I Can't Help But Judge

Whenever I see a pregnant woman smoking or drinking, I feel disgusted inside and I can't help but frown or shake my head in pity. I feel very critical towards the mother as well. I get smoking is an addiction but some have quit cold turkey like my sister in law has with both her kids. I also read that doctors may tell their pregnant patients to not quit cold turkey and to slowly quit by smoking less cigarettes a day or to slowly quit or else they would put stress on the body.

I think people should try and quit smoking first before getting knocked up or use protection until they are done smoking.

I also get that having some drinks doesn't effect the baby inside you but if you drink too much then it does but I still can't help but judge and feel disgusted at the mother if I see her drinking.

I just try and not react to it or else I may draw negative attention because they may see me shaking my head or frowning . I do not like conflicts.
girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety
26-30, F
May 18, 2012