50 Things I Hate About Leo Men

Returning for your own masochistic amusement, I see. Well, to all you "Storybook Prince Charming" Leo men out there, this is just a fun little bloggy I wrote based upon my own experiences, perceptions and observations of Leo men throughout my life...with a bit of a humorous Scorpio twist. So buckle up *******, because it doesn't matter what it reads. It's about you, and that's ALL you care about anyway.

1. They are casually sneaky and fail to reveal pertinent information about themselves from the get go. It will serve you well to do your homework, and know his past as boring as it may seem. He'll demonize every woman he's ever been with to ensure the two of you never meet. Gawd forbid you corroborate stories and form an opinion based on FACT that would validate your worst fears about your 'said' relationship with the Leo man.

2. Making sure that their needs are met before yours takes precedence over all, much to your detriment. This means either way, you lose.

3. In the beginning, you're going to think you've met the man of your dreams...floating on cloud 9 baby. Guaranteed. You will be flooded with emotions you thought never existed in you. Feelings of love, joy, peace, security and happiness. But the honeymoon doesn't last long. Once they become comfortable in your presence, they will take advantage of you without contributing to your household, leave their dirty clothes at your house for you to wash, inconveniencing your life at every turn...if you allow it.

4. Take the cream of the crop and leave you with the scraps, e.g., use up all the hot water so you get a nice cold shower and leave empty containers of things in your refrigerator that you commonly use without batting an eye or replacing them.

5. They tend to be financially tight-fisted (CHEAP), fiscally irresponsible, and rather selfish! They aren't selfish with themselves though, just you. With that being said, when the ball is in YOUR court, run with it!

6. Extremely disingenuous, even when conveying their deepest emotions to you. It's cute, really. It's as though they are trying to convince themselves that they actually care about you as much as they proclaim. It's my belief that they've ALL all taken theater/drama classes.

7. They never do anything for you without weighing out the benefit they'll stand to gain from it. There is an ulterior motive for most everything they pull out of their ***** regardless of whether it's your idea or his. There is no such thing as "selflessness" with this man.

8. They've also been known to throw little toiletries and things for themselves into YOUR grocery cart and then walk away when it comes time to pay the cashier. So long as you're buying, he'll want the biggest, plushest, fastest, most expensive "WHATEVERTHEFUCK" known to man.

9. So vain. They spend more time in the bathroom primping, plucking and pruning than any woman I've ever known. Behind that closed door they're admiring themselves in the mirror (hide your hair products) or blowing up your crapper so when you go to use it, there won't be any toilet paper left.

10. If they have an animal, they will claim it means 'the world' to him but he does little or nothing to maintain the health and well being of that animal.

11. Their jokes tend to be not funny to anyone but themselves...and it's usually on YOU!

12. They honestly feel they have the authority to dispense advice like skittles when they can barely manage to keep their own **** together. Gawd, can they talk.

13. They tend to be vapid, dry, insipid and ineffectual or be the total opposite bubbly and personable...either way it's a turn-off because its a mask they use to hide their "fundamental freak" within.

14. If you ask them to do something that they don't want to, it becomes a HUGE imposition and they try to play it off as though it isn't but it is SO apparent and they make their displeasure known to you...then they wish to be rewarded for their forced efforts. But goddamit, if they need YOU to be somewhere to do something for them, you better ******* be there!

15. I have found that many Leo men are absolute "Momma's Boys" and will proudly admit it because chances are, they're still living at home : )

16. Few are able to live alone for any substantial amount of time and will cling to any unsuspecting woman who happens to glace in their direction. One lover will never be enough to satisfy this man who constantly looks over the fence and beyond for greener pastures.

17. Uhh...before you hand over your house key, once he's wormed his way into your life BUT GOOD, he will literally "seize" any sense of asylum you've sought to preserve in your humble dwelling. Your sanctuary will become HIS own personal "Extended Stay" hotel. He'll treat your things like ****, use your fine Egyptian linens to wipe his *** and trample over that load of wash you just pulled out of the dryer. After all the cha-ching is gone and they've eaten all your food, ****** your house up, taken a nap and molded permanent sweat impressions into the cushions of your couch...they'll split. You can then plan on spending the remainder of your day (or weekend) disinfecting, washing the funk out of your sheets, scraping toothpaste off the mirrors and wiping up puddles of ****. Cleaning Products...good investment to consider.

18. They have a tendency to be fundamentally unhappy people, but have no problem drowning you in their misery while feeding on your energy until you don't know who the hell you are anymore. Psychic leeches who have no qualms about instantly distancing themselves from you during your time of need. Until you prove to serve a purpose to him, he'll be MIA. If there's nothing in it for him, he's outtie. They fundamentally lack the patience, compassion and empathy required to be supportive during a crisis when it concerns you. Their take on this is, "I don't have time for this ****" or "I can't be around unhappy people" So I suggest you put on your "*******" lipstick and be ready to please him with a gracious smile on your face because that's the ONLY way he wants to see you. **** your crisis.

19. If you have children, whether his or yours from a previous relationship, he will expect you to put his needs first above theirs. What's his, is HIS, and what's yours, is HIS. As fathers, they're either "all over the place" in every aspect of their parenting style, "absent", or a delightful combination of both.

20. Everything is always everybody elses fault and they throw frequent pity parties for themselves so, you better be there with bells on because you'll surely become the object of ridicule. Here's a fun head game. We'll call it "Fantasy Phone": Let's make his friends believe you're fighting with him on the phone so they'll think you're a complete *******. Meanwhile, he pretends to defend himself against your "imaginary argument", all the while shouting at you through the phone, "Calm down babe. [Yea, she's a little upset] It's okay...it's okay" Hello crazy mindfucker :)

21. You will find that your children will probably not like him as he may become verbally abusive towards them when you aren't around. Don't dote on them too much or he may quickly become jealous. Same goes for any family member or friend you may have a close relationship with. As long as those relationships don't infringe on the time or any attention which may otherwise be directed towards him, he'll not intervene but, as soon as it does, you will be expected to do away with them. Off with their heads! You will be expected to rely solely upon him for all of your emotional, social and interpersonal needs, for whatever that's worth...as he brushes that puppy off your lap. And you'll soon discover, not much.

22. They pay little attention to detail on a personal level and will promptly assign little responsibilities and duties for you to carry out for them. This is partly due to the fact that they spread themselves out so thin, they can hardly keep their crap together.

23. Don't you dare do something that they can bring up and smear your face in at a later date because if you do, you will NEVER hear the end of it!!!!!

24. Nosey fux loving that drama! If you want to know what's going on between "Joe Blow" and "Suzie Cheesecake" on TV or down the street, ask a Leo man. He'll know every dirty detail right down to tiniest bloody skidmark! If there's something going on, e.g., a fight, a riot, a showdown, a hostage situation...these fools are right there in the middle of it filming or taking still shots.

25. While paying little attention to detail on a personal level, they have a tendency to forget important dates...like YOUR birthday. This is especially true if he doesn't really love you. Like most everything, it'll be half-assed. Do question missing articles of clothing, tools and such. This scatterbrain has a habit of leaving his **** at the homes of his concubines. LMAO. Take an inventory if you feel you must. Personally, I wouldn't bother.

26. This man knows how to cook and clean. Don't let him trick you! Because he has YOU to do it for him, he doesn't feel he has the need to do it for himself. This goes for anything you do for him. But by the same token, if you don't do it for him, he'll simply find someone else who will.

27. They have tons of ideas and little projects going on that never seem to come together for them because they lack the self discipline to stay on task. Supreme Procrastinators! They put things off they'll probably never do today, tomorrow, next week, next year...you get the picture. I'm beginning to think they all suffer from ADHD and/or are bi-polar.

28. Addictive personalities. Food, drugs, *******, booze & tattoos. Whatever it may be, they indulge themselves to the extreme. Impulsive, rarely (if ever) taking into consideration how the consequences of their actions effect them, and/or everyone around them. Generally obsessed with sex, addicted to p-o-r-n , down-low kink, and visit rosie palm on a daily basis. In their book, there isn't a problem in the world that a good shagging can't alleviate, and as one I know likes to say, "There isn't anything a little penicillin can't cure". If they're not doing you properly, you can best believe they're doing somebody else.

29. They constantly have to be reassured that they are loved (by you and everyone else in their vicinity) and often insert themselves into every aspect of your life. Inevitably, he will screw up with your family and he shall forever be disliked by them.

30. They emulate their environment in a desperate effort to 'fit in'...sort of the way a chameleon changes color to blend into their surroundings. Must be the center of attention at all times, so get out of the way...you're casting a shadow on his stage.

31. Did I mention they're fn LAZY? Maintaining a Leo is a freaking CHORE!

32. Extremely flirtatious, even while you are standing next to him. They meticulously cultivate their de facto/cyber secret fan clubs (Men and Women) and go to great lengths dangling enchanting seductions, subsequently sending mixed messages to his admirers; Keeping them well within his emotional proximity. With his this being said, their desperately fragile little hearts will hang in HIS balance as they plead for clarification...just the way he likes it.

33. Uh, did you say something? Don't kidd yourself. They don't REALLY care about what you're talking about. They're thinking, "Shut up and take your clothes off already". You could be telling him the most compelling story about something and he'll continue to surf the internet and text people until you shut up. Aww, how sweet. He called you "beautiful" Don't think for a moment you're special. He calls them all "beautiful" so as to avoid confusion with names.

34. Moving on. Everything you're talking about, at any given time, MUST be about him. If you're on the phone and he's in the same room with you, you're obviously talking about him. He'll pester you until you get off the phone and probably interrogate you about who you were on the phone with and what you were talking about (with reference to him)

35. Even when they're having fun, they appear to be miserable, unless they're having sex. Pretty good lovers...sometimes.

36. They're as flaky as pie crust. Like cops, they never seem to be around when you need them most and when they are, they aren't much help to you anyway...lol. Their "maybes" mean NO, and "I'll see you in a few minutes" can potentially be worth a good hour or two. Doesn't matter how long you've been together, (weeks, months, years) he'll make you feel as though you have absolutely no right to ask him where he's been. Think hard.

37. As a courtesy (oxymoron), they may ask you where you would like to go but you'll end up where ever they wanted to be initially, and that's not even certain because they kind of fly by the seat of their pants. The only thing he can plan with certainty, is being late. WTH, as far as he's concerned the party doesn't start until he arrives anyway.

38. The only thing he'll know about you, beyond a shadow of a doubt, is your biorhythm. He'll have you clocked within hours, then conveniently skulk away once you start. They're really good at skulking. He doesn't put much effort into your relationship until you decide you've had enough and begin to walk. Then, it's balls to the walls with text messages, phone calls and pleas for forgiveness. On other occasions, as a last resort, You may expect to receive flowers, gifts and marriage proposals. If he dumps you, then it's **** You.

39. Cold, heartless bastards who'll ride your coat tails until they're caught with their pants down. Then they become shameless ******* with no remorse. They don't try too hard to impress you after that because they're pretty sure that you've taken as much **** as any of he other ******* have in the past, so why try. In the end, you will have meant absolutely nothing to him as he shuffles on to his next project that he was already prepping while with you. Yea, you'll see his sorry *** in a few days driving down the street with another chick in the passenger side and either pity her (not likely) or sigh in relief!

40. Needy, spoiled, moooooody, self-absorbed, egotistical whiners. Stroke often and repeat! Their pride is at stake...Got me? It's all about them. They may not be your Mr. Right, but they can certainly be your Mr. Right Now. Instant gratification preferred.

41. They are easily bored with repetition/normalcy, which to them, symbolizes a form of imprisonment or stagnancy. They have a difficult time following instructions, maintaining focus and staying the course. Easily distracted by anything "shiny" and "fascinating" **chasing the light on the wall** Must constantly be entertained, amused and stimulated on every possible level. The band comes first baby!

42. They lie about the dumbest **** sometimes. You try your best to sift the truth out of the crap he just told you because buried deep within the catacombs, lies a half-truth. When they aren't purposefully and poorly lying, they're mindlessly omitting critical pieces of information that make their bizarre stories completely logical. A few of the ONLY times you can be guaranteed the truth from a Leo man, is when they're drunk (obnoxious ******* drunks), talking in their sleep or sloppily leaving their cell phones unlocked amidst a drunken stupor :)

43. Expounding on #42, don't try to call him out on his lie because he will surely convince even himself, that what he just told you was the absolute truth. To further insult your intelligence, he will GASLIGHT you into believing that you are bat **** crazy for even entertaining such a concept and whine about how you have such little "TRUST" in him **creeps off to the bathroom with cell phone** Ask him a direct question and he'll undoubtedly play stupid [Huh...what?], quickly change the subject or completely ignore you. Kings of avoidance. It's never a good time to talk about anything remotely important because, well to be completely honest, you really aren't that important sweety. "I can't do this right now", "I don't want to talk about it", "This is too much for me". A stalling tactic. He's hoping this will buy him enough time for you to either forget about it, or for him to come up with something believable.

44. You may receive a sporadic text message or random call whenever it's convenient for him, but GAWD FORBID you don't answer his calls or texts when he's trying to get in contact with you; He'll lose his ******* mind! He may even insist on sniffing you and/or your panties to make sure you haven't been with another man...lol. This is because, since he's out ******* everything under the sun, you must be doing it too. Easily butt hurt (hyper-sensitive) when you aren't at his beck and call 24/7. He'll need to know where you are and what you're doing at all times so he can 'conspire' around your schedule. When you don't hear from him for a while, he's acting out his scheme.

45. Suspicious much? You change one little thing about your normal routine e.g., your parking spot, the placement of your furniture, spice rack arrangement, and he'll flip the **** out! He'll formulate an elaborate scenario in his mind as to why things are the way they appear at that particular moment, and accuse you of being a liar when he confronts you about it and you tell him the truth. Explaining yourself before he has a chance to bring it up only intensifies his suspicions so believe me, don't bother. Yes, he will rummage through all your **** when you aren't looking!

46. Their emotions for you tend to run hot or cold...there is no lukewarm for these guys. One minute they can make you feel like the most beautiful goddess that ever graced the earth and the next, a worthless piece of ****. They tend to suffer from regular bouts of mysterious "confusion" which will call him away from you in every form imaginable. You'll find no reassurance here, if that is what you desire.

47. Secretly, they are all insecure to some degree...Body dismorphic issues, alopecia, proportions, low self-esteem and take great comfort and joy in pointing out all of YOUR flaws to make them feel better about their inadequacies as a man. Their pride feeds on your shame, and their followers fuel their egos. His jabs against you will most likely be conveyed in jest, but you know what they say about there being a lot of truth in jest. When he begins to really hit you hard with criticism, he's gearing up for the big break. This, to ensure that he feels justified in leaving you high and dry. Saving his face is more important than you falling with grace.

48. If your Leo man tells you that he loves you within the first week or two of dating, dump him immediately! No conventional self-serving Leo will lay his dignity out on the line in such a short amount of time to tell YOU that he loves you. He's looking for his next bimbo, rebound, meal ticket, past time or FOOL.

49. They aren't prone to commital. Your chances of dying in a plane crash are far greater than getting a proposal out of this guy. One second they're bending over backwards to be at your side and next thing you know, they're running from you. I swear, they get the seven (7) year itch about every three months and you're left in the dark wondering what the hell is going on in their zippy little heads. Wake up honey. It'll come to you.

50. No matter how much you give of your heart, mind, body and soul, forever present will be an element of darkness shrouded by an impenetrable emotional barrier.

Jennifurby Jennifurby
213 Responses Apr 21, 2009

this was so painfully accurate. lol. just ended my year and 8 months worth of a relationship that was based on nothing but lies and selfishness. I'll never go back

While reading this I started to get physically sick to my stomach. My ex husband was a Leo. I let him put me through hell. And I had a LDR with a Leo that abruptly ended two days ago. They both were full of games, lies, and self centeredness. I will no longer waste my time on them

OMG! This is spot on!!! I have dealt with two Leo men and they were unbelievably the same... lie about the smallest things.. confess their loves in a matter of weeks.. RUN is all I can say.. I sure did!!

This is so accurate and on point!!!! I just wanted to add, this absolutely includes female Leos as well, not just the men....

Brilliant!! This made my spirit soar for someone to put my pain, anger and resentment into words. Sheer Poetry! Never had I ever been treated so poorly, manipulated, mind-****** with, discarded, etc. until a met a Leo man. Never again!! EVERYTHING YOU WROTE IS TRUE--based on my personal experience. I still hate him!.

Brilliant!! This made my spirit soar for someone to put my pain, anger and resentment into words. Sheer Poetry! Never had I ever been treated so poorly, manipulated, mind-****** with, discarded, etc. until a met a Leo man. Never again!! EVERYTHING YOU WROTE IS TRUE--based on my personal experience. I still hate him!.

Brilliant!! This made my spirit soar for someone to put my pain, anger and resentment into words. Sheer Poetry! Never had I ever been treated so poorly, manipulated, mind-****** with, discarded, etc. until a met a Leo man. Never again!! EVERYTHING YOU WROTE IS TRUE--based on my personal experience. I still hate him!.

I have never read anything truer than this! I just broke up with a Leo. Let me share my experience. He was EXTREMELY cheap with me, but godforbid, not with himself. One time, we went to a flea market. When I told him I wanted a $5 ring but they only took cash (I only had my debit card) he said "I'll buy it for you if you pay me back." I drove everywhere because he didn't want to spend his own money on gas or tolls. I'd buy myself snacks at Trader Joe's (I need to keep light snacks in my purse to nosh on or else i get severe migraines) and he'd eat more than half of them in one sitting. Every outing was "halfsies." There was a fatter chance of me seeing bigfoot than being treated by him. He'd make me split the bill on $20 dinners. HOWEVER, he wouldn't hesitate to buy himself a $500 smartTV and $240 improv classes. He thought he was the funniest person to grace the earth, but nobody else got his jokes. His sense of humor consisted of making up songs on the spot about "bird-dogs" or "baby monkeys," and calling everything "as majestic as an ancient deer." When I introduced him to my parents, rather than saying, "Hi, Mr. and Mrs. [my last name], nice to meet you" he screamed hello in a Pee Wee Herman voice. As our relationship progressed, it became apparent that he would use this ridiculous, obnoxious sense of humor as a way to dodge serious situations. He would absolutely NOT listen to a thing anyone said, unless it was about him. On one of my worst days, I cried to him about how horribly my day was going, looking for some support from my boyfriend. He response was "aw. i'm huuuuungry." When he had a man-cold, it was all I heard about for an entire week. But when I came to him with a problem, he dismissed me. When I broke up with him, I just flat-out told him, "I'm unhappy; it's over" because, honestly, I had already made the decision and didn't feel like listing all of those above reasons at the time. But now that I'm typing them all out and reading it over, I honestly have no idea what I was wasting my time on.

So, true!

My only problem is the fact that he loves attention so much . From females .. He swears they mean nothing but every time we argue there's always a girl he can message . Or the fact that he has contacted his ex but promises he's over her . Lol I'm still with my Leo boyfriend but it's a matter of time before I end it. Too many mind games & somehow I'm always the one to blame . Makes no sense

Lord. I wish I've read this earlier. Now I'm a statistic :)! It's amazing to see how many people had exactly the same experiences with male Leos.

Actually, I don't think it would've made any difference. I would probably call Jennifurby bitter or having a streak of bad luck with men.

But ladies, for all of you who have stumbled upon this list...You have been warned.

If you are currently in a relationship with Leo man, I suggest you play it smart. I use the word "play" and I loathe that word but this is what it is to them.

Be VERY careful.

Trust your hunches.
If you think something's up- something most definitely is.

The sad truth is, once you've been chosen as a "playing opportunity", there is nothing you can do about it. Because they are MASTERS of manipulation.

Calling them on their bs will not do a thing, they will apply the avoidance technique.
Drama might interest them, but also will not do a thing, they will just turn the story around. For the time being.

So. There is ONE and one thing only you can do to keep yourself from total emotional wreckage ( it will be your fault in the end anyway), and that is- CUT THEM OFF IMMEDIATELY.

Cut them off of your time, your energy, your optimism and your caring. They will suck you dry if you let them.

They think they're pretty smart but basically they're very simple and see-through. Men usually are and Leos are not exception.

If he has "caught you", he might play with you for a while, you know, like a real cat plays with a mouse. But he will get bored even of that.

So if you have enough strength and patience, cut him off.

If you're on this page, there is a hell of a good reason why you're here. So please please please READ and LISTEN.

I would like to spare anyone of the heartache and humiliation that these people are capable of bestowing. And that's a lot.

If a man that you're involved with shows these traits, no matter what his sun sign is, he is a spineless, f-'ed up, sorry excuse for a man, and you should leave.

You will not change him, you will not cure him, you will not and you cannot. Why? Because they LOVE who they are. In their heads, in every one of those globes attached to their necks, they are THE S***. THE Master. THE Operator. THE Lover.

There is not many sorrier sights than a child in a grown man's body.
Leos are mostly like that.
That's why we love them at times, and that's what sabotages almost everything decent in their lives.

I have recently broke up with one specimen, and yes, the list describes him to a T. While with me, he was making his way into another girl's life. That girl also recently broke up with her long time bf. She was the perfect prey. Available. Understanding. Emotionally abused. And now she chose him! Like -the Devil ! !
How stupid can we get?
A lot.

So yeah, all of you dealing with Leo men, you've been warned.

P.S: Experience in playing chess can come in handy. No joke. You have to be excellent in strategy. Make him think you're giving up something, but plan strong defense ahead and never reveal your intentions.

Good luck, you're gonna need it.

I am a Leo man and I don't all think all leos are like this.. Trust me if a Leo truly loves someone, they won't stop let what happen. They can be egoistic, short tempered narcissistic etc but to be frank enough they can go to end of the world to make their partners dream come true.

I have loved a girl. I did it with all my heart and I can suffer any amount of pain just to give her one smile again. She did complaint sometimes that I am insensitive and don't give a damn about her and all this ****. But trust me on one thing we may never be able to show it but in front of our lovers happiness nothing matters.
We don't talk much now and as judgemental people are they will think its my fault, so let me clear it..we were in a long distance relationship and She outgrew me. To be frank enough she always deserved someone better. Hope she will find someone and I will be more than happy although I don't have a f**king clue how to spend my life without her. From past 7 years she is all I ever had. All her small wishes were my mission and even today she calls me and ask for any sort of help I ll be more than happy to do anything for her.
I know I can't show my love and how much I care and in the end she smiling is all that matters.. All Leo men are not same
I didn't write all this to defend Leo men.. Its for all those ladies out there who are reading this and thinking about dumping their partner because someone else had a bad experience with a Leo.. If you love someone, love them till the very end let it be Leo or some other horoscope.. Either you will have a great relationship which all these other ladies will envy other probability is the relationship may fail.. But whatever the outcome maybe let it be your experience..

O god. Every point here is my partner! Time to move on!

Wow, I completely agree. This has been my exact experience.

Perfect. Spot on!

Eh..I was treated like that. Never even taken out on a date. I felt used and hurt. I'm a Pisces. So, you know we give our all to the people we care about and we're very emotional. Facebook seemed to control the Leo's attention more than me. His focus was on the females and his popularity instead of building a relationship with me. He claimed that I was the girl that he'd always wanted, but from his actions and the way he treated me made me think differently. I hate how I still have feelings for him. I'm sad at the fact that I actually prayed and hoped he would have a change of heart someday and realized what he could have had. Leo males are so conceited and wonder why they can't stay in a healthy relationship. Ugh. I hate allowing anyone to get close to me now. Now, I have a brick wall built up. I hate this feeling because I feel ugly, unattractive, used, abused, and all the above because I fell for the wrong guy. I hate LOVE!

If he couldn't see the Beauty in you then he doesn't appreciate life. You got this girlie! =.)

lmao my ex haha..dead on accurate.

Wow! I've dated 3 Leo men. All unbalanced in some way or another. I am dating one now and I'm about to send him packing. Hes starting to be controlling and everything is about him. His terms and his feelings. He is not cheap so far... He seems to be thoughtful at times but its only been 4 months. I'm breaking it off because of the mind games and he builds up crap in his head and then gets all emotional and blames me. This is my last Leo and I'm an Aries, were supposed to be great together. Some of its great, but not enough to keep me around. The other two had extremely bad tempers and did the same thing. Built up a bunch of crap in their heads and then attack you. I'm mellow and try very hard to take their feeling into consideration but they just have to many emotional problems. Its a roller coaster ride from hell. The worst one was so bad I took a a few years off dating just to heal my heart and head! He cheated, was extremely lazy and found ways to always blame me. He was so cheap and never once bought me a birthday gift or took me out for a nice dinner. He spent on himself but not on me. He expected the world from me, but gave nothing in return. My problem is I am too passive, so I likely need someone less domineering and controlling. I hate being yelled at and that's one thing they seem to do really well! These men are just unbalanced and selfish. If you like to give give give and be abused hes your guy! Now I'm going to go break up with the last Leo I will ever date... :)
Happy days are here again!

This was so on point; I've been involved with a Leo man who is now my husband for 6 years....they are from the pit of hell...fallen angels...my mother tried to warn me but I did not listen because initially they can be very convincing and charming....after time they will reveal themselves and you will see their true characters unfold...they are soul less... god less and about self....I stay because of my belief in the bible and what it says about divorce....please be warned women!!!! All LEO MEN only care about is sex/women...money...and being seen and heard...you will be used like a prostitute....they dont care about your opinions...thoughts....or feelings....if you are involved with one just flee while you can....please escape...I have asked my husband many times....are you trying to kill me??? He is so full of self...that he doesn't realize the impact of his ignorance on me....

Soooo ******* true!!!!

Wow! sounds like they're describing a leo man.

I agree with everything that you just said but there are lot of things I would like to add.

another great blog that's right on the moneyhttp://male-decoded.blogspot.com/2010/01/leo-men.html

I so love this. So so so so love this.

Welp. My leo guy seems to actually be a **** after all it was always there i always knew.. Not all of them fit my leo dude but the ones that did were enough. Being a scorpio you tend to pick up pretty quickly the undercurrents of people and just know **** about them. It sucks because he is very alluring and mysterious which i loveee. I love to compete.. So im almost up for the challenge. You wanna play ******? Lets gooo.

Just more proof that these men Suck!

im a leo and id like to say id never cheat, only reason we think we are the best is because we are the best, best at everything we try, and when it comes to love youll never find a more loyal lover, leos will give you everything and spend as much time as they can on figuring out what they can do to make their lover happy,

Yea, we dated the same male. Little boys who never grow up. They'll conform, temporarily. Let me tell you, my son's father is ALLLLL of that. And he used ALLLL of that to steal my son from me. I'm a Pisces. (HORRIBLE combo). He manipulated my kind, hopeful spirit and masterminded taking my son from me. The courts don't look for narcissism and don't too much care. It's sad. But I believe deep down every Leo is narcissistic. From males to females.

Brief: met in 2007, he suggested us BOTH joining the military in 2008, I joined he didn't. I moved him to my AIT training city and he did NOTHING. I encouraged him to establish the computer consulting company he swore he was going to build. Never did. Pregnant. Begged him to get a job so we could support the baby. Hahahahaha. Suggested moving back home. One month before end of lease, he says let's go home. (Now that it's just welfare, unemployment was exhausted. Uh oh.. I might not be so useful soon) So, pack up the apartment and come home. Move in with his sister, baby is born. He, the baby and I cramped in a room, paying her rent and not even having a damn key to get in the house. Will you go look for a job so we can move? He sits in the garage smoking weed and watching tv until he decides he wants to come inside and take over whatever I was doing with the baby. He very soon starts finding reasons to tell me to go. My sister comes by to take me and baby out. He's in the room. I'm telling my sis that he eats all the strawberries and whip cream EVERY month. A sister convo like saying "girl he don't never put the toilet seat down". Comes out of room and goes off telling me to pack my **** and get out. His blow ups were never too big....gotta keep up the good guy front. Baby and I move out, come back 2 months later. All the while number 39 was going on. We moved out of sisters, he went to look for apartment with homemade check stubs and employment verification from a lady he spoke to out of convenience, keep her around til he needed her. I stayed home packed the room. He doesn't put my name on the lease. Matter of fact tells the landlord I'm away getting help for a drug problem! Woooow. Fast forward: another baby by the other girl he was prepping during #39. She was pregnant before I even moved out. I go to a rehab because I had little responsible family and I knew going there would get me a roof over my head. Bad idea. Anyway, I tried to go back and get custody of my son and he pulled out everything he could on me. All while he stayed on welfare and I worked. 4.5 years later, I now live 1400 miles away because even after the SECOND break up he was still a Leo. I did it for my son praying that God will deliver my son from this man who now trying to live his life vicariously through MY son. I directly asked God for that little boy. He didn't even want a baby until someone told him the benefits he could reap if he had custody of a child. SMH! May the Kingdom of God fall upon his head.

So true, my Leo BFF is ALL of this. Thanks so much for this post!

Capricorn here...Just went through what felt like a soap opera with a Leo man. I had to expose him and to this day he says I am the cause of his "downfall"...was dealing with 2 other women at the same time as me.... Admits to lying but I am still the one at fault here. He has lied from the very beginning of our relationship, hell, even looked me straight in the eye and made me feel like what I was telling him I was feeling was just plain crazy. We had a "perfect" relationship for the first 6 months and then I found out he was living with someone other than his female nieces..... (Believable story)....Lies all freakin lies. I still care about him, all of that will have to be from a distance. Constant Pity parties , not taking responsibility for his actions (even when he tries, still points the finger) learned a huge lesson. Smh.

When I read this post I felt like all of questions has been answered. You told the truth on every answer you put down. They are really mama's boys and the laziest ppl I ever seen in my life. We have been together two years and a half and it seemed like I convinced him to engage to me and it should be the other way around. Thank you for sharing this because I think I want to stay to my self and never date another leo man again

Im not sure about the relationship aspect of the Leo, as I don't think I have dated one, bit my brother AND my step son are both Leos. I try so hard to be compassionate and love them, but they are NOT nice people. All they care about is themselves. They throw pity parties about EVERYTHING as if the entire world revolves around, yet is against, them.
My step son, I've been with his dad for 4 years. When I first met his youngest son (the Leo) he was so kind and sweet and I thought Awww thank goodness I don't have a difficult child to live with, but as soon as he became comfortable with me.... Oh god. Lazy, manipulative, mean, cruel are just a few words to sum up this poor excuse for a human. If you knew me, you would know I would NEVER feel the desire or need to say this about anyone, let alone a child..... But this kid is the devil reincarnated.
Everyone else is only there to serve him. Nothing is ever good enough for him. Spend $500 on him for his birthday?
"My brother got this and that blah blah blah" and he spends the while day crying and pissed off because it didn't live up to his impossible standards.
Everyone else helping make dinner, and knows they are expected to help clean up after themselves ?
He'll spend 3 hours sitting on the floor crying LOUDLY trying to make everyone else feel bad for him after they are long done their chores and gone off having fun.
This is the kid that refused to wipe his butt and walked around with crap in his pants every day until his dad had to start going to the bathroom with him and forced him to. This kid is going to have a ****** life, full of self pity and misery. His tombstone will read " how could this happen to me? "
We fight every weekend because of this little **** (excuse the language and hostility. I've tried everything to be kind and compassionate and help this kid out with his feelings. He wants none of it) to the point where I'm about to have my second child with father, but we're talking about splitting up because there is nothing I haven't tried or can do to get along with this kid.

And yes. It was exactly the same story living with my brother. I'm just glad I was 9 when he was born so I never had to spend my entire childhood and teenage years around that kid. Watching him sit on his *** and boss my poor mom around.

I hate Leo's because they are all the same. I feel it's not just a Scorpio woman who said all this, but I'm sure most people can agree. This information hits the jackpot. If you date a Leo man, you find out very quickly just how lousy they are in the love department. It's been there and done that for me. I have a brother who is a Leo and he's a nightmare! Just wished he'd join the army, so he'd value his family a lot more, instead of ruining his life selling drugs!

Thank you for this. I recently nearly got involved with Leo man but something just never seemed quite right. He gave me mixed messages, got drunk every time I saw him, talked about how awful his ex was, continually complained about everything when he was drunk and just laughed or belittled my comments. His looks, charm, talent and bubblyness kept me dangling there. Also my insecurities. Nothing really materialised and I kind of knew that was the right thing. Reading your thing has really struck a chord with me. I felt that most of what you said there was how he was but couldn't trust my instinct because the veneer was so 'lovable'. Thanks for this, it has helped a lot :)

Smart lady! run for the hills!!! with my leo ex i always felt like something was off/not quite right. (read #6..so him)All 50 of these statements are TRUE!!! When we first started dating I found this site and could only agree to a small part of it but nothing too bad..as time went on I would re-read this and would discover he was like alot more of this list and by the end he was ALL if this!!!!! He is 51 and never married..hello..red flag!!! he wass 49 when we met. VERY good-looking, charming..Selfish, temper tantrums, bait and swith..blah blah...what a liar he turned out to be! I feel so strongly about this list not only about my ex but guys friends of mine that are also leos...all the f'ing same. I would never set any of these guys up with my friends but perhaps my worst enemy ;)

the funny thing is, is that what made me re-read this tonight was that I was just texting my leo friend who i've know for 15+ yrs..and he just got married not even 2 yrs ago and was being totally inappropriate in his texts...now I expect this from him because i know him but he is now married and he told me his wife has been having trust issues with him recently and and not sure why because he was being good!!! well u better be! ur married now! I thought to myself..I kinda feel bad for her because he acts likes he's a great catch with his **** together (but he's not!!!) it's all about him!!! Very charming but once u scratch past the veneer you'll see otherwise.

UPDATE!!! so i was visiting my folks who live in another state and lives in the same city as my friend that i am talking about above..well I have a fake Tinder account for those of u who dont know what that is, it's for dating/hooking up and it will show u people within a 100 mile radius of where u are located.... well I was flipping through the pics to see if anyone i knew was on there and guess who's on there???yep! u got it! my married friend the who says he's not sure why his wife has been having jealousy/trust issues with him.BTW he wife is stunning. I am so disappointed in him..he has no idea that i know he is on this sketchy site. What a POS! HE is a true LEO in every way.

I believe she's right about many things when it comes to a Leo man they are notorious liars but I don't believe that they are all Cheaters and High maintenance. My Leo comes from a great family and I know he wouldn't cheat. Period! He is delusional sometimes and thinks he walks on water but it take a strong mind in order to have a mind ******* battle with a Leo, if you are weak he will eat you alive but if you are strong you can tame a Leo. My Leo is a great partner and will be a great father (we are expecting ). I am happy with my man but I will say it can be freaking exhausting having to maintain a Leo.
I do agree with a lot she says though. They think they are God's of the zodiac, they feel as of they have it all but don't realize they are they're own most biggest flaws.

Good luck!!!

This is very worrying. I'm a Leo guy and for most of my life I've avoided serious relationships like the plague, mostly because I've always had the strong belief in fixing/being yourself before sharing who you are with another person.I recently, and rather quite quickly, got involved with a wonderful woman who means the world to me, I knew what I was getting into and can honestly say that I felt I had reached the point in which I felt I was pretty good guy. Now after reading this list I realize I'm not that special at all, with respect to aspects essential for sustaining relationships. I'm just a regular guy.I don't know what happened. I had a system for myself in which any part of myself that caused myself, or others, unnecessary pain would have to go but I just can't seem to do this at the rate I used to.Don't get me wrong, I feel that most of the things on this list are gross generalizations and simply d don't apply to me but then there are those things that if I take a brutal look at myself, do. And I just don't ******* get it.I want to say that pretty much since I've met her I've been under a constant state of stress and panic which makes it difficult for me to step outside myself and assess my shortcomings; only I've been in tough situations before and have thrived. Now the only things I do for self betterment are relentlessly pursuing promotions and pay raises, but I know myself and those kinds of things I couldn't care less about. I want to be using my mind again, thinking about ways to help people, being inspired by music and other people but I can't ******* do it because it feels that part of my brain has shut down.I'm bitching in this section because I know this is a Leo trait and I feel situations like these are the root cause for many, if not all, the shortcomings you listed.I'm not depressed and I don't think I'm the wrong man for my woman I just feel that I'm not doing all I can, not being the person I have the potential to becoming and if I let that realization eat me up I will become the most horrid and evil person the world has ever seen.I am also blessed with extreme bouts of good luck as well as equally bad. I'm not even joking. The fact that I even got the woman in with now as soon as I did is testament to my good luck. I'm rambling now and there was a main idea that was going to tie all this together but I forgot it.Anyway, the most revolting people are usually those who have the most problems. Leos don't have a monopoly on problems, they just manifest them differently. Not all Leos are like this and not only Leos are like this.

You poor thing!! None of us are 'perfect' but you cannot put your life on hold just because you haven't reached that perfect state of being. Live a little, or life is going to pass you by. Do you want to be 70 yrs old and never had a meaningful relationship with anyone because you are so afraid of comittments? Payraises and promotions are a mere facade...you ought to look deeper.

Wow, all I hear from you is me, me, me in your comment. How melodramatic! Maybe you've had too much manipulation on other women that now when other women don't buy your **** you have to make others feel sorry for you? Pay back is a ***** and you're starring in it!

I found my answer tonight, been in a relationship with a leo for two bhai years and Im a scorpio....I can finally get some rest, you said it best!!!!!

You still with him? I been with mine for almost a year and a half...and i am also a Scorpio woman.

I could have written that myself only mine would have included horrible oglers who objectify women.

Omg! Totally! Mine couldn't stop staring at other women's butts right in front of me. What a jerk!!

Oh i so agree with u here...i'm dating this leo man..n we recently moved in together...n it has been hell!!!!
It was all fine in the beginning ,even amazing if i may say so. BUT NOW!! Now his true colours show.
He will never listen to my side of the argument, he will never do his share of chores, he will make stupid excuses to no do them...like ''my hands will get dirty''. He soils all the dishes in the kitchen n not be bothered to clean them, he won't spend a penny on food n binge on what i get from the stores..he lives for himself n no one else...its as if i dont exist for him..but if he's horny then i have to be present, even if i dont want to. n every time i will raise an issue..he will twist it to make it my mistake n incapacity. goodness..how i hate leo men.
And check out his audacity.. he has well clarified that he is not interested in marrying me...that his mother wont approve of it..n when i say that lets not carry it on then, then he accuses me of mentally tormenting him..and says that if all is going on well then why breakup.. ''ALL IS WELL!!'' He's got to be kidding, right. What the hell is wrong with this person.
And the worst part...i dont know what to do to break up with him. FML.

Tell him to **** off. That will get his attention. Few years from now you will look back on it and pat yourself on the back. They will abuse you only if you let them.

I can only speak from my experience with Leo men and this post speaks the absolute truth.

Me, Me, Me, that's Leo man's motto. He was also petty as hell, pouting because he felt I left more food on the stove for my daughter than what he got (which wasn't even the case). Seriously, who gets jealous over a child and some food?

Even when he tried to be a generous person, he always reverted to his selfish ways. Being truly giving just doesn't come naturally for him.

He was always accusing me of cheating on him. Turns out, HE was the one that couldn't be trusted (caught him in a baldfaced lie).

I agree that Leo men are dashing, but the sex, while it can be good at first, quickly becomes a one-man show. For this reason, contrary to popular opinion, I don't rate Leo as highly in the bedroom as I do Scorpio and Gemini. My Leo was too caught up in himself and it spilled over into the bedroom.

So relieved he's out of my life now. He was emotionally and physically exhausting.

Wow that was extremely informative ..so helpful ...I have done this natal chart on this dude and he has leo in his raising, mars, sun, Venus, and Capricorn Moon I have spent 8 months on line talking to him and this has certainly helped me see the red flags. .thank you

Ha ha LOOOOL, brilliant :-D

I'm not too late to the party am I? Hi, I am a Leo man. Please ladies calm down. No need to show your claws. I am only passing through.

Saw this blog and am amaze at the response. I am ashamed to be a Leo. I am sorry for what my sign put you through. For the most part you are right.

We are extroverted and warm, dedicated and dreamers. We spend more time in the clouds than on Earth. We do promise the moon only if we become inspire. We are humble when appreciated and lost when we lose your attention. We are loyal ‘til death unless betrayed. We never demand appraisals but believe asking should not be require.

We live for appreciation. We are full of love. Our ego bruises easily, so why taunt us? You know you can hurt us. We are emotional. We are spiritual. We like to believe in true love. We believe that there is a happily ever after. We want our relationships to be perfect. No arguments. No differences.

We believe in our view of perfect harmony. We are clean in contrast to this blog. Cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing and guarding is the trade mark of a good Leo. We are the perfect gentleman when are raised in a proper environment. We are good dressers.

Excuse my forwardness I am throwing dating advice now… Never date a man whose fashion sense involves a t-shirt and jeans. Ah… Please don’t twist my words. Every man has to have a t-shirt and jeans outfit. Otherwise we would be naked while doing our laundry.

Never date a man whose vocabulary originates from a music video or from sappy love songs. If the man has more than two credit cards chances are he has less than a thousand dollars in his accounts.

Don’t expect Mr. Perfect Leo to come from a bar. We go to bars for one thing. We practice sex constantly. So expect to have lots of it when you are in a relation with a Leo.

Don’t use headaches as a pretext. We will believe you have lost interest and move on. Be honest with us. Tell the truth. Lying only extenuates our reason to leave. Truth begets truth.

I am 29 years old. I have travelled the world and had many relationships. Some of my exes want me dead others have moved on. Some I still rarely wonder ‘what if?’ and I don’t keep in touch with the rest.

I am not perfect and it bugs me. God put me in this world for one reason; to be a perfect man. And this is probably my ego talking (we have big egos), but I want to be a perfect man. My wife laughed when I told her.

Oh yes, I am married, a three year old boy (so cute), house, mortgage, salary, but no dog. I like the stares my wife gets when women see us walking down town. And why shouldn't she get those stares I work hard for my body.

I love how other men stare at my wife. She has this energy and looks stunning in dresses. She always compliments me when other women become envious. My wife and I have amazing energy together. We show it at every party.

I am close with my female friends and outgoing with my male ones. My friends range in signs; Leos, Aquarius, Scorpions, and Arieses. My wife is an Aquarius. We belong together. So again, I am sorry you haven’t met your perfect Leo. We are out there. Keep searching. Or maybe I am just a broken Leo.

Roque5 while I can respect what you're saying...you seem to be one of the more evolved or "mature" leos (and I'm not referring to age). I've unfortunately have yet to meet one, every leo I've met/ dated/ befriended etc were all characteristic of everything written in this post. Even my aquarian ex (with venus and moon in leo) had all these traits but less pronounced. I know I'm not without my own flaws and perhaps being a sagittarius gal myself maybe there was too much fire to begin with but I know I will never, EVER date another leo man again. They're lying, egotistical self-righteous a*holes. I pity them..........they look so lost and foolish. So very foolish.

Glad you're happy with your aqua girl. Long May that last. I'm an aqua girl and I've been in love with a Leo man for 16 years. But he cheated on me, lied to me and used me is many times. I have to move on because he's not in love with me like I am with him. It just makes me sad. But it is what it is. Thanks for sharing your story. I enjoyed reading it. But for me, even though I am loyal to my Leo, this blog is right down to a tee. I wonder why you're so different

Wow it's so true i just dumped my leo yesterday but he's so into ones self...lol he hasn't realized it yet. He told me he loved me on our second date as he pretended to be upset because he made me waite in the car for him to long...haha crazy. At best we will end up as friends with no benefits. He'll call me for advise while he dogs out another women. I'm almost certain and ill just laugh and smh. It's was only a month for us but it was a long month.

Get over yourself. LOL

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Jennifurby, are you sure we've haven't date the same guy? lol...I mean--seriously. It seems to me like you are talking about my most recent ex. OMG. You have pinned him down to the core. Wow. Thanks for sharing. I thought I was the one crazy. I have never seen anyone so mentally disorganized in my life. He drank like a fish, criticized me like he was some kind of god, took as much as he could from me---including the petty stuff like left over food in the fridge. Wow, girl, you described my ex.

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OMG! I read this and for a minute thought I must've written this in my sleep and posted it. All of the above is so true. I was a victim of a Leo man for 16+ off/on years. Yes off/on. Like you said, no lukewarm with him. We have children so that is why I tried to hold on to this lonely relationship. I was in this relationship alone. He would run out on me and our kids and go home to live with his mother at a drop of a dime. He'd leave a job on a lunch break and never go back to work. He's had 26 jobs in 11 years. No commitment to anything. Not me, our kids, a job, nada. I have never felt so alone except whenever he was around. I would try to express to him my concerns and worries and before I knew it I was being shushed and the topic would now be him. What his plans were. How he was going to do this or that. I would express to him that with our budget we'd need to wait and of course his money was his money and my money was his money. A Leo man will keep you broke. He'd dang near have you homeless. When things get that severe he'd abandon you for safety at his mama's house. Then when you financially recover after working your behind off, he'd sweet talk you and weasel his way back into your life - only to suck more marrow from your bones. They are leeches. They are infectious men. They are like a cancer on your body. No matter how much chemo they will try their darnedest to overtake all of you. I am mentally spent. I have had to undergo psychotherapy while/after dealing with the Leo man. I really appreciate this post. What I find hilarious is that when I broke it off with him he's the one who emailed me your 50 things that you hate about your Leo man. He read it and responded that obviously this is his nature due to his sign and he plans to make changes in himself. Ha! Right! We know that is just another line for self pity and excuse for his behavior. Again thanks for your posting. . .

He send you the post playing head games with you.....trust me he know "Himself". Thank "God" or your "Higher Power" for releasing you from that "Narcissistic" man. You better "Run" like hell, he will destroy you and your children....he only care about himself.

"OMG! I read this and for a minute thought I must've written this in my sleep and posted it. All of the above is so true."
Yes! Me too.
"I would try to express to him my concerns and worries and before I knew it I was being shushed and the topic would now be him."
Ohmg yes. He ALWAYS does that. I started wondering if maybe that was my fault, and started doubting myself ( which I never do... ).

Oh, what's wrong with those human felines?

Thank you for this post!!! I'm a scorpion woman and had two encounters with Leo males & all the above were true. It was a lifesaver last night when I came across this - about to break down by his hot & cold nature.. Reading this I told him to f*** off!
Thank you!!!!!!! :) xxx

So true, I was with a Leo for 2 1/2 years. I lost my virginity to this scrub. Ended up just recently bearing him a handsome little boy who he says he loves but wasn't there the day he was born and hasn't seen him in over a month now. Not to mention he cheated on me on Christmas Eve to go sleep with a sloppy bartender who he's been talking to since my 2nd trimester of my pregnancy. He told me not to go on birth control that he couldn't have kids and that it would hurt our chances of having kids. That if I got pregnant we would be together. But he later on admited that my pregnant body wasn't doing it for his "manly" urges. Called me ugly and that his new gf is prettier. Ughhhh Leo men are true scum. He denies coming back to me, begging that I give him another chance even though I have proof of those messages. His dog is always at someone else's house. Almost everything on this list is true.

It's the "Truth" about those useless Leo men....they live to destroy and kill the spirit of women. Thank "God" he's out of your life!

This is all true. We're unforgetable sexmachines.

Not true. The other day I saw a 100 yr. old giant male tortoise humping his female. The zookeeper said he had been grunting & groaning & going at it non-stop for 4 days. Now that, is an unforgettable sex machine. But wait, i bent down to check and his ego was not as big as yours. You win. :)

You're right...."Self-Gratification"! Don't get it twisted....you are something that a decent woman never want to see again! All leo men should come with a "Warning Sign"! "RUN"!!!

I 100% AGREE. My ex was Venus in Leo and this is all accurate

50 Shades To Hell With A Leo Man.....!

We must be talking about the same guy!! It's not impossible considering how the Leo who dumped me operates.

Absolutely SPOT ON!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm an Aries female and many Leo's have been drawn to me over the years. the last one should've warned me to put on a condom on my head before he mind ****** me. Selfish, PLAYERS, all of them, ones I've met anyone, friends or lovers alike. They do have a commitment phobia and are womanizers. When they are going after you they are chivalrous, charming, romantic, will say anything to get your attention, chase you to the ends of the earth but watch out! don't reciprocate, they'll dip out as fast as they came onto you in the first place. sta far away if you want to keep your mind and dignity intact.

Lol...lotta nasty bitterness here. You know, sometimes if you wind up with the wrong person it's better to ask what is it about yourself that attracts the kind of man described above. If you wind up with lice, chances are you need a bath.

Or maybe you guys are just drawn to abusive men.

what is this profession of trying to find a man?

Ask the majority of single women.

yes best to just accept we are all individual humans.

Awe. Poor baby. Butthurt because he's identifying with some characteristics? Well, I suppose he has some issues to deal with on his own with regard to his interpretation of what is written here. Nowhere did I read that EP was about FACT. It's about experiences. However anyone chooses to interpret them, depends solely on them. Lay with dogs and you end up with fleas. Meanwhile, "By crooked steps, right behind you" Peace out!

Poor baby?....hehehe. I'm not the one spilling the-daddy-issues-I-carried-into-my-relationships all over the internet and lashing out when I feel threatened. I hope you get better. Peace to you as well.

Wrote this piece in 2009 and it's rather comical that most recently you felt the urge to create a profile shell in defense of a cold shot. Nice to know that after all these years, it still captures the attention of people who relate, in any small measure. And by the way, thank you for your contribution. The mere fact that you felt compelled to respond, speaks volumes. Maybe remnants of a Jacosta/Oedopis thingy you got going on there (Shake it off Sean) lmao, whatever. Little slow on the uptake though as we near 60k views. Beyond better in 2014. Deuces :)

I was just blowing some time away (business is really slow this time of year at my job and the internet is all I have). A lady I'm talking to is really into astrology (she's a leo) but I always kinda dismissed it. Wanting to be open minded, I decided to take a deeper look and started reading up on her sign and came across your post. I thought your post and the back and forth responses were kinda like a joke, but slowly realized they are not. Now I'm not trying to preach or tell you or anyone how to live life, but feelings of bitterness, cynicism, and anger are like gizmo, if you water them, they turn into gremlins. You're an above average person in your intelligence and insight into people, but trying to demonstrate that with textbook assertions about the psychological failings of others is a waste of it, and YOU know that (c'mon, Oedipus...for real?). You have a lot to offer, but this kind outlet doesn't serve you well. Trust me, I know from experience. BTW, my name isn't Sean Cole, it's Ibrahim El-Amin. Sean Cole was gonna be my pen name back when I thought I'd be a great writer one day. Don't water the gremlins, water the gardens. In all sincerity, I wish you peace and love. Good luck.

In all actuality, I do appreciate your sincerity. In honesty, the writing served its purpose in that I was able to expel some dark feelings that otherwise could have manifested in ways harmful to myself or perhaps...who knows. It was very healing, believe it or not. Thanks IEA

My word this truly has hit a nerve with you. The 50 points above are just a generalisation something we all show signs of however but most of us are ashamed of them and do something about it.

Huh! I thought u get lice by getting too close to a scumbag.
Point is, there are women of various zodiac signs posting here, but the common denomintor seems to be bad Leo behavior each one of them has experienced at some point. I'm sure that said particular experience scarred them more deeply than others, because even though there are scum men & women in all signs, Leos are the worst. Its their audacity and gall to play games in order to benefit themselves, ...the pretense, lack of a conscience, that is truly disappointing and hurtful. Women are often too trusting. I knew a Leo, only for a brief period, but I have enough sense now not to repeat that mistake. I am in a very stable relationship now for several yrs. with a non-leo, so, 'No, we don't always attract the abusive louse.'

Lice isn't caused by bad hygiene but, yeah I get what your saying.

it sounds like the predator and the pray

@ JourneeBlue...Lice is a parasite that live on various animals, including humans, animals don't keep their hygiene up, so lice come from "Filth".

Narcissistic men (Leo) wear masks to fool the person, they don't even know who the hell they are....

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I'm a Leo man and I'll be honest I don't think your describing us at all! I am very clean, more often than not I strive to be the best and do the best for my partner. I was with a girl for 4 months or so as a kind of dating and see how it goes thing but in that time I treated her like a princess, I would never even dream of making a mess of her place, in fact I offered to fix some things for her and hang the TV on the wall etc. I run three business which are all doing well and had, touch wood, no financial difficulties. This is derogatory to men of this Zodiac sign and your painting us in a bad light. I'd love to know what zodiac sign you are so I go to town on that the way you have done here.

On an aside. The character described above is that of a narcissistic sociopath, not in fact a true Leo man. The girl in question was engaged to a Leo before she met me and I'll be honest he seems to fit that personality. I'm sorry you had such a rough experience but I wouldn't tar us all with the same brush, so to speak.

Oh wow. Between the age of 18 and 21, are you? Three successful businesses you say? Let me guess...paper route, lawn mower, sign flipper, baby/pet sitter, pooper scooper, lemonade stand, car washer or maybe even a caddy? We'll good for you! Whatever your hustle, go get 'em tiger. At least you show some initiative. That's very impressive to notate. I'm sure "YOU'RE" going to go far. You are still a very young, sweet, impressionable man with many eventful relationships to come. Come talk to me in another 35 years son. Peace.

@Jennifurby....he/she haven't lived long enough...you speak the truth about Leo men, see the truth hurts. Their ego is so big they don't take time out to look at the man in the mirror...they're focusing on destroying someone else's life. They are straight up "Donkey's".

^^^^^ Well if this is maturity, stay away from it, tiger.

If you can't stand the "Heat" in the kitchen, get the "Hell" out....Leopard! A leopard (leo) don't change their "Spots".....

If you were nice to her & such a great catch with 3 successful businesses, why didn't this girl stick around? Maybe she saw history repeating itself? Would love to hear her side of this story. She seems to be attracted to Leos in particular.

Are these responses serious or is this a joke? If you ladies are telling the truth about your experiences then you should keep in mind that they are just that...YOUR experiences and not objective truth. If Leo men are so horrible, why is it that you all seem to have such extensive experience with them? If you end up with these kinda guys, don't blame them for it.

yep that sure is a leo type reply .

You couldn't even begin to put it into words. You lack the experience and discernment...look it up.

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I really needed to run into this! Now , I get what's been going on!

Follow your instincts. They'll never steer you wrong.

I totally identify wid wat u'v said bout leos. No more leos for me....man/woman....

What a relief! I thought I was going crazy! I am a Libra woman who attracts many Leo women friendships. I am an air sign and leos are fire, fire needs air. Their friendships are amazing at first then they become mentally and physically draining. They are always needing something and are never around when you need them I have broken 2 friendships off cause I started losing myself in the one sided friendship in their favor. I knew what was happening and see the same similar action and behaviors in all leos but am still drawn to them. My recent Leo friend drives me insane with her sneaky behavior and that's how I came acrossed this blog. I goggle d are Leo's sneaky and came acrossed this I decided to read it anyways even though it was about male Leo's and since I have a Leo male teenager and I had dated a few Leo men in the past I continued on to reading it and I got to say this is spot on everything I felt and witnessed are dead on they relate in male or female Leo's I have put this all together in mind but reading it confirmed my thoughts. It said male s will leave their dirty laundry out for you to pick up but my female friend will actually bring over a dish or two of food I will say hey don't forget your dishes and she will always reply back with "that's alright ill come back later for it" she does this so I will wash the dishes for her and so she can come back in her own convenience to pick it up and free load some more. I feel used and like a Libra I am a total push over but feel slightly balanced enough with the little of the littlest things they give they throw me a bone and I throw back a fat healthy cow lol Anyways Thank You for this much needed 411 I will proceed my relationships with leos with caution lol

I date a Leo man.. and more than 90% of what you said doesn't apply to him. We have been together for over 15 years. You pick the wrong men.

I suppose you like pain n abuse to stay with your leo ? or perhaps you found the 1% that is a good guy? poor Jennifurby got one of the 99% s**t heads.

I mean no disrespect in correcting you my dear fmina, but I write of a very long laundry list of Leo men. Friends, boyfriend(s), lover(s), husband(s), employer(s). I hate to break it to you Cox, but my experiences reach far beyond that ONE shithead you refer to.

My feeling go out to you but I'm still suffering them "& there's not much of an escape me yet " so excuse the the intense language I'm using it's difficult but I'm evolving and hope will eventually be able to fly above all this.
have a good one.

Hey let's get a 50 Things I Love About Leo Men. It's only fair. Just remember that Leos have to deal with their egos and self righteous nature more than any other sign in the zodiac. So don't be too hard on them. The ego is already influential and impossible to please as it is. Now imagine being a Leo and having to deal with it, they do after all love attention and admiration and being stroked with praise. All of which associate with the ego. All fire signs can relate to this but, Leos got it most because they are ruled by the beautiful Sun. I will always admire Leos. They got a lot to deal with and when they use their endless inner strength and determination, they always succeed, always. As the sun gives life, the Leo gives life to their dreams and shows us all that it can be done.

You got 2: inner strength & determination. 48 still to go. May I add 'determination to get what he wants even if it means being a total ******* and stepping on people.' You dont get to the top by being nice. LoL

Not all Leo men are the same, they're not all all about appearance and arrogant and ruthless to others.
Just as Sagittarius's are not all liars and players and Libras are not all gullible and people pleasers and Aquariuses are not all aloof and cold and Tauruses are not all lazy and possessive and Cancers are not all manipulative and clingy and Scorpios are not all resentful and dark and Geminis are not all indecisive and superficial etc...
They do have the tendencies according to the Zodiac, but it doesn't make it written in stone!

Well, Judging by your comment, It is apparent to me that you haven't read my other stories which contradict this bloggy (to some extent) and point out many endearing qualities in the Leo man. I would recommend reading it.


ummm can't think of more than one .

once again a sneaky leo male has found a victim. He will suck the life force out of you while thinking about his next woman and as for finding something nice about them I can only think of one they make me laugh .

well said... :)

Thank you! ❤️

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I am a Leo male and I must admit this is me I'm verbally abusive I don't think I know what love is never thought it had anything to do with my sign just thought all of it came from my up bringing I'm a no nonsense person I get along well with other Leo's because I understand them I'm very loyal when I have a reason to be I don't kiss *** don't want u to kiss mines either I just wanna be happy and left alone at times I go all out for those I love care for I buy the best gifts and expect the same in return I'm a leader not a follower like other lame *** signs lay off the Leo's we are cool people we take no **** opinions are like ******** everybody got 1 it's crazy stuff about every sign there lame when it comes to Leo's I am lion hear me ROAR!!!!!!!! Btw I love everything she said bout Leo men I needed to hear that better insight

"I'm very loyal when I have a reason to be." Hmmm... sometimes u leos just put your foot in ur mouth with ur statements, or do you not see it?

What are you saying? You're admitting you're a "Narcissistic *******"? Gifts? They are selfish and give lousy *** gifts because they only think of themselves. Keep "Roaring" somebody is going to knock your "Block" off. Hahahahaha! You talking about you want to be left alone...if people got any sense at all, they wouldn't f&*k with your ***. You should have a warning sign on your forehead that read "Mess with at your own risk"!!

PREEEEEEEACH!! Lol! I am a female Aquarius and I believe I have reached an end with two "friends" who both fall under this sign. I've been cool with both of them for a few years. These two have never met and whenever I would talk about one to the other…how ironic that they both didn't like the sound of each other. Probably because they can sense each others BS. They couldn't be anymore alike...love the same sports teams, constantly put on self-pity parties, constantly bandwagon onto my ideas and never contribute (and in return get jealous when I no longer include their lazy *****) and they certainly don't give a damn about me because everything HAS to be about them! Both have left me hanging to run off to someone else that could possibly "put them on" to something. I believe this saying suites well for male Leos -

"There's something wrong with your character if opportunity controls your loyalty."

I'll be damned if they know anything about loyalty either. I've known other male Leo's and I wasn't friends with them but they were pretty much the same. My sister is a Leo and I can say female Leo's are the true representatives of this sign. Female Leos are fun, outgoing, outspoken, daring and loyal to the max. Males suck a$$.

To also add…my best friend of 12yrs is also a Leo. Again…female Leos are awesome! lol.

I love my loyal Leo women friends. It seems they are always the ones who get screwed over by men though. Have you noticed that, or is it just me?

I have :(

Both my sister and best friend are good hearted people. I mean, everyone has baggage (just gotta find someone who will help you carry it and vice versa) but I have seen them go above and beyond to keep their significant others satisfied. Their relationships either ended up with their partners being unfaithful or just taking advantage of them. My sister says that I give people the benefit of the doubt whereas she doesn't but…I think female Leo's don't like to admit that they do.

I couldn't even begin to explain how accurate this is about the Leo guy I was with!! Never again with them , never

strange how true this is all round the world it seems?

Your words scream bitterness! As a Leo, I am thankful for your thoughts. Now I know what to avoid!

OMG, I thought I was losing my mind. I was the other women for 5 years. I was the woman until he told me his 12 year, junior playmate was pregnant. Told him go be with her, I'm cool. This is how messed up he is, he convinced her to get an abortion. She already had two ADD/HD so body's the daddy kids anyway, he just didn't want them to be by her. A year went by, we caught up again-and yes she did have an abortion. I was furious she had upset my life over *******, so I became the mistress of their relationship for a whole five and a half year. I played that fiddle. He was at my beckon call. My whole goal was to break that ****up just like she had done my relationship. But then, I made the ultimate mistake. I got caught up. I was willing to say and do anything I needed to, to make him leave her. I knew everything that was going on in their relationship, I just never commented on it. I kept it between me and him. He trust me. I turned the tables, started telling him how she had disrespected him over the years, used him like a puppet. He hated her kid cause they use to steal from him. She used him, her family used him. He was convinced. He left her. Only problem is he had no where to go. I had played it so close for so many years, I finally just let him move in. His been here two and a half months, and now I'm her!!! Damn it!!! Everything you wrote in your post is exactly who he is. The worse part about it is, I'm older than him, more educated, and make way more money. He'll never be substantial in this life time. He's a waste. Anyone who get his is my pleasure. Well I guess I'll make it through the winter then dumb his a**. I know this sounds cruel, but he has to learn you can not go around screwing with peoples lives. It just so happens I had the time to teach em the lesson. I'm a Sagittarius, he love my *** and he don't know why. I can run his race, that is his challenge. He is always trying to catch me. Sometimes I let him...but now I'm bored with his lying, cheating, unimaginative, selfish, boring bull****. I know his ex is waiting with open arms. Oh did I think he left her for good...Hell NO! But she will never be me!

Lmfao! I looked online for a rant like this and there are indeed many things you mentioned that speak to my recent experiences with Leo men. I should say I'm a cold blooded saggitarius woman so their negative traits rarely offend. But having male friends that are leos and having casually dated a good few Leo's ... I'm dodging that bullet the next time a Leo man even tries to look my way. Im So over their highmaintanance nature and the lies!!! god help us the sociapathic lying is ridiculous!!! The "me me me whoa is me" show is tiresome. Next.

20 Years worth of marriage down the track and he is the ******* Martyr and I am the ******* *******. Dickhead is so moody.

It seems like you haven't been with a real leo yet and just scumbags " little cats that look at themself at the mirror and think theyr the king of the jungle" for all that history numbered book you wrote makes us believe that all you look for is the worst... if your goal oriented enough you should know howbto determine the difference between a good guy nd a bad one... maybe your just like "US"

Wish you nothing but the best! ;)

Lol and if you think about it....you have to be compatibale to a leo in order to get along with them. Most of yall who agree with this either arent compatibale at all, lieng, or just been with a few thats like that. Not all leo men are as what this blog makez them look. They arent bad people at all...actually they are the most protective when it comes to kids and family. Like you said, they're possesive so they tend to protect anything thats there's. Leo men typically are the type to get jelous but that just makes them hold on more...they dont want to see you with someone elso. And STOP thinking Leo men dont have a ****** heart cause in all actuallity...they have the biggest heart out of most signs.

AMEN Aries :) we have a possessive streak and you better believe that Leo's always have a harem of woman at their beck and call.

Yell, until the woman get to know his ***.....Leo men wear a "Mask" to rill the woman in, once Leo men feel you care, all hell break loose and you'll see them for who they really are, a "Narcissistic"!

Leo don't look for compatibility, they look for any woman who is nice and caring. There is no one who is compatible with those "Monsters".....the "Devil" will show himself, it's just a matter of time.

LMFAO!!! Ok im a leo and so is my boyfriend, so I know how a leo is. You wrote this based off experience with a few. Sure SOME of this is true but most of it isnt. My leo surely isnt lazy, in fact he's more active than me at times, leos are wonderful listeners so talking to him helps,they are funand energetic so you dont get bored with them, yea they tend to be impatient and you may think they are adhd or bipolar but if you pay close attention to the animal Lion....so are they. #44 is the one I laughed at the most because mine has NEVER done that, #45 is kind of true because they know what sneaky looks like because they are but they also know that nobody like routine all the time, and last but not least ##49..... This isnt true because me and my leo have been together for 3 almost 4 years now :)....and yes we leos tend to have the appearence that we're crazy buuuut that just makes us more fun to be around!

This is so true!!! I am a Scorpio and this hit hard! Leo men will have you going especially with Scorpios we are so black and white Leo men play games

Totally and absolutely freaking true!! I have tried to date two Leo's and I'm convinced they have borderline personality disorder! Some very cowardly, insecure, boring men. I recently had one who started giving me the cold shoulder after proclaiming his love for me and telling me how he didn't know if he should marry or just stay cool with me. I'm thinking to myself...as if I'm giving you the control to say yes to me. I think its the woman that decides if I will say yes to you. So once he started giving me the cold shoulder after being so hot and heavy and not responding to my texts; the Virgo in me ememerged. I sent him a text basically ******* with his poor ego and pride. Ofcourse he suddenly reappears...I told him basically that he has some issues, insecurities and I hope he deals with it. He deleted me off his facebook page like a *****. Coward! I blocked him. No need to keep the door open because they like to think you somehow will come back. Not this Virgo! I have my jungle too.

you done well to get away.

Pretty much true. Leos are rude and love to make fun of others. Theyre here today gone tomorrow.

This is what I have been dealing with, and have slowly realized, after 14 years of dealing with the same, BS-ridden Leo Man. I allowed this man to get in my head, ruin my marriage, impregnate me, and leave me high and dry with nothing left. He only wants to be around when I have something to offer, and he helps me with nothing. I'm tired of this man, worn out from his shenanigans, n when I'm done with school n transferring far, far away.

Honey, run as fast as you can before he make you sick.....worrying and stressing you into illness....

Wow! I was skeptical of this list at first, but this describes my father to a T!!! Crazy.

Omg this is so true, geniuos funny but totally indeed true, they are horrible people, not doubt ( bad side) .. I have a bless reading this so funny, I cant stop laughing . I date a lot Leos, they follow me but I usually get tired of them because they are so pity and arrogants to the max, I can't stand people like them... I am a Sagittarius so I beat them without regret, they are not worth it, if they are as you describe them, few exceptions, I must said I always dump them but they love me I don't know why, fire sign too, an certain point i get tired of them...so much work like a having twins or baby sitting somebody, they need to be so whining, like such girls ...are boring people or become boring , anyway thanks for you extremely funny article

Good for "You"!

right. on. point! glad i got out of that one!

However, on the other hand, and to be brutally honest, the one thing that causes Leos a lot of problems is their ego. If we could simply realize that our "pride" is not the most Important thing in a relationship ,and we could stop being so "ego centric"...we will be happy and stop all the lying, attention seeking antics, jealousy and insecurities, impatience,taking other people for granted,disrespect and wanting to feel superior all the tyme..it's unnecessary...but it's only the evolved and more mature Leos who have been able to stop behaving like their pride is their life...

None of this crap is true..okay we love attention but some of us have the confidence to be real...and considerate...not all Leos are duecbags...they may lie sometimes in order to put on a fake façade so as to impress you, but it's not because what they feel for you is fake...they just have a natural sense of pride...Leos are extremely loyal lovers...those who cheat are just weirdo's...We are not afraid of dramatically expressing our feelings for you...it's always sincere...even if it's repeated...Scorpio women are just weird and hide their feelings ALL tha damn tyme...so u Neva know where u stand with them...that's manipulative behavior right there....

I don't believe you ... is your name Marcus Roberto from Romania LOL

He's caught up in his own fairy tale. Sigh....

forever the attention seekers lol

50 broad statements to determine a group of people who just happen to be born between certain months is kinda like opening a fortune cookie right? I'm a leo and some of what you said is hilariously true but a bunch of it is completely off, w/e it was a fun read.

I thought it was all men. Damn those Leos!

hi don\'t use the word Men for that load of boys , men have learnt how to behave around people all those dam pus*ies have learned to do is spray up your parked cars tyres.

I have been married to one for "23 YEARS"...!!! He identifies himself with the "Puss in Boots" cat. Have you seen it? It's that cartoon cat that looks at you with these big simpleton "I did not do it" look in his big innocent looking eyes, vain, vain, after it did some mischief. And my "honey" laughs at it. I love my guy, or I think I do, but most of anything, I feel sorry for him. Besides having been born in August, he is an alcoholic....with MAJOR binges. On our honeymoon night he crashed out, and by now I think he was wasted when he said his part at our Church wedding. Next day, his eyes, big and blue, would open up and he'd look so innocent, make me laugh, with his jokes (mainly about me). For years he would call me "my little monkey", and I'd forgive him, and love him again. He is not aggressive or abusive when he drinks. He just goes to sleep. Like a cat. Sleeps and sleeps. So for years, I thought that his nightshift well paid job was too much on him and he would sleep from exhaustion, or he was sick. So I was a good wife and did everything to make him feel comfortable. We worked "hard" on good jobs, and we made us a little nest. Throughout the years, when I would gently bring up the issue of his drinking that he did at home, he had a way of making me feel guilty about talking about it. We could never have kids, but I was pregnant with child on our first year of our wedding, and unfortunately had a miscarriage. He (a Leo), and his family (his mother and father also LEOs), "ignored" the issue, even though I ended up in the hospital. They made me feel like maybe I had never been with child, so I would not even bring up the subject at all. After that incident, I could not have children again. For years, I felt that I could handle any misunderstandings that resulted from his "light" drinking that I was noticing. Seven years ago, however, I discovered that he was actually an "alcoholic". By that time, his company of 19 years had started to monitor his work behavior and he was eventually fired. I didn't know about it until I noticed that he was staying home for over two weeks, and I found the termination notice. He gave me all kind of reasons about how unfair he had been treated, etc., etc. He didn't look for another job. By then, I was not working (a mutual agreement) due to the onset of my illness. Cancer. He NEVER AGAIN showed up to any of my chemo treatments or accompanied to my 33 radiation treatments after he accompanied me to my first chemo treatment, and he didn't stay around for it. He said "it was too much for him", and that was it. When I asked him at least to meet my doctors, he would promise to go; but there was always an excuse and never showed up. I felt guilty of having cancer, so I drove myself to the center, receive my chemo, and later my radiation treatments, and then drive myself back home. His mother ( in another town) convinced me that my cancer had to be kept sort of quiet. After chemo sessions, I had to continue being a "good wife". Sex when he wanted, and also the daily cooking, cleaning, washing and folding, etc. I decided to have one of the bedrooms as my nursery room so as to not be bothersome to him; and he would show up every day to say hello, and if he "needed" me, we went to our master bedroom. If I were to find him downstairs drinking in front of the TV, he would ignore my pleas to stop. He would join me to have dinner (which I cooked, and heaven forbid if I ever cooked the same type of meat I had cooked the prior day, or cooked with no meat; no anger, but you "heard it" over and over during dinner). Dinner always in front of the TV; forget the nicely furnished dinning room I had cared to arrange for years. No niceties, no cards, no flowers, no favors. Indirectly, he would me feel that he was "suffering" from the situation, so many times I felt the compulsion to go out of my way to make him feel better. So I decided to disregard any discomfort from my illness and its treatment and instead to help him recover from his "suffering". Mowing the lawn after coming back from my radiation treatment was my necessary taks, because he "did not feel like" doing it, or was "too tired" (a drinking thing), and we had to avoid the neighborhood penalties and "looks". Like I said, I had to keep "hush hush" about my cancer, until one of my friends found out and she got angry with me about it; then, I had all the support with meals, flowers, cards, from my 3-4 circle of friends. My only family was his, and I just took this their "hush-hush" behavior as a matter of fact with them, so I never received any card or calls from them during my treatments. My faith kept me alive, daily Mass and constant prayers, and even in my worst moments in felt an inner strength. I have never considered my "Leo" to be a monster; he just does not know how to cope. In human nature, it is the result of being too egocentric and narcissist, big ego, and vain. The day I found out about his alcoholism was when I found about 30 empty one-litter bottles of VODKA in the back of the water heater. It was his 'hidden den". Of course, I hit the ceiling, or maybe it was that the "ceiling hit ME", and it was like if my eyes opened. Since, it has been HELL, literally!!! When I read your blog the first time, I laughed, and laughed, and cried, and cried, and then would laugh again, then cry again. My life with my "Leo" includes 3 years now living under his "mommy"'s wings; we have no house (sold), and every penny from its proceeds is gone. Our 401K's gone. Our retirement money gone. Our savings gone. Last year I was lucky to find a permanent PT job, but pays little. We live in this tiny little cottage, that served as a storage room for his "mom and dad" for many years. I had to "clean it" and paint it and make it livable. My "Leo" finds jobs, and keeps them sometimes for a week, or a month, or at mos,t 3 months, then he just doesn't show up, and waits 3-4 months to start looking for a job again. So we have depleted our savings and live from paycheck to paycheck. All in all, EVERY SINGLE THING YOU SAID IN YOUR BLOG ABOUT A LEO MAN PERSONALITY IS 100% TRUE; I mean #1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 10, 11, 12, 13 ,14, 15!!!!, etc.etc,. I can truly say that I haven't experienced the "another woman" thing, but I can truly affirm that if there was one or had been one, "Vodka" would be her name. I believe I am healing now, though. Like I said, I have my own little job, which although does not permit me yet to be independent, it has given me some self worth perspective, and already have gave him an ultimatum. I have conveyed my plans to move to another city for a while where I am searching for a better job. Well, the blinds that covered my eyes are gone, totally. I only wished I had read your blog 23 years ago!!! It is all totally "funny" and "sad", but I only hope and pray that your blog, and comments on this blog, help many men, or people like my "Leo" to consider discernment of their actions and consequences. I sometimes think that some men like my "Leo" have a presumption that they still live in the nineteenth century. My "Leo" sometimes realizes that his attitude in life is not the most commendable, and I try not to make him feel too guilty about his ineptitude when I see him trying. Life is short anyway and I am a Christian. I love him, and I always felt that he needed my help; but I also feel a deep sorry for people like him. Unfortunately, he is an alcoholic, and a "binge" alcoholic on top, and now I know that alcoholics can only help themselves, and this only if they make their own decision to stop drinking. So in the meantime, it is that when my "Leo" falls back into that deep abysm of alcoholism, his "Leo" super ego and narcissism, which in the end only results in a nihilistic behavior, resurges with much power to destroy him, and me. I am no saint, nor victim, ( I do yell at him often when I see him drinking so much; and it is mostly and too often in fact, but by now I can't take it anymore). I stood by my man, but enough is enough. When I look back, I only see that our lives have been like Hell, and that we are bankrupt, not only financially, but spiritually and emotionally. Of course, he denies that anything is wrong. He is eternally in denial.....he is "perfect". Nothing that has ever happened has been his fault, or mine. Like he says, "he is the most pure person on earth, and the kindest, and the most generous, etc.". And when he is drunk, "you just "nag", **** happens, then you die". Well, no more "nagging", 23 years of it is enough..... To you all, my only advice is, it is true that we must not judge a character by a horoscope sign or birth month, and that we must always believe in the inherent good nature of human beings, but also we must beware....., and that goes for everyone and everything in life.

My God I wish I could fine a woman as strong and kind as you. I too have learnt a lesson like this .
I now have to suffer work with a boss who\'s a leo and shows extreme narcissistic traits.
wish you luck in your recovery .

WOW!! \"God\" has to be there keeping you strong (Foot Prints), you have been through a lot! \"God\" bless \"You\" my prayers goes out to \"You\" stay strong in \"The Lord Jesus Christ\" he is the only answer!!

I am a 28 yr old leo. I love my family, wife, and kids. I never once cheated on a girlfriend in my life. I buy my wife and kids anything their hearts desire. Matter of fact my wife is a leo too so is my mom. My loving wife had her 37th birthday today, I took her to the nail shop for a manny and pedi also dropped my daughter off at tumbling lessons went back to the nail shop to get my wife drove her to the mall and purchased her and my daughter brand new coach purses. Went out for dinner at a place of her choosing daughter included of course I picked up the tab got them home safely put the truck in the garage put the kids to bed made love to my beautiful wife. I am educated and hardworking man who loves nothing more than to be his family, so I would have to disagree with this blog my leo mother born august 18th gave birth to me august 14th loved me and talked to me as a child and let me know the importance of respecting women so I would say there are some good leos in the world... thank you -gudguy-

Awww...what a cozy little den.

yep reading his reply he\'s a leo alright perfect life lol.

I don\'t believe you, not one bit....you\'re dreaming! Wake up narcissistic \"Leo\"! I might have believed your wife or daughter...you\'re trying to make people believe your life is \"Perfect\"..... seeking narcissistic supply. Lol!

Hahahaha...OMG!! Dont u see the irony in your situation? U r 28, ur wife is 37 & u r running around buying her 'stuff' to keep her happy? Clearly you r her bi*ch & she is one up on u. A family of superficial leos, to a tee! She must be 'hot' or giving u good ** or u wud hv none of this. Hahaha.

Oedipus complex? Trying to replace a Leo mother figure with an older Leo wife? Heck, anything's possible with a Leo.

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50/50 on this one. Couldn't agree more. Stay far far away from Leo man, he can be much worse than portrayed on here. He is an unfaithful lying beast, he will break you down and tear you apart until you are nothing and have nothing.

100%.....preach Littlesag, you\'re right on point! They are \"Vampires\" who suck the \"Life\" out of any person who deal with them. Leo men should have a sign on their forehead stating \"Mess with at your own risk\"! They are detrimental to any human being that deal with them! My advice to them are \"Run, Run\"!

My son's father to the T... wow . Thank you for laying out so well. Great Job!!

OMG, it's so true lol!!! I found all leo guys I met were totally boring, lazy and sneaky.
Ladies, stay away from them once you knew they're leo. I have leo brother, coworker and few exs.

This sh*t is right on point, Leo's are narcissistic....very sick individuals!! "BEWARE"!!!

yep I can second that!

omg!!!!! This sounds so much like an ex-boyfriend of mine! Are you sure we did not date the same guy? He did not give me a Mother's Day card, hated my kid, bragged about his, and constantly had to be entertained. If I was not around he would tell me that I was the reason he would "get into trouble". Arrogant beyond belief. I truly do not think he knows what love is. Now he is grasping at straws trying to find a family because he has not cultivated any roots at 50 years of age. Unbelievable!!!! Now he wants me back - looking for the next meal ticket- what a user!!!

My God you have just described two my friends wifes, an old CPO, a boss and my Mother to an absolute T! There isn't one item that is of exaggeration or untrue in these observations. I must confess I've read this many times now and am still laughing but on a serious note I feel deeply sorry for the victims of this sort of person , throwing away there lives " usually there youth " I am born to a leo woman and love her as my mother but even as a very young boy felt the pain of my Dad and I'm not exaggerating as I used to hear the arguments n lies told about him and still do.I can'not see any good points about this type of person apart from the fact they entertain with there shallowness n transparent deceit n lies lol.I suppose as a Scorpio I have a repulsion to bullies bullsh*ters n a**holes but unfortunately am surrounded by them. Incidentally I'm hitched to a Scorpio woman who's mother was a leo too and yes we have a lot of life to repair. Good luck with repairing yours and hear no evil from those who deny there nature.