Cheating Is Rough...I need some help again so the guy I'm with and have been with for four years cheated on me about 1.5 years ago. It's been a rough road and thought I had moved on.
Turns out no...but recently I have taken the steps to truly forgive him and put trust towards him. We have talked about things and I have decided that this is who I want to be with and I will do whatever it takes to do so.
We did get into a fight the other day about trust and what not and tonight he asked me to add Skype and I did and I had to work so we couldn't mess around with the video chat part. But at the bottom of his Skype profile page I saw that he had two contacts. It bothered me a bit because I know one of them is me but the other is a mystery and I'm not gonna ask him who it is because I want to trust that he's not doing n e thing stupid again.
He promised me he would never cheat again and I want to trust him and I do trust him but I can't lie that thought does linger!
I have choose to stay so no I don't really need people telling me once a cheater always a cheater! And I should just give up! I would like advice on how I can move past easier, stop being so nosey, and just live a happy life with him and have no worries!
Sorry if it sounded rude but I want advice on how to get past it not give up on it
Nicoleh7213 22-25, F 4 Responses 0 Jan 22, 2013