Thirteen And Silent, Until Now

There is nothing for anyone else to forgive her for. She was used and abused... She needs to forgive herself for the way she feels about herself. The way is forward, yes I agree yet it is hard to go forward when your emotions and desires are not stable. BELIEVE me.

She doesn't need to commit to no damn religion or any slave moralist belief system.

Slave moralist belief system... hmm.. in what way is it slavery?

If your a christian you are a servant(slave) of the christain god, if your still don't under stand study some Nietzsche.

This is beautiful, thank you very much. I had to change my log in because i forgot all details. But i am the ownder of the story above.

what a load of waffle. complete waffle, just like this story. this wasn't "RAPE" either.

What part of my comment is waffle?

What wasn't rape either...??? I believe you don't understand what 'consent' in a legal terms means....

Sorry, I had to change my ID name because i forgot my password and could not log back in. So here i am, i thought since i have caused such a stirr with my story that i should step up and say something.

Fisrt I want to say thank you to all the support that i have had from SOME people, and to the rest. I find it very sad that you should hold those insulting views, i though only children still called people that kind of names. Any how, there is a reason why there is a age of consent and that is children, like I was then are not mentally ready for all the psychological weight that sex carries with it. Men took advatage of my fragility and pressured me for sex, while i could have had said no, i had not the strengh neither the self belief to think i my life could be different. It is now that i have grown up, when in reflection of that time, i see that i deserved so much more. I see that children need to be further protected from sexual predators, like those that took advatage of me. If i could go back, i would send them all to jail for they were adults and they should have had the reason to let me be a child and respect me for it.

I know that in Canada there aren't any time limits where sexual assault is concerned. I have an uncle who is going to face those charges one day. All it takes is for a person to have the strength to ignore their hopelessness... the feeling that having people who harmed them charged is useless since it happened so long ago. I want to charge a woman, yet I have several problems for me. I was too young to even know her name. I was only 24 to 30 months old. Old enough to remember, and too young to know what the consequences for me were. Yet, it is right for them to be charged. Many sexual predators have more than one victim before they are arrested. It takes one courageous person to declare their actions for what they were. Others then step forward, or find a person to help them, so that the abuser can face reality and the chance to Understand what they did is wrong, why it was wrong, and to prevent them from having more victims in the future. Predators can change. They just need to see reality not their dream to desire to change.

There's a word for people like you, and that's a douche.

am i wrong?

http://www.sanctuaryweb.com/reenactment.php
"People have a strong compulsion to repeat traumatic experiences, sometimes overtly but more frequently in a disguised, often highly symbolized, way. These reenactments which consist of the repeated establishment of the traumatic scenario that then gets relived over and over can come to dominate a person’s entire life and are comprised."
Question: How does taking a dump on this kid help her?
How does judging her help her to get over this?
...Or did you say what you said to make yourself feel better about you, by tearing someone down?

i simply called it how i see it. it's right there in the text, she knows she's been around, slept with 50 guys. now she's ashamed. it's her own fault isn't it.

A lot of it was still statutory rape.
Calling her nasty names does not help her, nor does it change the past.
...Does it make you happy to decide she's not worth caring about?

i never said that. and no, it's not rape. in colombia the age of consent is 12, 13 in japan, 12 in mexico, 12 in panama, i could go on. the point is she was biologically ready apparently, by her own admission. she chose to have a metric ton of sex with 50 different guys, why should she qualify for sympathy here? -she posted this stating that she was raped, when it was entirely consensual. completely misleading.

I wouldn't say entirely consensual...and the idea of a 12-year-old being mature enough to give sexual consent? No.
Why do people have to "qualify" to be cared about?
I see a suffering person, period, and I rather think she's suffered enough.
...One of the kindest people I ever met online was someone who was still a working prostitute. She'd had sex with thousands of men.
That doesn't render her suffering any less valid-in fact, as she co-operated with most of her own exploitation, she feels much worse.
....This girl was pressured into sex by an older man.
The result was she stopped caring about herself, so she let anyone use her.

i don't agree with you, but there really is no sense in discussing it further since we seem to have gone over everything already.

*sigh*

No a **** is a woman that loves to have sex, not get raped.

It's know that women who are sometimes raped to get hypersexually active.

In Yemen the age of consent is 15. The legal age to be married doesn't exist to the best of my knowledge. Would you call a 40-something man honourable if he has his 9-year-old wife sleeping with him? She's living with him. He is her husband It is his right to be with his wife, right?

Would you say 9-year-olds are too young? She's married... is it rape? Eeraz... be honest.

honorable? these are different mindsets, from different cultures. and no i wouldn't agree with that, just like i don't agree with mohammad, the prophet of islam marrying and having sex with aisha, his 7 year old wife.

here is a quote on a definition of rape: for the offence of rape to have been committed the defendant must have penetrated you without your consent, or continued to penetrate you after you withdrew your consent, and the defendant must not have reasonably believed that you were consenting.

this girl in this thread consented, and regretted it after the fact. this is simply not rape.

Different Cultures Different Mid Sets. In HER Culture Those under the age of consent, usually 16 or 17 year of age, are considered to be incapable of making informed sexual decisions. They are incapable largely due to their immaturity. They are not mentally or emotionally mature enough to make the choice of their own free will. They can be manipulated or pressured into having sex. Thus She was Raped. So... what is your 'Cultural' mindset Eeraz?

so, 16 is the age of consent in england, i was 17, my girlfriend was 14. pretty sure we both consented. i'm using that as an example to show you that the age of consent means nothing to the individual, when you are ready, you are ready. this girl was. she liked the guy she was with, she found him attractive. i don't know how many times i have to go over this. she consented, felt bad after, possibly even years after, after she had sex with 50 different guys. she loves sex, obviously.

It is so interesting that there is a theory around people who tend to repeat their tramatic stories. I think certanly that played a part in my life. Sometimes i actually did not want to have sex, but i felt that i had to it. that i had to enjoy it. in some twisted way, i took pleasure in my own abuse. That in itself i think it is now, one of the hardest things that i have had to come to terms with.

It is so interesting that there is a theory around people who tend to repeat their tramatic stories. I think certanly that played a part in my life. Sometimes i actually did not want to have sex, but i felt that i had to it. that i had to enjoy it. in some twisted way, i took pleasure in my own abuse. That in itself i think it is now, one of the hardest things that i have had to come to terms with. Thank you for your support. I had never told anyone this. But being here has made me feel human again.

thank you.

Please get help. For yourself. For your future. Have them ALL charged.

in a nutshell! yes.

at 15 i would not expect you to understand. we can talk again in another 15 years. All the best.