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My Ex Wont Leave Me Alone

i lived with my previous partner for 11 years and for the last 5 of those there was nothing but arguments me kicking him out every weekend, some of those were my fault and some had a lot to do with his idea that all women wanted was to stay at home and be lazy!!! well i wasnt one of those !!! other times it was over his gambling or me being stuck at home or the fact that he woulnt shut up. the best part was that he always called his mother every two days and actually told her mer of his feelings than he told me in fact i think i remember him saying not long before we broke up that he put her first!!!!! before me and the kids!!! anyway to the point ,we broke up 18 months ago and i am still receiving explicit text messages and phone calls some of which the kids hear. what im really sick of is the "ill take the kids if u give me a bit " im so over it!!!!!!!!!!! i mean he constantly calls and asks to take them or see them but when i tell him that wont be involved he immediatly changes his mind. he then goes on to say that im stopping him from seeing the kids. id just lik to know when this sicko will get on with his life?????????????

spunkratnotfat spunkratnotfat 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2009

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I used to have a girlfriend I dated for 6 months (IT). First one ever. She was great, until we had an arguement about her wanting sex, and me not being ready for it. we broke up shortly after.<br />
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IT went around school telling everyone who would listen that I was an ***, I had a small ****, i was a ***. (all untrue of course, we hadn't even HAD sex)<br />
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I would constantly get phone calls on my cell. IT would call my house at 1,2,3 AM, IT or her friends, or her boyfriend.<br />
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This went on for about 6 months.<br />
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after about 8 months, I found another girl, I was with her for just under 4 years, and during this time, she got calls, I got calls. we both got out homes egged, and she went so far as to call my place of work, talk to my mother (who worked in accounting) and tell her that I had gotten her pregnant and she had an apartment for us.<br />
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She also emailed my then-girlfriend and told her she had had sex with me in a park and other times when we were together (all untrue, again) strange thing is, I dont know how she got her email.<br />
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I've been away from my 4 year EX for about 4 years now, and i still talk to her, and apparently she STILL gets calls once in a while and once she even had IT follow her home.<br />
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It's finally stopped, as IT is now married with children. It took a total of over 8 years for this **** to end. <br />
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My advice would be to add him to your cell phone contacts, assign him an inaudible ringtone (record silence or something) and change his name to "Do not answer".<br />
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If you have a house phone, call your phone company, they will/can block his number from calling your house.<br />
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As for your kids, Does he pay child support? If he does, he has a right to see them. If not, F him.<br />
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He sounds like a douche.<br />
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as for the texts, save them and contact the police. after enough they will do something about it.<br />
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Good luck with all your future endeavors.<br />
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AJ