Still Together

My fiance and I have been friends since high school. We are engaged now and having a baby soon. He has cheated on me three times that I found out on my own. He slept with this girl,took her lots of places,and even sent her romantic texts. When I found out I left him and he apologized to her for me calling her and asking her questionsiI was hurt to this day I still think about it I cry sometimes. He wanted a baby and now he's saying he didn't. Im insecure about myself. I lost all confidence in my self. Guys will look at me but once they see my baby bump they turn away fast. I know im pretty but like I said I've lost confidence at least toward him. Today he told me to leave and I couldn't. Don't get me wrong there are wonderful things he's done for me that I do appreciate my I feel so sad when I catch him looking at other women.
wetlashes wetlashes
22-25
1 Response Sep 10, 2012

LEAVE HIM! This is coming from a guy who has cheated. LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY. He does not deserve you and you deserve to be happy.

I am going to say this to you, and i don't want it to go in one ear and out the other:
THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT WILL LOVE YOU EVEN BETTER THAN THIS GUY HAS EVER DONE!

But you will never find them if you stay tied down to this creep. It is obvious the relationship is over.

I dated a pregnant woman and I fell in LOVE with her. I didn't plan on it, she just turned out to be an AMAZING woman. She was 8months pregnant by the way, but she was the loveliest creature I was ever blessed to be with. Her husband was a cheating monster, but I was attracted to how she handled it all. It was her confidence that made me love her. I fell in love with her strength.

Hope these words help. Keep us posted!