Inability

I've been in  a one way relationship with a girl for the better part of 2 years. Now it wasn't always like that, it began as a lustful relationship that blossomed into a deep meaningful relationship. That lasted about 8 months and it became a one sided love affair. I call or text her every night to say "goodnight, I love you" and all I ever get back is a text saying "Night." I've woken up several times at 3 AM to answer one of her calls and last night, when I really needed to talk, she answered and hung up the phone. After calling 7 times I went to bed, phone in hand in case she called. At 2 AM I received a text saying "Night" only after I called at 1 AM crying. I can't seem to get out of this relationship. This has been going on for a little over 2 years and whenever we part ways, she comes crying to me and we end up together. I hate that she uses me, and I know she could care less about my well being, but unlike her, I actually care. I go out of my way to be a good boyfriend, regardless of how crappy she treats me. I have no idea how to get out of this and I've tried everything from not being around her but she seems to always manipulate me into being with her. I hate one way relationships

TheGuerrilla TheGuerrilla
18-21, M
2 Responses Feb 19, 2010

I did. Not permanently but I haven't seen them in almost 3 months. I talk to them occasionally on the phone.

It's sad that there are no comments, I understand how you're feeling, I'm in a similar relationship and feel I really need to end this, yet when we're face to face the manipulation gets hold of me and I can't give up. I'm such a fool, but I don't know how to guard myself from the manipulation and hurting.<br />
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Did you end your relationship?