'm glad that you seem to have things figured out. Also, that title is so

You are welcome.

Thanks..have a great Weekend :)

Thanks michnat... now that I have your attention. . . Have an awesome day.

I love the title of this story and that's what caught my attention :) <br />
and i totally agree with you, every negative experience carries a hidden opportunity that leads to the positive side.

true ! your psilosopy is good . explore life and make mistakes than to play it safe

I'd like bassy's comment. =)

This s a beautiful, inspirational story. Your maturity and knowledge far exceeds your age. We can't change the past, but we don't have to repeat the same mistakes again. I've learned over the years that I can find some good in all bad. It's there if we look. You're a WINNER!

Whoo Who? Well it is the pineapple princess of course!

lol woohooo


awesome story :)<br />
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was i a negative person u met ? :|


What a wonderful outlook on life. You have inspired me.

if only that really worked

My internet was messed up and then I have plans to go out of town for a while.


Great story. I'm working up to having your attitude all the time.

Thanks for your comments.

"every person we meet is in our lives for a reason. Even if the experience is a negative one you can still take positive from it."<br />
I totally agree with this, this is very similar to my own theory! You can take experience from everything and anything, you always learn from mistakes and gain from achievments!<br />
I love the title too!_x

This is my personal philosophy too; I agree with what you are saying it is so true to be able to see life that way; plus if anything that could have happen you could be content and satisfied with it either negative or positive. I love you for that. PEACE

That feeling is mutual LNG. I know you look out for me. I love our conversations and your positive contributions. YOU ROCK baby.

FG Well I feel blessed just knowing you even if it is just in EP land.

Why would you think you can have it your way with fungirl darling. I am not that way. I am ALWAYS hard to get lol

So fungirl you really do work an Burger King, where I can have it my way sometimes?

very nice FG, maybe we can meet so I can teach you something. I do know things, really, I do. I might know something.

Great comment bassy

Life is give and take. The best relationships are ones where both people involved are committed to that.

Nebula, thanks for your comments. You just want to find a balance and let the person know what you need. For example if you need to cuddle and then get up at noon to go to an art exhibit every Sat your partner may not want to do that so you try to find a balance and make it every other week. One thing that my new friend has taught me is that there is a difference in compromise and sacrifice. Let me know if you want me to expand and I may get him to weigh in from a guy stand point as well if you want to know more.

This is a great an example of taking it to heart, there is this person in my life who, probably because I expect too much of them, lets me down repeatedly. Usually due to pursuing their own interests first. I have come to think that the lesson I am to take from this is to learn by example. It's possible to have a nature that is too giving. Perhaps I should look after my own interests more than I do. Yes, maybe that's the lesson.