It's So Hard to Fall...

I can't fall in love. I mean, it's not impossible coz i have fallen in love in the past, nearly 4 years ago. I am totally over that guy as i was the one who ended it because i did not feel like he was the one and the relationship was going nowhere. but now, i can meet the most perfect guy & i can like him, but as soon as the relationship starts to get serious something in my head or heart stops me from being able to fall in love & then i get put off the guy.
kate1983 kate1983
22-25, F
2 Responses Mar 3, 2007

yep, same here. Though I think my ex plays a role in this. I've been single for 4 years and though I meet guys, some of them really nice, I find reasons why I can't work with them. I think in your case you've managed to put a limit on relationships and nobody can get beyond that limit. Is this a psycological consequence of your previous relationship, or may this was the reason why it ended... your subconscious limit implemented. Dont worry sweety Im sure someone will come through, and test your limits!!!

It could be that once you go to far that somewhere deep inside you pull away. It may be in your best interest to find this out. You don't want the perfect guy for you to slip through.