I Do Care--even Though Some People Think I Don't

That's why it's so f*cking hard for me to tell someone I don't want to do something or I don't like something.  I will suffer through practically ANYTHING just to make someone else feel good or be happy.  Sometimes it's even for people I hardly know; just to make them like me.  Now, pleasing people and making them happy I enjoy at times, but other times? I don't usually lie if they want to hear something, but I will try to make it easier to take, you know?  They want to hear something so bad I don't want to make it worse by my choice of words so I try to...cushion it?  Another reason why I haven't broken up with my guy yet...

filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
22-25, F
1 Response Feb 25, 2009

You are in a boat like so many people. Always trying to make everybody like them. Just know that you aren't alone. Really hate to think that you are in a relationship that you do not want to be in just so you won't hurt his feelings. That's going a little to far. Think of your own happiness dear. Good luck and take care. Remember it's ok that you can't please everyone. Sometimes someone will come around and they won't like you no matter how hard you try.