My Wife Cheated On Me..We have been married for 15 years. We have three daughters. About a year ago I started noticing changes on my wife's behavior. She was always on the phone texting. I didn't think anything of it at first, but after a while I noticed that she carried her phone with her 24/7. She became distant towaards me. We started having sex less snd less. I asked several times and she always answered that she didn't know what was going on, that she thought she had a hormone problem, and maybe that was the reason that she didn't want to be intimate with me. Of course I didn't believe her because the few times that we had sex she enjoyed it, or at least that is what she made me think. Anyways, I confronted her, so she confessed that she was talking to one of her customers at the insurance office where she works at. She said that it was nothing else going on. So of course i was furious, she said that she was gonna stop talking to him and that she was sorry. I belived her, big mistake. Our relationship got a little bit better, not as before, but everything was slowly getting back to normal. A few months later she strter to go out with a "grilfriend" after work. Like to grab some lunch, or do her nails, which I don't see anything wrong with that. The thing was that she never answer phone calls during that time, somethimes she even turnrd off her phone. Sothat went on for a couple o monts. On november she asked me if she could go with her friend to San Antonio, Tx, which is about 4hrs away. They were gonna goto pick up a car for her friend mom. Ok, she went that night so they could be back by the morning cause she had to work. By that time I had noticed that her mestrual period had stop for a couple of months, and I noticed her brest alittle biger than usual. She said that it was because of the stress. I know stress can mess up women's mestrual period, I don't think it will make your brest grow. Anyways I didn't believe her, but I just didn't say nothing. Later that month I went to pick her up so we could got some lunch. When she got in the car she ssaidthat she forgot someting, so she got offand left her purse there. I heard a beeping sound out of her purse. It was her phone, she had gotten a message. I don't know why, but I opened her purse and gt her cell (that was the 1st time that I got int her purse). So I saw messages from another man, love messages, back and foward. I I called the # and this guy answer thinking it was her calling. I confronted him, I went off on him, so he hangedoff. When my wife got back in the car she saw me with her phone and got mad. She even got ofended cause I got her phone. That that was the reason she was doing that, becausei was alwas in her business, that I nevergave her trust. That she was sorry,that it was just talking. Since that day webeen growing appart, looks that she doesn't care about the marriage, like she's proud of what she did. The weard thing is that she says that she wants to stay together. I staid with that doubt about the time she went to SA with her friend. About a month ago I was checking my insurance activity online, so I clicked on claims. I saw something that make want to die. I saw a claim from the hospital. They charged mi insurance; delivery room, recovery room, medication to sspeed up labor. Icalled her, and she didn't know what to say. Everything sahwed that she was pregnantand she eather had an abortion, or a miscarege. I know she wasn't pragnant from me cause we rarely had sex and the few times, I made sure she didn't get preg. With all problems I didn't want to bring a baby this environment. Finally she told me that it was her friend. That she took some pills to have an abortion, that she didn't went to SA. That her friend didn't take any ID and that she had to register her friend, but since she had no money, no insurance, she used her info. Of course I don't believe her. The next day she got home, she told me that her period had started and that she was super tired. I don't think that was a coinsidence. I filed for divorce already, but she doesn't know it yet..
juan76 31-35, M 11 Responses 4 Jun 13, 2011