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The Hurt Wife

My husband shattered my soul. I was one of the wives that just knew, that beyond the shadow of any doubt, that MY husband would NEVER in a million yrs cheat. Yeah he cheated alright. And was caught during my most vulnerable time(s) yea more than one incident and during more than one pregnancy. Coming home on Mothers Day from spending the night with the woman I'm like 8 months pregnant. During my last pregnancy, the day of my delivery, a woman calls my hospital room asks for him, it was her, this was a yr later completely diff pregnancy. After swearing and promising to leave her, it never happened. The hospital incident blew me away! All the hidden cell phones. The lies on top of lies just to cover up any previous lies. No morals, no conscious. Just lying because he knew he could get away with it. I put up with this from 2002 till just last January of 2010! I honestly believe he stopped because he got sick, he's now on dialysis. A non drinker, non smoker, with no pork in his diet, no sodas. Has Renal failure? Nope that's God and Karma. So now he has amnesia about anything wrong he's ever done. Or its like giving a vampire garlic, superman kryptonite, it kills him. He has never confronted all this cheating, lying etc. He thinks leave it alone, it'll be ok, it'll all just go away. Well it's like a fungus, which thrives in dark damp places, keep it covered up, it's still wreaking havoc. I don't like him anymore, my only reason for staying is for my kids, they were so young and I had nowhere else to go. But now they are between the ages if 101/2 and 8, my middle child is 91/2 I also have a 19yrold. They aren't grown, but they are not babies. We are gonna get on out there and do it on our own. On prayers. All that he has sewn in those streets he is now reaping, and it's taking me dwn too! I have too much to loose to let that happen to me. My story is far from over I'll have more post soon. Forgive any typo's I was strictly writing from my heart, as I wrote this it did open up some old wounds, but also gave me some fresh new revelations.
mconway177 mconway177 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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I'm so sorry. These stories make me want to give up and not bother opening myself up to anyone. He never deserved you.

Wow, I can't imagine how that must feel. I would probably feel guilty for being glad it was almost over, contemplate letting him rot and die alone but being too kind to really let that happen to another human being...especially the father of my kids. You are probably wishing you let her have him long ago so she could be cleaning up after him and nursing him to his death...and where is heffer now? Dang girl you got dealt a tough hand may it bring you strength and wisdom for the future.

God bless you and may you find happiness with a man who truly cherishes you... or just live a happy life with no love interest. I hope your soon to be ex husband gets something that makes his penis fall off. Gives decent guys a bad rap.

Please give us updates! You deserve to be happy and loved the right way!

Dear Mconway177,



My name is Stephanie May and I write for a magazine. I'm so sorry for what you've been through with your husband. Betrayal like this is unimaginable.



If you were willing I would really like to be able to do your story and expose him for what he has done in our magazine?



Everything would be treated with the utmost care and sensitivity. Any story would be told in your own words and your wishes would be taken into account at all times. You would also have the chance to approve the story before publication.



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If you could let me know if you feel this would be something you would consider or for more information, please do get in contact with me.



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U may use my story if u r still interested. My E-mail is mconway177@gmail.com...Thanks

One of the biggest betrayals a partner could ever do to you. How on Earth does one move on from that? To know that your heart was not enough for him.

So sad....all u need is u and ur kids....NO MEN!!!!!!! I luv u and I will pray for u God loves u so much.....oh yea and another thing how come u won't find a job that pays u lots of money and get a house/apartment for sell and leave him.......if it's possible for u....

I was just like u I'd put my hands down on a bible n swear he'd never ever cheat but he did for 6 months during my pregnancy n birth of our first son he left us in the hospital saying he needed to go to the gym just to c her he didn't break it off til he got locked up over a failure to appear n I found her panties in his car I found out he even had sex w her in our house on our bed n he told her he was leaving me cuz our marriage was fake n he told her he loved her he's w me since he got out he was only in for a week but i don't love him anymore he too shattered my soul :(

I was just like u I'd put my hands down on a bible n swear he'd never ever cheat but he did for 6 months during my pregnancy n birth of our first son he left us in the hospital saying he needed to go to the gym just to c her he didn't break it off til he got locked up over a failure to appear n I found her panties in his car I found out he even had sex w her in our house on our bed n he told her he was leaving me cuz our marriage was fake n he told her he loved her he's w me since he got out he was only in for a week but i don't love him anymore he too shattered my soul :(

I say ***'em he doesnt love you darling he loves the way you dropped yur knickers everytime he clicked his fingers

that is horrible she called your hospital room while you are giving birth to a baby- that is so wrong it just makes me upset. i hope you and your children get out there on your own and away from his cheating

We are working on leaving, I've had some little set backs, but I'm working very hard on it. It's hard when there's children involved otherwise I'd have been long gone. But I'm done now, when I clear this mess, I will be on my own, no more men, just my kids and me. Thanks alot though for your concern and for the time you took to send a response.