What I Didn't Expect And Continues To Rewind In My Head Of Potential CheatingI've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we've always been much in love and inseperable. I know what the situation I'm going to tell you isn't a big deal but you always trust your gut feelings right?
I was on my boyfriend's computer and wanted to go on my facebook. I didn't realize it automatically went on his but saw it was his profile and had a gut feeling of wanting to check his messages, so yes I went through his private profile inbox, which I know is wrong. What I saw was a convo thread between his female co worker and him. I noticed he sent her a message first telling her how it was so nice seeing her earlier at work! The second thread read, I just wanted to take the time to tell you how I missed you! The girl replied, awww me too I miss you and how cute. His reply said, no problem not as cuter as you. He insisted and was asking about school and insisted that they should take classes together. At this point I was beginning to take a simple guy flirt into an invitation to hang out.
I have confronted him about this and he says there's obviously nothing going on and that I'm reading too into it. The thread of the messages keep rewinding in my head and each time I remember the words of I miss you and your cute, I get so upset, sad and dissappointed. I mean I have the right to feel this way?
Bottom line, with talking to another girl I believe there should be boundaries of words you say to each other especially when you're in a relationship. I know there are many guys out there that flirt and their girls are secure and find with it...well that's them and how they handle situations and majority of relationships that I've seenstarted off like that ended for the worst. I'm a concern girlfriend and If I didn't love him, I wouldn't give a daym at all about what I read between another female and him. I know what's wrong, this is wrong and its been 2 days later and I still haven't got over it. He hasn't admitted anything was wrong about that conversation. I must have cried till the river dried last night.
Please give me some advice about this situation. He loves me and I know he does but this other girl and co-worker he'll see often bothers me. I've never been insecure, but my insecurities showed with this situation.
joanteee 26-30 16 Responses 1 May 29, 2010