Maybe Its Because I'm Too Nice

This has been a huge factor in any social relationship I've had be it friends or more. I simply can't read people. Can I hold my own in a Texas Hold'em game, yes- can I pick ups social clues that are red flag's for emergency in a social situation (i.e. the end of a relationship)  for some reason, hell no.

I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I only function on the mode of "you get what you see". I have lots of trouble understanding "alterier motives" and why people manipulate and lie. I feel that because of this nievity I end up missing social cues that would allow me to protect myself from getting taken advantage of. While I'm learning its still difficult.

VerucaSalt85 VerucaSalt85
22-25, F
Mar 11, 2010