So Very Confused.
My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me, we have one little girl together. It was around April that he broke up with me, & a week later I found out that he got with his co-worker that he's been talking to for a while, claiming that they're only friends & that she has a boyfriend already. Well a couple month later in August, he came back to me. He said he misses me, he loves me, & things like that, So I took him back, he told me that he stopped talking to her, he doesn't want anything to do with her, he wants to fix our relationship up, he told me that he told her that he's back with me. I believed him, cause I thought he really meant it. But a month after I found out that he was still talking to her, On his phone he replaced her name with a guy name. So I got curious, & read the texts, & that's when I knew it was her. I confronted him about it asking him who was this person really, he lied to me saying it was just a guy friend that he works with. & then I started bitching, that's when he told me it was her. So I took his phone & bitched at her..& ever since then he never talked to her again. & he swore on our daughter that he will never do that again. It's been a couple month already, from what I know he haven't talk to her but I just can't forget about what he did. & i'm wondering if I didn't snoop around his phone, would he still be talking to her. I don't know what to do, I keep thinking about what he did with her, how he lied to me, how he barely came to see his daughter during our break up. No matter how hard I tried to forget, I just can't. It hurts..