My mother is 94 and in an assisted care living center. She was in control of all of her facilities until I took control of he Fininical amd Medical affairs. She didn't give up easily either. Her assisted care living center bill is mailed to me so she doesn't see it. Her drug bill is also mailed to me as I write all of her checks, and I take her to all of her doctors appointments also. Now I am the one caring for her. Moms eye sight is good but not great and her hearing is going south and her Dimentia is setting in. She out lived my Dad by 22 years so far and out lived her parents, 2 sisters and her only brother. Of her imediate family she is the last one.