my bf and i have been together for a year plus. i took him in when he wsa jobless and had no money. i sacrifced my outings with my friends so we cld have some food on the table. eventually aft several months he got a job n that meant a better future for me. or so i tought. Appearently now when he has a great job and everythin is going on wonderful, while he was drunk he asked his former crush to be his gf and she agreed also knowing that he was drunk. And i had to find all that out from her. He did not have the balls to tell me this. According to him he cant back of out of that relationship cos of guilt, that he had asked her and she said yes (he had been asking her for 6 years n this is the 1st time she said yes) and the fact that she has nvr been in a relationship for the past 5 years. And so just like that i am ditched, like a piece of garbage. He also said that he now "likes" me as opposed to love me and that he has had feelings for her all along and he dd try to change me into her but failed. He also said that he is guilty for doin that to me and thats y he wanted the break up... for god's sake, thats a cowards way out of problems.
i think he is a worthless scum and i deserve better. but i still love him and the hurt is unbearable. And to think that this is the guy who wanted to marry me, his parents were to discuss our future with my parents. And its all gone. all my dreams, all mt hopes.