I Haven't, But I Want To

I've only had sex with two people in my life: my ex, my current wife and I had my finger in a third one's ***** when I was a teenager. Now I have the itch to know what it would be like with other women. That leaves me two options: either cheat on her or wait until she dies first. I'd rather choose the first option.
moppister moppister
31-35, M
3 Responses Jul 12, 2010

Just remember with this 50% inevitability, you don't have to 'round up' like you traditionally do in math ;-) <br />
I'm totally with you about not knowing what the hell is wrong with me. The heart wants what it wants, but other body parts want what they want too, lol

It's not as much a solid plan like I maybe make it sound, maybe 50% fantasy and 50% inevitability that I know is bound to happen sooner or later when an opportunity too good to resist knocks on the door.<br />
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I really do get everything in my marriage, so I don't even know what the hell is wrong with me. My ex was totally wrong to me, she became my ex as I realized that... nothing to do with my own intentions.

So you're actually contemplating doing this... knowingly? deliberately? Do her feelings enter into it? Yes, I know, I'm being a hypocrite as I had an affair. I'm not excusing it, or absolving myself; I got caught up in the excitement of someone different, and gave myself license to do it because I wasn't getting what I needed from my marriage (things are much better now, most damage repaired, I believe.<br />
So, it sounds like you're not getting much out of your marriage? How did your ex become your ex, if I may ask?<br />
I just think it's a bit alarming that you seem to be planning to do this, but you don't mention that you have a chosen paramour... <br />
Keep BOTH EYES OPEN. Friendly advice. Don't mean to **** you off. Take it for what it's worth.