Relax And Let It Go
It's just not ME. I don't need someone fawning all over me , making a big deal to get my attention , then doing a 180 and disappearing without so much as a see you later.
I'm not interested in forcing anyone to love me ~ that's plain and simple insecurity ~ and it's not love , it's fear.
Fear of losing a feeling you've become used to feeling , fear of losing something you didn't own to begin with.
The old adage is true , no matter how hackneyed it has become. I can't make you love me , any more than I can force myself to love you.