Always On My Mind..

I am in a relationship of a few months and i must say i am quite happy with my bf .Everything was going on smooothly, sudeenly one day i noticed a cute boy near my house,he was waiting at the bus-stop, i glanced at him but he did'nt saw me.He was like cute not very handsome and attractive but likeable.That day passed and i did'nt gave much thought to the incident.Then by coincidence or destiny, i dont have a clue,i saw the same boy again after a few weeks at another gift store,to my suprise .he gave me a smile and i like a completely idotic dumb girl smiled at him and stared at him like anything.Just before i could realise,he was gone....Now my problem is i keep on thinking about him...i dont know a thing about him..his name,address,his work...and to add to my problems..i haven't seen him for sometime now...I dont know whats this..but i cant stop thinking about this guy!!! Simetimes i feel like i am cheating on my bf...but still cant control d urges of emtion..
sweetheartchulbuli sweetheartchulbuli 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4, 2012

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Ur not satisfied w/ ur own relationship is probably what's causing this

You deserve it, you sound so sweet yourself. Someone nice like you deserve to have a happy and fulfilling life. I feel confident that you will be very successful as well. I'll be often thinking of you Sweetheartchulbuli.


Hope you don't mind me saying, but I think a voice is saying "I'm not ready to be serious. I don't want to be alone, yet I'm not as ready as he is. By just thinking about someone at the bus stop is not serious."

Yes it is, at least for yourself, or else you would not have written about it.

Take all the time you want, think about it. Then go dancing, or visit an old friend, make some new friends and enjoy life.

I know that you will be just fine.

As my generation says: "Lighten up" and "have a ball"

Such a sweet mature advice..thank u.